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I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 9 March 2010: "That if you really care for someone you put their happiness before yours and do everything you can to make them happy"
Women often use this line... if you loved me, then my happiness is all that matters.
But in a partnership, what about the m... (read in full...)
I have discovered my mother has left my sister everything in her will, this is the final straw after the years of abuse my mother gave me as a child
Q. I have just discovered a will my mother has made 2 years ago. she has left my sister everything, lot of land, large house, money and everything that she owns. she has left me her share in a piece of land that there is a legal battle to ownership ...
A. 1 March 2010: Ah.. Thanks for the follow up, nearly missed you there..
So sorry it didn't work out for your mum, but you asked and now your making your own path in life... so sorry my dear.
She may be telling the truth, she may be trying to buy your sisters... (read in full...)
Why is it only the mans biology that's considered when discussing porn in relationships?
Q. Okay, so there's lots of questions here about men and porn, and relationships being destroyed over it. But what i'd really like to know here, is why it's only mens feelings and biology considered? So men are more sexually driven than women, they are ...
A. 1 March 2010: Would it be suitable, if men were to put up a similar post with tons of men agreeing that there is something wrong with women? How do the answers here help in anyway to solve sex or relationship issues?... (read in full...)
Why is it only the mans biology that's considered when discussing porn in relationships?
Q. Okay, so there's lots of questions here about men and porn, and relationships being destroyed over it. But what i'd really like to know here, is why it's only mens feelings and biology considered? So men are more sexually driven than women, they are ...
A. 27 February 2010: I'm assuming your meaning me.. no problem... can take criticism as well as I can give it out.. Your expressing your emotions and feelings fine.. but one question.. how dose this help you solve your problem.. anyway, read your post again. Your not... (read in full...)
Can I purchase the pill even though I'm only fifteen?
Q. hey guys im 15 and in a month im 16 and have been with my boyfriend (16 years of age) for over a year. were not planning to have sex until im legal and we have talked about all the precautions. i was just wondering if u could go on the pill/imp...
A. 25 February 2010: Yea.. ask kittycat, she's young enough to know about these things... lol
Contraception is free even after the age of 16. Just don't go to the chemist, they charge you for the morning after pill, which you shouldn't need to use because your sor... (read in full...)
Why is it only the mans biology that's considered when discussing porn in relationships?
Q. Okay, so there's lots of questions here about men and porn, and relationships being destroyed over it. But what i'd really like to know here, is why it's only mens feelings and biology considered? So men are more sexually driven than women, they are ...
A. 25 February 2010: Serial monogamy is probably more accurate, judging by the amount of people who have affairs, never marry, or get divorced. Then there is polygamy (legal in Muslim societies) communal marriages, threesomes or swinging.. The thing about humans is, ... (read in full...)
Can I purchase the pill even though I'm only fifteen?
Q. hey guys im 15 and in a month im 16 and have been with my boyfriend (16 years of age) for over a year. were not planning to have sex until im legal and we have talked about all the precautions. i was just wondering if u could go on the pill/imp...
A. 25 February 2010: hahahaha.. now I'm showing me age...I forgot that you young people get jabs now.. lol.. well, you'll remember to ask the doctors and the nurse about that, cause I really don't know.. :)
Nope... FREE, FREE, FREE... just not sure if the doctor h... (read in full...)
How do I achieve bigger boobs without surgery?
Q. I'm really want to attract someone I like but I have small boobs and although I know there's nothing wrong with that and so forth, I do want to feel confident and attractive. I would like to boost them a little, make them appear fuller and bigger. ...
A. 25 February 2010: Very true... birdy lend me a ruler...
Isn't the human body great, I think we've been given them to make us smile and make jokes.... (read in full...)
Marriage foundation... confused!
Q. Hello, I have been chatting with a man on a dating site for a while we even discussed marriage. So he soon asked out on a date. But then he told me about a foundation that was helping people to get married and that they would be given money and ...
