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I was raped by my ex boyfriend
Q. bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we ...
A. 16 March 2010: Shellymaryann, this is rape, you were asleep and could not give consent.... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 9 March 2010: "That if you really care for someone you put their happiness before yours and do everything you can to make them happy"
Women often use this line... if you loved me, then my happiness is all that matters.
But in a partnership, what about the m... (read in full...)
I have discovered my mother has left my sister everything in her will, this is the final straw after the years of abuse my mother gave me as a child
Q. I have just discovered a will my mother has made 2 years ago. she has left my sister everything, lot of land, large house, money and everything that she owns. she has left me her share in a piece of land that there is a legal battle to ownership ...
A. 1 March 2010: Ah.. Thanks for the follow up, nearly missed you there..
So sorry it didn't work out for your mum, but you asked and now your making your own path in life... so sorry my dear.
She may be telling the truth, she may be trying to buy your sisters... (read in full...)
What to do when Porn destroys two relationships, and I'm fully detatched more than emotionally...
Q. I have to start from the beginning so its understandable.. (prepare for a long one...) It starts with my ex "James", We had an okay relationship. It seems okay now, mainly because we are over everything that happened and can laugh about it. We bro...
A. 28 February 2010: Babes, you know what.. just drop the whole thing and learn how to forgive. Ryan dosen't like porn, him and James are friends, everything is sorted now, it's only you that still feels you should be unhappy and hold grudges..
Life is way too shor... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 25 February 2010: lol.. so semen only become popular with the porn film... again i respectfully disagree..
But your right about us prescribing such things, it's a doctor that really should be asked. :)... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 24 February 2010: Take care babes, I think you'll be fine.. your young and you've lots of growing left to do... :)... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 24 February 2010: "It's just I know my boyfriend likes a 36-24-36 shape, and if I only I had D cups, then I'd be a bit closer to that."
D cups... that's well above the average woman.. girl what size are you?
I also re-read your posts, you were overweight once ... (read in full...)
I have discovered my mother has left my sister everything in her will, this is the final straw after the years of abuse my mother gave me as a child
Q. I have just discovered a will my mother has made 2 years ago. she has left my sister everything, lot of land, large house, money and everything that she owns. she has left me her share in a piece of land that there is a legal battle to ownership ...
A. 24 February 2010: No, you don't take things to heart, and your not sensitive. You've been hurt, over and over again, and now your angry and you feel fed up. We understand that, we've got mothers, some good, some bad, some worse than yours, some better. We're just ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my teacher I love her?
Q. I'm love with my teacher, and I plan on telling her. No one can change my mind on this. It'll be saved until after I graduate, but what's the best way to tell her? In person? A note? An email? Any advice is welcome. Thanks....
A. 24 February 2010: Ok, thanks for the follow up. As Laura said, I'm sure there's no harm saying it after you graduate. As long as you respect her and realise the position you put her in, and realise that there may not be any feeling on her side. You need to say ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my teacher I love her?
Q. I'm love with my teacher, and I plan on telling her. No one can change my mind on this. It'll be saved until after I graduate, but what's the best way to tell her? In person? A note? An email? Any advice is welcome. Thanks....
A. 23 February 2010: Teachers are absolutely terrified about teenagers and their love. If not handled appropriately they can leave their job and never be allowed to work with kids again. Sure send a note, you'll be graduated and gone. Telling her you love her dosen't ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my teacher I love her?
Q. I'm love with my teacher, and I plan on telling her. No one can change my mind on this. It'll be saved until after I graduate, but what's the best way to tell her? In person? A note? An email? Any advice is welcome. Thanks....
A. 23 February 2010: As I said, you love your teacher, but why dose she have to know. You have your feelings, but she also has hers. This is how a lot of adult workers feel. You may not like it, but that's the truth. She dosen't think about you and your love, she ... (read in full...)
Why do people have such big regrets about losing their virginity?
Q. I'm an almost 18 year old virgin, and I've heard other women say that they've regreted their first time and wish they had waited. I don't understand. Why did they regret it and what did they wish they had waited for? I've been a bit upset about wh...
A. 23 February 2010: Dosen't matter if you have sex outside marriage or wait for the ring. The most important thing is you love the guy and he loves you, and your relaxed and happy. ... (read in full...)
