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writes:this is a really lobg story but i need to get the point across im 19 yrs of age just last summer i was going out with this guy (20), he was nothing but nice to me he treated me like a princess and made me laugh every day and i treated him really badly because no one had ever been so good to me and i thought it was too good to be true but i was wrong.the last night i saw him he left early from a night out with the boys to come over to my house and sort things out and i just wouldnt talk to him about it he tried his best and i just shut him out i didnt realise then that he was actually being sincere, it felt so weird the first couple of days not being with him every day anymore, me and my friend got really drunk about two days after that and i ended up sending him a txt saying it was definetly finished and he was to come round and pick up his stuff but when i sobered up i regreted it and over the next few days i called him and texted him he was really dry wth me in the first few but just stoped replying after that i finally got through to him on his mobile and i ended up in tears he said he needed some time to sort himself out i should have just sorted things out the night he came to my house but i didnt and now i realise it could have been the biggest mistake ive ever made. recently ive started seeing one of his friends nothing serious ..and hes got a new non serious gf too, i ended up speaking wif my ex on the fone in the new guys house and he was realy weird wif me i just want him back more than ever i feel sick with anger when i think of what ive done is there any hope?...plz help me S.L thnx
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (19 October 2006):
 hey, thanks for the response. If you can learn something from this, then this experience happened the way it did for a reason. I hope your healing continues. take care.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx for the really good advice guys!!! its good to hear a mans point of view....and just to update on the situation i know for a fact that his friend that im seeing is stringing me along ive got what i deserverd i hate sounding as if im feeling sorry for myself but its payback ..without trying to sound to cheesy im just glad hes happy.. i honestly think i love him if its meant to be then its meant to be ..if its not then maybe its better it ended when it did before something worse happened...i just cant get over it ive never felt like this in my life before. i suppose i'll just have to wait and see how things turn out ...thanks again for the advice guys xXx
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (17 October 2006):
If you are really serious bout mending things with him, the dating his friend (even if it is nothing serious) is not going to help prove your sincerity, given how badly you wrecked it for yourself.
Drop the drama you are creating. You need it, but since things were going too good, you had to create the drama. Instead, you needed to find ways for the two of you to experince different drama TOGETHER. THAT is why I think you did what you did.
Stop dating his friends.
My book on Emotional Needs might give him some insights as to why you did what you did. I totally belevie that you care for him. Now he needs to know it. My book can show him that.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (17 October 2006):
 There is hope. You just have to give him the time he asked you for. There is really nothing you can do at this time but move on. You screwed up and its perfectly okay. People make mistakes because were human. You have to learn from it so if and when he comes back you will be a better person.
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