A. 25 February 2010: So he's thinking of asking her to marry him.. then they get the government money... easy.. can you just please contact him and see if he wants to get married, and if he loves you or just wants to get rich.... (read in full...)
He seems to have lost feelings for me
Q. Married for 19 years, love my husband with all my heart but can't seem to continue to deal with him always being in a bad mood. He never seems happy. He says it's all due to finances but we both make good salaries. He is constantly talking about ...
A. 25 February 2010: Your age is wrong. You've outlined what the problem is.. he sounds very worried about money. Now you may think you both earn enough and everything is fine, but he maybe under pressure at work and worried that he may become unemployed. Whatever ... (read in full...)
Marriage foundation... confused!
Q. Hello, I have been chatting with a man on a dating site for a while we even discussed marriage. So he soon asked out on a date. But then he told me about a foundation that was helping people to get married and that they would be given money and ...
A. 25 February 2010: Sorry, we are confused... your a girl, and this man may be too poor to marry, so wants you to get the government money, is that it?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got another woman pregnant!
Q. I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. A few months ago, I found out that he got his officemate pregnant.She was on her 5th month that time. I know that this is mainly my guys fault, but I found out that the girl knew all along ...
A. 25 February 2010: Stop asking him to take pictures to prove where he is. That's a bit too controlling and will do nothing except push him into the other woman's arms.... (read in full...)
Why is it only the mans biology that's considered when discussing porn in relationships?
Q. Okay, so there's lots of questions here about men and porn, and relationships being destroyed over it. But what i'd really like to know here, is why it's only mens feelings and biology considered? So men are more sexually driven than women, they are ...
A. 25 February 2010: Wow.. not compromise then.. I'm glad I'm a woman who actually likes pornography myself.. makes the whole problem disappear.... (read in full...)
Why is "No Contact" good for break ups?
Q. Yeah I know I am smart and intelligent and mature enough for my age to know the answer to this but my heart is contradicting it. I have been 3 months apart from my ex, obviously, I still love him as this gives me the reason to write here. I ha...
A. 25 February 2010: Thanks laura... I hope it helps the poster, cause it dosen't help me at all.. lol
Maybe you two might have a chance after all, if there are still some feelings... In your case this might just work.... (read in full...)
Why is "No Contact" good for break ups?
Q. Yeah I know I am smart and intelligent and mature enough for my age to know the answer to this but my heart is contradicting it. I have been 3 months apart from my ex, obviously, I still love him as this gives me the reason to write here. I ha...
A. 25 February 2010: I've been in contact with my ex for 4years, and it's a living torture believe me. Finally worked up a bit of strength to say no you can't visit this week. I miss him and I love him, and he probably loves and misses me. But seeing him, talking to ... (read in full...)
Sex seems to be the his main focus. Sould I go on another date?
Q. Hi, I ran into this guy that I use to work with last year. He had gotten a divorce and asked me on a date. I accepted the. Well, of course he tried to sleep with me,on the first date but I didn't. On our second date we had a talk and he told m...
A. 25 February 2010: Date him if you enjoy his company, but everytime you meet he's going to ask you for sex. He's also made it clear, that even after you have sex, he's not looking for a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. He likes you, but it's the sex that he ... (read in full...)
Will wishing an ex happy birthday seem clingy?
Q. (Mod note: Titled by poster) Ok, so I was wanting to know if I should wish an ex a happy birthday if he broke up with me because I was too "clingy?" His birthday is 3 weeks away...will it seem like I want him back if I do? Also, he said that ...
A. 25 February 2010: Christmas cards and birthday cards are perfectly alright. Just don't put in any romantic words, Twice a year contact just to wish good tidings, dosen't sound clingy, it sounds considerate.... (read in full...)
My husband admitted that he's been seeing prostitutes, and I'm devastated!
Q. After 15 years together, I now find my husband has been using prostitutes/call girls on a regular basis. He tells me he still loves me,and is committed to me, and his two children. What he has with these women is "his private life" and does not ...