I have concerns that he now has fears for our sexual compatibility
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year. We have a perfectly loving relationship - emotionally I couldn't be more fulfilled in that respect. However, we seem to have a lot of troubles with our (non-existent) sex life. I am still a ...
A. 23 February 2010: I said he loved you right.. off course he wasn't coerced, he agreed most willingly to keep you happy. So why can't he make you happy now.... mmmmm.. he's got to be scared, or we got to just ask him "What the hell is wrong, why can't we sex play?"... (read in full...)
I have concerns that he now has fears for our sexual compatibility
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year. We have a perfectly loving relationship - emotionally I couldn't be more fulfilled in that respect. However, we seem to have a lot of troubles with our (non-existent) sex life. I am still a ...
A. 23 February 2010: opps.. too logical and blunt.. lol, and somewhere, a lot of it wrong!
mmmmmm.... bondage, how comfortable are you with that?... (read in full...)
How do I tell my teacher I love her?
Q. I'm love with my teacher, and I plan on telling her. No one can change my mind on this. It'll be saved until after I graduate, but what's the best way to tell her? In person? A note? An email? Any advice is welcome. Thanks....
A. 23 February 2010: You love your teacher, that's your problem. Why the hell dose she have to hear. This is a woman at work, your someone she's paid to teach. She dosen't want your love, she wants her pay packet at the end of the month. Poor teacher, keeps getting ... (read in full...)
I have discovered my mother has left my sister everything in her will, this is the final straw after the years of abuse my mother gave me as a child
Q. I have just discovered a will my mother has made 2 years ago. she has left my sister everything, lot of land, large house, money and everything that she owns. she has left me her share in a piece of land that there is a legal battle to ownership ...
A. 23 February 2010: I have a cousin, who was always treated unfairly. Her sister got everything, money, time, attention, education.. she got nothing except insults and bad will. She's the younger sister, but she didn't even see her parents for the first 11 years of ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 23 February 2010: You want to tit wank.. hey, I want some guy to be able to lift me up and do the sex thing in the air... can't lift me up, they'd end up in hospital if they tried.... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 23 February 2010: Hi, :)
I love this new attitude you've decided to adopt. It's all about you and what you can do for yourself. It's about making you better for you. And if your happier in yourself, then your guy will be even happier. This is the best thing you ... (read in full...)
What to do when Porn destroys two relationships, and I'm fully detatched more than emotionally...
Q. I have to start from the beginning so its understandable.. (prepare for a long one...) It starts with my ex "James", We had an okay relationship. It seems okay now, mainly because we are over everything that happened and can laugh about it. We bro...
A. 23 February 2010: He's gained a new friend!!!!
Sure, I'm sure he can cuddle up with James then, and it's alright that you destroyed his trust in ALL women. I'm sure that his friendship with men will make up for the fact that you lied and saw an ex when you KNEW how ... (read in full...)
What to do when Porn destroys two relationships, and I'm fully detatched more than emotionally...
Q. I have to start from the beginning so its understandable.. (prepare for a long one...) It starts with my ex "James", We had an okay relationship. It seems okay now, mainly because we are over everything that happened and can laugh about it. We bro...
A. 23 February 2010: Can't you see how unfair your being.. He already had one relationship destroyed by cheating.. so you go and meet an ex, then you lie about it.
Again, your hurt, but then so is he. Who are you to decide how he should react about things? He's not... (read in full...)
Can you really change your future?
Q. Hey, I know this site is for relationship worries, but I dont know where else to go to to be honest. Do you think its possible to change your future? My aunt went to a fortune teller on Saturday there, and they told her that i'm going to get pre...
A. 23 February 2010: oppss.. lol
She "cold read" your auntie then.. your auntie probably gave off hints that she was worried about you.. You know yourself best.. Follow the path that will make happy... (read in full...)
I have concerns that he now has fears for our sexual compatibility
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year. We have a perfectly loving relationship - emotionally I couldn't be more fulfilled in that respect. However, we seem to have a lot of troubles with our (non-existent) sex life. I am still a ...
A. 23 February 2010: OK.. It's the virginity... He's bloody scared out of his mind so he's running away. Try and see it from his point of view.