A. 24 February 2010: Wow, can't believe the moderators let this post through.. obsessedwithwhore that is some serious venting.. Have you ever thought about seeing a doctor to deal with these mental issues?... (read in full...)
A womans need to feel desired and my husband falls short of that!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 12 years. During that time he has never complimented me or shown much attraction to me. Actually he has made negative comments about my looks, like my breasts arent perky or my skin has scars from pregnancies ...
A. 24 February 2010: Your husband is emotionally abusive... You need to find a way to cut him out of your life, emotionally. Don't try so hard to please him, start pleasing yourself. Personally I would stop the sex until he learned to treat me better.
Peopl... (read in full...)
The "pull out" method!
Q. My b/f and me were doing it doggie style and he always pulls out and relieves himself on the outside. Last night he pulled out but then he shot his stuff all over the outside of my privates. I asked him why he did that and he said he gets turned ...
A. 24 February 2010: Yes you can get pregnant... Men have pre-cum, that's a mini ejaculation before they totally come. This can get you pregnant too. The pull out method is the worse type of contraception there is. You have a high chance of getting pregnant if this ... (read in full...)
Can I purchase the pill even though I'm only fifteen?
Q. hey guys im 15 and in a month im 16 and have been with my boyfriend (16 years of age) for over a year. were not planning to have sex until im legal and we have talked about all the precautions. i was just wondering if u could go on the pill/imp...
A. 24 February 2010: *die (not did) ... (read in full...)
Can I purchase the pill even though I'm only fifteen?
Q. hey guys im 15 and in a month im 16 and have been with my boyfriend (16 years of age) for over a year. were not planning to have sex until im legal and we have talked about all the precautions. i was just wondering if u could go on the pill/imp...
A. 24 February 2010: Sorry, me again.. lol
You can take a friend with you, or your mum to give you support so you don't feel nervous. Better still, take your boyfriend, the people at the clinic would love to see the both of you. Not enough men come forward and take... (read in full...)
Why is it only the mans biology that's considered when discussing porn in relationships?
Q. Okay, so there's lots of questions here about men and porn, and relationships being destroyed over it. But what i'd really like to know here, is why it's only mens feelings and biology considered? So men are more sexually driven than women, they are ...
A. 24 February 2010: Good conversation people, with a wide range of views.. each of them in their own way seem to be a little bit right and a little bit wrong.. hey, human's are clever, I'm sure we'll find a suitable solution soon.... (read in full...)
Can I purchase the pill even though I'm only fifteen?
Q. hey guys im 15 and in a month im 16 and have been with my boyfriend (16 years of age) for over a year. were not planning to have sex until im legal and we have talked about all the precautions. i was just wondering if u could go on the pill/imp...
A. 24 February 2010: Good your in Britain.. Contact your nearest family planning clinic. They will provide you with all the information you need. The service is free and confidential. They will be happy to see that you are carefully thinking about your sexual health. ... (read in full...)
How do I get my old teacher to be with me??
Q. I'm graduating high school in a couple of months and I can't wait to finally start my life! However, I've fallen hard with a former teacher of mine who's 31. I'm legal now and don't want to cause him to lose his job or make him feel uncomfortable so ...
A. 24 February 2010: oh sorry, me again.. forgot the warnings.
Many older men feel flatered to be loved by a young woman who has just grown into adulthood. They know they are loved, and therefore know she won't refuse them much. Whilst the young girl is dreaming... (read in full...)
How do I get my old teacher to be with me??
Q. I'm graduating high school in a couple of months and I can't wait to finally start my life! However, I've fallen hard with a former teacher of mine who's 31. I'm legal now and don't want to cause him to lose his job or make him feel uncomfortable so ...
A. 24 February 2010: oh sorry, you want dating tips.. mmmmm.. ask him out for coffee to catch up on things and say thank you for being a wonderful person and helping you.. that should do for a start.... (read in full...)
How do I get my old teacher to be with me??