He's a guy who has had adventurous sex, he's done bondage, which is what I call advanced sexual practice, somethin... (read in full...)
I was raped by my ex boyfriend
Q. bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we ...
A. 23 February 2010: 'lubrication', which is pre-condition of anal sex, and there must be some mark of 'injury' which can be detected clinically
Not true.. we've had a least one post from someone who wanted to have anal sex in the most painful way possible, and didn... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 23 February 2010: As a woman, who mostly uses condoms, let me tell you... there is an overwhelming pleasure from practising sex without the condom. And in this woman, the ejaculation of semen dose cause orgasms in the vagina... But that's from my own experience.. ... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 23 February 2010: "Most certainly, female cannot feel any specific pleasure even when semen is ejaculated in 'vagina'..... Human mind has capacity to live with lot of illusion and lying and fraud" (bharat mehta)
Respectfully disagree bharat mehta. Isn't most of ... (read in full...)
I have discovered my mother has left my sister everything in her will, this is the final straw after the years of abuse my mother gave me as a child
Q. I have just discovered a will my mother has made 2 years ago. she has left my sister everything, lot of land, large house, money and everything that she owns. she has left me her share in a piece of land that there is a legal battle to ownership ...
A. 23 February 2010: Your mother has Alzheimers, it's gonna be awfully hard for her if you walk away and leave her on her own.
Sorry she treated you bad, but such is life, these things happen to everyone. Sorry about the will, probably talk to your sister and expl... (read in full...)
Can someone explain to me what LOVE is?
Q. Can someone explain to me what LOVE is? My Mother thinks it is remaining monogamous for 53 years. Till my Father died. I don't know I have had 3 Long lasting relationships in life the latter ending in Marriage. I still don't know what love is...
A. 23 February 2010: For me..love is when you meet him and you hear music, see stars and everything is golden... Then you start dating and it gets worse, he's not only part of your body, he's your heart, the most special part.
And then he leaves, and your heart di... (read in full...)
The more money I give the more she wants
Q. Hi, everyone. I started dating my now-fiancee in April 2009. Things were great up until about May. She started asking me for money. It was small amounts at first. $50 here, $80 here, and so on. I have to be honest with myself. I never felt right ...
A. 23 February 2010: Remember honeypie, we are just normal people from all over the world. We want a happy ending, we like people to be happy and in love, but we can only say what we see...
Your woman needs to grow up, and you need to be more careful with money. ... (read in full...)
Can you really change your future?
Q. Hey, I know this site is for relationship worries, but I dont know where else to go to to be honest. Do you think its possible to change your future? My aunt went to a fortune teller on Saturday there, and they told her that i'm going to get pre...
A. 23 February 2010: Karma babes, Karma.. yes you can change the future, but it's hard, because first you have to be conscious and aware.
You have drunk abusive parents.. If you know this and know how this affects you then you won't grow up to be a drunk abusive ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: Aw heck, you put tears in me eyes.. time for coffee I think.. lol... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: Damn... I'm sorry too.. I keep forgetting you are so young and just learning and we are older and know so much more. Sorry babes, and thank you for coming back to explain... I wish you could tell your boyfriend just what you told us now. :)... (read in full...)
What could be the reason for his non-commitment?
Q. i been dating this guy for a few months and we get along great he is a Libra and i am a Gemini, the problem is he claims he been hurt very bad in the past so he wants to take things slow, but he says he wants to be with me and calls me his ...
A. 22 February 2010: You love him, but is this man free to love you. Ask this man to invite you to his home, or as suggested, follow him home one night. We can't make this man free, and we can't make him love you. We think that he's already married or committed.... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: No.. look there's no point talking to you...
It's your life.. you've been given lots of advice.. now do whatever makes you happy... Leave this boyfreind, find another one and maybe he'll be able to make you happy.... (read in full...)
I was wondering why a guy would leave someone like me for someone like this?
Q. Guys, I need your opinion here. I am (what people say is) an attractive, tall slim brunette. I have only been with the one guy in my life and I put everything into our relationship. I was open, honest, trusting, always cheerful and fun to be ar...