Q. I'm graduating high school in a couple of months and I can't wait to finally start my life! However, I've fallen hard with a former teacher of mine who's 31. I'm legal now and don't want to cause him to lose his job or make him feel uncomfortable so ...
A. 24 February 2010: When over the age of consent and out of school, all the rules are changed. If the guy is not married, then your two single people, and have every right to date if that's what you both want to do. However, just because you like him, dosen't mean ... (read in full...)
Wife went down on old man just to come to the USA....
Q. I love my wife, but now I just found out that my wife sucked the d__k of a 59 year old man in order to get a VISA to come the final time to the USA, the time that she met me and married me! I knew she wasn't a virgin, but I'm caught up on two...
A. 24 February 2010: Jokes over, if you can't stop the images of him, then start seeing how she looks while your thinking about it. Doubt she looks happy and pleased, she probably looks more determined to get this done and get her visa. That old guy is lucky she ... (read in full...)
How to approach my threesome fantasy again without seeming pushy?
Q. dear cupid i have a fantasy having a threesome with my wife i spoke to her and she willing to do but she hasnt mentioned it again how can i approach the subject again without it looking im pushing the subject ????? ...
A. 24 February 2010: If you and your wife are not totally comfortable being able to discuss sex, then your definitely not ready for a threesome fantasy. If your embarrassed just to ask her, how do you think your going to feel the morning after when you start wondering ... (read in full...)
He is a great father to our kids and they love him but I cant help but feel like hes settling for me,while desiring someone else
Q. when i was just barely 16 my mother and stepfather married for 15 years went through an extremely intense divorce. i went to stay with my biological father and there i met the future father of our 3 beautiful children. for 3 months it was great. i ...
A. 24 February 2010: Damn, he treated you like dirt, and you did the woman's thing of waiting until he lost steam and came back to you. Now you want more, you want to know your loved and adored.
Do you want the truth? It may break your heart and can't be taken ba... (read in full...)
I need relationship advice fast. Please ... :(
Q. Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 and a half years. We both love eachother but she lies to me so much about such little things for no reason. Well, anyway the big problem is today she said she was going to meet another guy and how ...
A. 24 February 2010: "she said she was going to meet another guy and how she's sleeping with other people."
This is very, very strange behaviour.. she fears commitment, so she's testing you and trying to get you to run away. Look for possible sexual abuse in her past... (read in full...)
How to approach my threesome fantasy again without seeming pushy?
Q. dear cupid i have a fantasy having a threesome with my wife i spoke to her and she willing to do but she hasnt mentioned it again how can i approach the subject again without it looking im pushing the subject ????? ...
A. 24 February 2010: You'd be an idiot to try this threesome thing.. it usually ends in tears.. after sharing your wife, she will look at you differently and you'll look at her differently. Unless you know what your doing, threesomes often end in divorce.... (read in full...)
Why is it only the mans biology that's considered when discussing porn in relationships?
Q. Okay, so there's lots of questions here about men and porn, and relationships being destroyed over it. But what i'd really like to know here, is why it's only mens feelings and biology considered? So men are more sexually driven than women, they are ...
A. 24 February 2010: Ok.. I'll bite..
The thing is, a man is doing something that he likes, he's not forbidding woman to do anything. However a woman is trying to control his life, she's demanding he stop doing what he likes to do. Many women here demand their ma... (read in full...)
Wife Unsure Whether To Confront Husband About Porn Watching
Q. I am a woman in my 40s, with two kids. I'm in good shape -- I've always exercised a lot. My husband and I have a healthy sex life (about 2x per week.) I'm not trying to sounnd conceited, but I'm often told that I'm very attractive by peers. ...
A. 24 February 2010: Yep.. Don't ask, don't tell.. men do not throw that porn in your woman's face, keep it out of her home if she hates it. Make sure she knows she's loved and adored by you. And if your doing pornography every day, then you got big problems with ... (read in full...)
Wife Unsure Whether To Confront Husband About Porn Watching
Q. I am a woman in my 40s, with two kids. I'm in good shape -- I've always exercised a lot. My husband and I have a healthy sex life (about 2x per week.) I'm not trying to sounnd conceited, but I'm often told that I'm very attractive by peers. ...
A. 24 February 2010: Yippie.. hahahaha.. you are wonderful wife..
Man lonely and bored, reaches for the sex stuff.. likes the blowjob images.. Thank you so much for being able to calm down and look at this rationally. Thank you so much for trying to at least understa... (read in full...)
Marriage foundation... confused!
Q. Hello, I have been chatting with a man on a dating site for a while we even discussed marriage. So he soon asked out on a date. But then he told me about a foundation that was helping people to get married and that they would be given money and ...
A. 24 February 2010: Your government probably wants more people to marry. Think he's suggesting he can set you up with a girl, so you can get the money.
But why bother, he'll take some of the money for himself. If you know about the scheme, then contact your gov... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 24 February 2010: Take care babes, I think you'll be fine.. your young and you've lots of growing left to do... :)... (read in full...)
How do I achieve bigger boobs without surgery?
Q. I'm really want to attract someone I like but I have small boobs and although I know there's nothing wrong with that and so forth, I do want to feel confident and attractive. I would like to boost them a little, make them appear fuller and bigger. ...
A. 24 February 2010: Birdynumnums, don't you know it.. big breasts suck... guys don't want to notice me personality or me witty charm, they ignore me brain. "Hello, you've got big tit's" that's what I get as hello... sigh... and then the clothes... can't wear what the ... (read in full...)
Marriage foundation... confused!
Q. Hello, I have been chatting with a man on a dating site for a while we even discussed marriage. So he soon asked out on a date. But then he told me about a foundation that was helping people to get married and that they would be given money and ...
A. 24 February 2010: Don't like the sound of it.. money and marriage, sounds like some kind of scam to me... think you should dump him and move on.... (read in full...)
Will my ex get back with his kid's mom?
Q. Me and my bopyfriend are currently seperated but still living together and im 6 weeks pregnant "he knows" . he tells me he doesnt know what he wants. lately probably since nov his kid's mom (they have been sperated for about two years already), ...
A. 24 February 2010: Your separated but your six weeks pregnant? Did you get pregnant before or after you separated? Dose this guy know your pregnant? Are you still sleeping with him?
Why did you and him separate in the first place? If your separated, why is he st... (read in full...)
How do I achieve bigger boobs without surgery?
Q. I'm really want to attract someone I like but I have small boobs and although I know there's nothing wrong with that and so forth, I do want to feel confident and attractive. I would like to boost them a little, make them appear fuller and bigger. ...
A. 24 February 2010: Get yourself properly measured for a bra. Most women are actually wearing the wrong size and their breast are actually bigger than they think. Push up bra's always work to make your breasts look fuller.... (read in full...)
Should cheaters get a second chance?
Q. I found out my boyfriend cheated on me because I checked his email. He has since then apologized, said he really wants to be with me, and has treated me much better like when we first started dating. (I knew something was different when he was with ...
A. 24 February 2010: Same story as "Not my Name".. my idiot ex cheated on me, once as far as I can tell.. I was on holiday and far away. What made me so angry is that I had opportunities and turned them down.
It hurts, never expected it to hurt that much. Told him... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 24 February 2010: "It's just I know my boyfriend likes a 36-24-36 shape, and if I only I had D cups, then I'd be a bit closer to that."
D cups... that's well above the average woman.. girl what size are you?
I also re-read your posts, you were overweight once ... (read in full...)
I have discovered my mother has left my sister everything in her will, this is the final straw after the years of abuse my mother gave me as a child
Q. I have just discovered a will my mother has made 2 years ago. she has left my sister everything, lot of land, large house, money and everything that she owns. she has left me her share in a piece of land that there is a legal battle to ownership ...
A. 24 February 2010: No, you don't take things to heart, and your not sensitive. You've been hurt, over and over again, and now your angry and you feel fed up. We understand that, we've got mothers, some good, some bad, some worse than yours, some better. We're just ... (read in full...)