A. 22 February 2010: People can only see your personality in your writing. Looking down at other people, judging their looks and their lifestyle is not appealing. You say a lot of bad things about this girl, and perhaps that's why many people here felt the need to ... (read in full...)
I'm on a study-trip for 4 months, how do I keep my girfriend of 3 years from cheating?
Q. Hi all, this is slightly long-winded .... sorry ... I have been living with my girlfriend in America for 2 years, and we are best friends and all that, I love her dearly. I do everything for her. But ..... When we started our relationship, she...
A. 22 February 2010: This woman can't be faithful. Unless you keep watching her, checking her telephone, her computer and her email, it sounds like she will cheat. Sexual addiction, maybe, but she has to realise this and want to get help. Accept her for what she is, ... (read in full...)
I know rape is wrong and very bad...so why do I get turned on when my boyfriend says this?
Q. Hey. Some thing is really bugging me. Some times when me and my boyfriend are jokeing aroung he'll say hes going to rape me and i get turned on by that. I know rapeing is wrong and very bad so why would i get turned on by this when my boyfriend says ...
A. 22 February 2010: Absolutely normal.. Fantasy and Reality are two different things. Many men and women find they get turned on by the "fantasy" of rape. It's about being forced to give up control, and not taking consequences for your sexual decisions. In reality ... (read in full...)
Men and women are different. We need different things. Does anyone else agree?
Q. Men and women are different. We need different things. Women need continuous validation of their partner’s feelings for them. Men do not. Or do they? Men may not need it as much as women, but they do need it. They don’t know they need it because ...
A. 22 February 2010: No arguments here, I think you've got it totally right.... (read in full...)
Joking around or an actual teacher crush?
Q. Okay, so there is this teacher at my high school. He is in his late 20s and I've known him for 3 years now. He was my world geo teacher in ninth grade, and that first semester everything seemed okay, I wasn't attracted to him and he obviously didn't ...
A. 22 February 2010: He's just having fun. Like you said, you share the same intrests and the same sense of humour. Teachers do that sometimes. I knew several male teachers who treated me like this, probably because I'm very serious and also have a bad temper. They ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be jealous of my boyfriend's ex or am I just over reacting?
Q. me and my friends we hang out in groups of couples and there are three of us . one of my friends tho happens to be my boyfriends ex girl friend. and the other day when we were leaving her house he hugged her and i jealous is that normal or am i just ...
A. 22 February 2010: She's may be prettier, but that didn't stop them from breaking up. He's with you now, and he's introduced you to her, he has nothing to hide, because as you can see, they are not cheating or disrespecting you.
Of course jealousy is normal, ... (read in full...)
I'm 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion, I don't know what to do for the best
Q. I am a 25 year old women with 4 kids and I am 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend of 3 years wants me to terminate my pregnancy but he also told me its my body and whatever my decision is he will support me no matter what and he will stay with me. we ...
A. 22 February 2010: You have four kids already, five kids will be difficult for you all financially. Your oldest is only 8 that means the others are younger and will be demanding attention. You have a one year old, that means this child is still in nappies and ... (read in full...)
What could be the reason for his non-commitment?
Q. i been dating this guy for a few months and we get along great he is a Libra and i am a Gemini, the problem is he claims he been hurt very bad in the past so he wants to take things slow, but he says he wants to be with me and calls me his ...
A. 22 February 2010: Sorry it all sounds a bit fishy to me. He's 35 years old, but he can't stay out overnight. Yep he might want to take things slow, and yes he might not want to move in. But staying overnight is a problem??
Sorry to say, if I were in your sit... (read in full...)
Working on our insecurities is most times better than changing the other person to fit our wishes.
Q. The porn questions on this board are just overwhelming. There are many more "my boyfriend uses porn" questions than "I can't get over my girlfriend's past" questions. I don't think that is because women are that much more insecure than men, but ...
A. 22 February 2010: Ah.. found your claim..
"“In 2003, a meeting of the American Academy of marriage advocates, two-thirds of the 350 divorce lawyers who attended said the Internet played a significant role in divorces in the past year, with excessive interest in onli... (read in full...)
Working on our insecurities is most times better than changing the other person to fit our wishes.