A miserable and unwanted desperate wife
Q. Hello, I have been married for close to four yrs, and am very disappointed in my marriage. Since the beginning I have so miserable with my husband. We have the same age (26 yrs). My husband is a very explosive with a bad temper. When he gets mad the ...
A. 24 February 2010: Sorry honey. This is serious emotional abuse. He is angry with himself and the world and he takes it out on you. You are totally right, you need to get yourself an education, and eventually a job. You need to be independant from this man, and be ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my teacher I love her?
Q. I'm love with my teacher, and I plan on telling her. No one can change my mind on this. It'll be saved until after I graduate, but what's the best way to tell her? In person? A note? An email? Any advice is welcome. Thanks....
A. 24 February 2010: Ok, thanks for the follow up. As Laura said, I'm sure there's no harm saying it after you graduate. As long as you respect her and realise the position you put her in, and realise that there may not be any feeling on her side. You need to say ... (read in full...)
My husband's porn use has affected me badly..is this normal?
Q. Okay, this is going to be very long so please bear with me. When I first got with my boyfriend in August '08, I made it very clear to him that some very bad things had happened to me in the past concerning sex when I was only young, and that bec...
A. 24 February 2010: You have issues because of your sexual abuse that have not been dealt with. This is the main issue. You see sex as something holy and sacred. But your boyfriend is a man, he probably sees sex as something raw, dirty and nasty, as hot as it comes. ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my teacher I love her?
Q. I'm love with my teacher, and I plan on telling her. No one can change my mind on this. It'll be saved until after I graduate, but what's the best way to tell her? In person? A note? An email? Any advice is welcome. Thanks....
A. 23 February 2010: Teachers are absolutely terrified about teenagers and their love. If not handled appropriately they can leave their job and never be allowed to work with kids again. Sure send a note, you'll be graduated and gone. Telling her you love her dosen't ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my teacher I love her?
Q. I'm love with my teacher, and I plan on telling her. No one can change my mind on this. It'll be saved until after I graduate, but what's the best way to tell her? In person? A note? An email? Any advice is welcome. Thanks....
A. 23 February 2010: As I said, you love your teacher, but why dose she have to know. You have your feelings, but she also has hers. This is how a lot of adult workers feel. You may not like it, but that's the truth. She dosen't think about you and your love, she ... (read in full...)
Why do people have such big regrets about losing their virginity?
Q. I'm an almost 18 year old virgin, and I've heard other women say that they've regreted their first time and wish they had waited. I don't understand. Why did they regret it and what did they wish they had waited for? I've been a bit upset about wh...
A. 23 February 2010: Dosen't matter if you have sex outside marriage or wait for the ring. The most important thing is you love the guy and he loves you, and your relaxed and happy. ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my teacher I love her?
Q. I'm love with my teacher, and I plan on telling her. No one can change my mind on this. It'll be saved until after I graduate, but what's the best way to tell her? In person? A note? An email? Any advice is welcome. Thanks....
A. 23 February 2010: You love your teacher, that's your problem. Why the hell dose she have to hear. This is a woman at work, your someone she's paid to teach. She dosen't want your love, she wants her pay packet at the end of the month. Poor teacher, keeps getting ... (read in full...)
I have discovered my mother has left my sister everything in her will, this is the final straw after the years of abuse my mother gave me as a child
Q. I have just discovered a will my mother has made 2 years ago. she has left my sister everything, lot of land, large house, money and everything that she owns. she has left me her share in a piece of land that there is a legal battle to ownership ...
A. 23 February 2010: I have a cousin, who was always treated unfairly. Her sister got everything, money, time, attention, education.. she got nothing except insults and bad will. She's the younger sister, but she didn't even see her parents for the first 11 years of ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 23 February 2010: You want to tit wank.. hey, I want some guy to be able to lift me up and do the sex thing in the air... can't lift me up, they'd end up in hospital if they tried.... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 23 February 2010: Hi, :)
I love this new attitude you've decided to adopt. It's all about you and what you can do for yourself. It's about making you better for you. And if your happier in yourself, then your guy will be even happier. This is the best thing you ... (read in full...)