Q. The porn questions on this board are just overwhelming. There are many more "my boyfriend uses porn" questions than "I can't get over my girlfriend's past" questions. I don't think that is because women are that much more insecure than men, but ...
A. 22 February 2010: calico58,
You've stated that pornography is the number one cause of divorce in the UK. That is a very intresting claim to make. So like you, I've turned to the internet and am doing research on statistics relevant to the UK.
Firstly, ... (read in full...)
He watches porn every other day, we have sex once every month or two months...is this normal?
Q. My husband watchs porn every other day but we have sex once a month or every two months. Is this normal??...
A. 22 February 2010: Nope it doesn't sound right. You need regular sex to build intimacy together. Once or twice a month is not enough to make a baby, so your not having sex enough to suit it's reproductive purpose.
However, why dose this happen, we don't know, yo... (read in full...)
Working on our insecurities is most times better than changing the other person to fit our wishes.
Q. The porn questions on this board are just overwhelming. There are many more "my boyfriend uses porn" questions than "I can't get over my girlfriend's past" questions. I don't think that is because women are that much more insecure than men, but ...
A. 22 February 2010: "when using unresonable behaviour as a reason for divorce you have to give 5 reasons no more no less"
Divorces are granted for "unreasonable behaviour", not pornography use. As you said yourself, you have to give five reasons not just one. As... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: Oh one more thing. Why isn't your boyfriends love enough for you? When a guy loves you that's a very special thing. Why is looking better than a moviestar or a popstar more important to you than knowing you are loved and adored? Why isn't your ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: "Not that he loves me less, but maybe he feels less attracted after seeing her or something. "
Ok, again some movement. He's allowed to find other people attractive as long as your not around. He loves you the best, even better than Kate Per... (read in full...)
Old wives cure for acne
Q. Is urine good for acne and for the facial skin? My friend told me this and I don't know if to believe her....
A. 22 February 2010: I've heard of it but have never tried it. Try tee-tree, or even better, go to your doctor, they take these things seriously and will help you more than old wives tales will.
In some people, usually older, acne can be a sign of something going wr... (read in full...)
I was raped by my ex boyfriend
Q. bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we ...
A. 22 February 2010: I think this is sexual assault, but it's hard to prove legally because you consented to sex. I suggest that you never put your self in that type of position again. If he's violent to other women, he will go on to hurt someone else. In that ... (read in full...)
This man makes me feel useless! Help!
Q. Ok so this is kinda long winded so bear with me on this. Bout 2wks I put a post on this site az iv been with my boyfriend 7yr living with him for 5yr just got engaged this xmas eve just gone. We have our arguments problems etc just like all ...
A. 21 February 2010: OK, checked your previous posts, and yes, you do sound like a sensible lady.
Your example is a good one, about him being two faced and hypocritical. What's right for him is wrong for you, and black is white in his world just because he says it ... (read in full...)
This man makes me feel useless! Help!
Q. Ok so this is kinda long winded so bear with me on this. Bout 2wks I put a post on this site az iv been with my boyfriend 7yr living with him for 5yr just got engaged this xmas eve just gone. We have our arguments problems etc just like all ...
A. 21 February 2010: Sorry sweetheart, didn't forget you.. bit more warmed up now.. coffee and I'll be back, but I really don't have any solutions to this thing, just explanations about the way I see him.... (read in full...)
What to do when Porn destroys two relationships, and I'm fully detatched more than emotionally...
Q. I have to start from the beginning so its understandable.. (prepare for a long one...) It starts with my ex "James", We had an okay relationship. It seems okay now, mainly because we are over everything that happened and can laugh about it. We bro...
A. 21 February 2010: "So i look. and today i cant even describe the feeling... but there it was. The person i saw forever with had lied to me completely. To this day its left me dead inside, but thats not all..."
Ryan is not addicted to pornography, he is not James.. ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: This compromise I can agree with.. If your man likes porn, and you don't, of course he should do it somewhere else, not stick it in your face. I guess the same goes for his favourite moviestar or popstar.. I'm the same about cricket, football and ... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 21 February 2010: more info from web... http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/165632/health_benefits_of_semen.html?cat=52
Better stop now, but it's a fascinating subject. Still it's an optional practice. Only do it if you like it and your partner agrees.... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 21 February 2010: Caring stranger just did a google search, here's the link.. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/5263250
Done by reputable researchers at the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction in Bloomington, Ind.... The Kinsey Institut... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: He can watch (and wank over, if he wants to) Perry's "Hot N' Cold" video all he wants, just not while I'm there!
Now you want to choose what he watches on television. Can he do this to you as well. Can he tell you what to watch, what to read ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: Yes, I am taking things out of context. I'm trying to challenge your view of the world. Just to see things from a different point of view to see if that might help you. :)
"I guess it's kind of just an ego thing. I make a huge effort to look ... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 21 February 2010: Sorry, I think it's better to wear it than to swallow if it's beauty your considering.
Your guy just wants you to swallow his semen. You might like it, you may hate it, it's your choice. But it's not harmful, and it's probably better just to ... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 21 February 2010: If he's not got sexual diseases, and eats healthy, it's reported that semen (protein based) is very good for skin.... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: Is it fair that he should be just like you. What happens to his wishes and desires. What happens to his freedom of choice. Because you think he's the most attractive man in the world, he must think the same or you'll feel unattractive, will get ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: But thanks to everyone, I guess it's my problem, and my boyfriend can just ogle and I have to feel lucky that he picked me :(
No leave him.. you don't have to put up with anything you don't like in a relationship. If your offended and jealous ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: Sorry mistake.. here is the other website, and it's a good one, it's a free online CBT course that you can follow. You can do anything you want, your mind can be challenged, it can be made strong. http://www.livinglifetothefull.com/... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: "I can't help it, how can I control it?
I feel like I can't get over it. I want to be perfect for him."
You are young, many young women feel like you do. As you get older you will get more confidence and stop with this form of self-hate.
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This man makes me feel useless! Help!
Q. Ok so this is kinda long winded so bear with me on this. Bout 2wks I put a post on this site az iv been with my boyfriend 7yr living with him for 5yr just got engaged this xmas eve just gone. We have our arguments problems etc just like all ...
A. 21 February 2010: No, it wasn't an essay, it shed more light on how this guy thinks. So he doesn't even play fair when you use the spoon technique. Thanks for the update, I'm thinking and I'll get back to you. Hopefully some aunts and uncles have some more ideas. ... (read in full...)
The more money I give the more she wants
Q. Hi, everyone. I started dating my now-fiancee in April 2009. Things were great up until about May. She started asking me for money. It was small amounts at first. $50 here, $80 here, and so on. I have to be honest with myself. I never felt right ...
A. 21 February 2010: She's using you, a grown woman doesn't demand you spend this amount of money on her. Call of the wedding, you'll be sorry if you don't. This woman is only marrying you so she never has to work again.
I suggest you call up her parents and expl... (read in full...)
This man makes me feel useless! Help!
Q. Ok so this is kinda long winded so bear with me on this. Bout 2wks I put a post on this site az iv been with my boyfriend 7yr living with him for 5yr just got engaged this xmas eve just gone. We have our arguments problems etc just like all ...
A. 20 February 2010: Yes, this is the problem with age gap between partners, the older partner can sometimes think they know everything and discard what you say. You need to change your voice, and find a way to say things in a way which will make him feel smaller, or ... (read in full...)
Working on our insecurities is most times better than changing the other person to fit our wishes.
Q. The porn questions on this board are just overwhelming. There are many more "my boyfriend uses porn" questions than "I can't get over my girlfriend's past" questions. I don't think that is because women are that much more insecure than men, but ...
A. 8 February 2010: "in fact it is still one of the biggest causes for divorce worldwide and im pretty sure that the divotrce states porn use rather than insecurity"
Actually I would love to see statistics to prove this, if you have any. Pornography use is not a re... (read in full...)
Working on our insecurities is most times better than changing the other person to fit our wishes.
Q. The porn questions on this board are just overwhelming. There are many more "my boyfriend uses porn" questions than "I can't get over my girlfriend's past" questions. I don't think that is because women are that much more insecure than men, but ...
A. 7 February 2010: Glad you brought this one back to the board Troubletoomuch... so many questions around jealousy for friends, past partners, pornography and anything else we can blame for reasons why we aren't getting the relationship that we want.... (read in full...)
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