I have discovered my mother has left my sister everything in her will, this is the final straw after the years of abuse my mother gave me as a child
Q. I have just discovered a will my mother has made 2 years ago. she has left my sister everything, lot of land, large house, money and everything that she owns. she has left me her share in a piece of land that there is a legal battle to ownership ...
A. 23 February 2010: Your mother has Alzheimers, it's gonna be awfully hard for her if you walk away and leave her on her own.
Sorry she treated you bad, but such is life, these things happen to everyone. Sorry about the will, probably talk to your sister and expl... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: Aw heck, you put tears in me eyes.. time for coffee I think.. lol... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: Damn... I'm sorry too.. I keep forgetting you are so young and just learning and we are older and know so much more. Sorry babes, and thank you for coming back to explain... I wish you could tell your boyfriend just what you told us now. :)... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: No.. look there's no point talking to you...
It's your life.. you've been given lots of advice.. now do whatever makes you happy... Leave this boyfreind, find another one and maybe he'll be able to make you happy.... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: Oh one more thing. Why isn't your boyfriends love enough for you? When a guy loves you that's a very special thing. Why is looking better than a moviestar or a popstar more important to you than knowing you are loved and adored? Why isn't your ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: "Not that he loves me less, but maybe he feels less attracted after seeing her or something. "
Ok, again some movement. He's allowed to find other people attractive as long as your not around. He loves you the best, even better than Kate Per... (read in full...)
Wife Unsure Whether To Confront Husband About Porn Watching
Q. I am a woman in my 40s, with two kids. I'm in good shape -- I've always exercised a lot. My husband and I have a healthy sex life (about 2x per week.) I'm not trying to sounnd conceited, but I'm often told that I'm very attractive by peers. ...
A. 21 February 2010: "Guys, you may think it's harmless, but if you knew your wife was fantasizing about sleeping with some other guy every night -- if you could see into her brain -- would you like that?" (Quote, original poster)
Why do you think he's fantasyi... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: This compromise I can agree with.. If your man likes porn, and you don't, of course he should do it somewhere else, not stick it in your face. I guess the same goes for his favourite moviestar or popstar.. I'm the same about cricket, football and ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: He can watch (and wank over, if he wants to) Perry's "Hot N' Cold" video all he wants, just not while I'm there!
Now you want to choose what he watches on television. Can he do this to you as well. Can he tell you what to watch, what to read ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: Yes, I am taking things out of context. I'm trying to challenge your view of the world. Just to see things from a different point of view to see if that might help you. :)
"I guess it's kind of just an ego thing. I make a huge effort to look ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: Is it fair that he should be just like you. What happens to his wishes and desires. What happens to his freedom of choice. Because you think he's the most attractive man in the world, he must think the same or you'll feel unattractive, will get ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: But thanks to everyone, I guess it's my problem, and my boyfriend can just ogle and I have to feel lucky that he picked me :(
No leave him.. you don't have to put up with anything you don't like in a relationship. If your offended and jealous ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: Sorry mistake.. here is the other website, and it's a good one, it's a free online CBT course that you can follow. You can do anything you want, your mind can be challenged, it can be made strong. http://www.livinglifetothefull.com/... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: "I can't help it, how can I control it?
I feel like I can't get over it. I want to be perfect for him."
You are young, many young women feel like you do. As you get older you will get more confidence and stop with this form of self-hate.
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My boyfriend got another woman pregnant!
Q. I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. A few months ago, I found out that he got his officemate pregnant.She was on her 5th month that time. I know that this is mainly my guys fault, but I found out that the girl knew all along ...
A. 9 February 2010: mmmmm.... Don't ask for them not to have pictures together, it will make you look jealous and small.
Also, women can't steal men, men decide to be unfaithful and stray. If he loves you, she won't be able to catch him again, he made a mistake,... (read in full...)
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