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I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 9 March 2010: "That if you really care for someone you put their happiness before yours and do everything you can to make them happy"
Women often use this line... if you loved me, then my happiness is all that matters.
But in a partnership, what about the m... (read in full...)
What to do when Porn destroys two relationships, and I'm fully detatched more than emotionally...
Q. I have to start from the beginning so its understandable.. (prepare for a long one...) It starts with my ex "James", We had an okay relationship. It seems okay now, mainly because we are over everything that happened and can laugh about it. We bro...
A. 28 February 2010: Babes, you know what.. just drop the whole thing and learn how to forgive. Ryan dosen't like porn, him and James are friends, everything is sorted now, it's only you that still feels you should be unhappy and hold grudges..
Life is way too shor... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 25 February 2010: lol.. so semen only become popular with the porn film... again i respectfully disagree..
But your right about us prescribing such things, it's a doctor that really should be asked. :)... (read in full...)
Wife Unsure Whether To Confront Husband About Porn Watching
Q. I am a woman in my 40s, with two kids. I'm in good shape -- I've always exercised a lot. My husband and I have a healthy sex life (about 2x per week.) I'm not trying to sounnd conceited, but I'm often told that I'm very attractive by peers. ...
A. 24 February 2010: Yep.. Don't ask, don't tell.. men do not throw that porn in your woman's face, keep it out of her home if she hates it. Make sure she knows she's loved and adored by you. And if your doing pornography every day, then you got big problems with ... (read in full...)
Wife Unsure Whether To Confront Husband About Porn Watching
Q. I am a woman in my 40s, with two kids. I'm in good shape -- I've always exercised a lot. My husband and I have a healthy sex life (about 2x per week.) I'm not trying to sounnd conceited, but I'm often told that I'm very attractive by peers. ...
A. 24 February 2010: Yippie.. hahahaha.. you are wonderful wife..
Man lonely and bored, reaches for the sex stuff.. likes the blowjob images.. Thank you so much for being able to calm down and look at this rationally. Thank you so much for trying to at least understa... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 24 February 2010: Take care babes, I think you'll be fine.. your young and you've lots of growing left to do... :)... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 24 February 2010: "It's just I know my boyfriend likes a 36-24-36 shape, and if I only I had D cups, then I'd be a bit closer to that."
D cups... that's well above the average woman.. girl what size are you?
I also re-read your posts, you were overweight once ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 23 February 2010: You want to tit wank.. hey, I want some guy to be able to lift me up and do the sex thing in the air... can't lift me up, they'd end up in hospital if they tried.... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 23 February 2010: Hi, :)
I love this new attitude you've decided to adopt. It's all about you and what you can do for yourself. It's about making you better for you. And if your happier in yourself, then your guy will be even happier. This is the best thing you ... (read in full...)
What to do when Porn destroys two relationships, and I'm fully detatched more than emotionally...
Q. I have to start from the beginning so its understandable.. (prepare for a long one...) It starts with my ex "James", We had an okay relationship. It seems okay now, mainly because we are over everything that happened and can laugh about it. We bro...
A. 23 February 2010: He's gained a new friend!!!!
Sure, I'm sure he can cuddle up with James then, and it's alright that you destroyed his trust in ALL women. I'm sure that his friendship with men will make up for the fact that you lied and saw an ex when you KNEW how ... (read in full...)
What to do when Porn destroys two relationships, and I'm fully detatched more than emotionally...
Q. I have to start from the beginning so its understandable.. (prepare for a long one...) It starts with my ex "James", We had an okay relationship. It seems okay now, mainly because we are over everything that happened and can laugh about it. We bro...
A. 23 February 2010: Can't you see how unfair your being.. He already had one relationship destroyed by cheating.. so you go and meet an ex, then you lie about it.
Again, your hurt, but then so is he. Who are you to decide how he should react about things? He's not... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 23 February 2010: As a woman, who mostly uses condoms, let me tell you... there is an overwhelming pleasure from practising sex without the condom. And in this woman, the ejaculation of semen dose cause orgasms in the vagina... But that's from my own experience.. ... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 23 February 2010: "Most certainly, female cannot feel any specific pleasure even when semen is ejaculated in 'vagina'..... Human mind has capacity to live with lot of illusion and lying and fraud" (bharat mehta)
Respectfully disagree bharat mehta. Isn't most of ... (read in full...)
The more money I give the more she wants
Q. Hi, everyone. I started dating my now-fiancee in April 2009. Things were great up until about May. She started asking me for money. It was small amounts at first. $50 here, $80 here, and so on. I have to be honest with myself. I never felt right ...
A. 23 February 2010: Remember honeypie, we are just normal people from all over the world. We want a happy ending, we like people to be happy and in love, but we can only say what we see...
Your woman needs to grow up, and you need to be more careful with money. ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: Aw heck, you put tears in me eyes.. time for coffee I think.. lol... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: Damn... I'm sorry too.. I keep forgetting you are so young and just learning and we are older and know so much more. Sorry babes, and thank you for coming back to explain... I wish you could tell your boyfriend just what you told us now. :)... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: No.. look there's no point talking to you...
It's your life.. you've been given lots of advice.. now do whatever makes you happy... Leave this boyfreind, find another one and maybe he'll be able to make you happy.... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: Oh one more thing. Why isn't your boyfriends love enough for you? When a guy loves you that's a very special thing. Why is looking better than a moviestar or a popstar more important to you than knowing you are loved and adored? Why isn't your ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 22 February 2010: "Not that he loves me less, but maybe he feels less attracted after seeing her or something. "
Ok, again some movement. He's allowed to find other people attractive as long as your not around. He loves you the best, even better than Kate Per... (read in full...)
This man makes me feel useless! Help!
Q. Ok so this is kinda long winded so bear with me on this. Bout 2wks I put a post on this site az iv been with my boyfriend 7yr living with him for 5yr just got engaged this xmas eve just gone. We have our arguments problems etc just like all ...
A. 21 February 2010: OK, checked your previous posts, and yes, you do sound like a sensible lady.
Your example is a good one, about him being two faced and hypocritical. What's right for him is wrong for you, and black is white in his world just because he says it ... (read in full...)
This man makes me feel useless! Help!
Q. Ok so this is kinda long winded so bear with me on this. Bout 2wks I put a post on this site az iv been with my boyfriend 7yr living with him for 5yr just got engaged this xmas eve just gone. We have our arguments problems etc just like all ...
A. 21 February 2010: Sorry sweetheart, didn't forget you.. bit more warmed up now.. coffee and I'll be back, but I really don't have any solutions to this thing, just explanations about the way I see him.... (read in full...)
What to do when Porn destroys two relationships, and I'm fully detatched more than emotionally...
Q. I have to start from the beginning so its understandable.. (prepare for a long one...) It starts with my ex "James", We had an okay relationship. It seems okay now, mainly because we are over everything that happened and can laugh about it. We bro...
A. 21 February 2010: "So i look. and today i cant even describe the feeling... but there it was. The person i saw forever with had lied to me completely. To this day its left me dead inside, but thats not all..."
Ryan is not addicted to pornography, he is not James.. ... (read in full...)
I am uncomfortable with the recent increase in porn by boyfriend watches
Q. Whats the opinion on boyfriends watching porn now and again? My bf and i have been together for three years now, live together. one day last year i found in our computers history that he had searched for some porn. not just for a porn site however ...
A. 21 February 2010: Sorry, your other question wasn't tackled. It doesn't sound like he has a addiction problem. He only looks when you are not around. He maybe missing you a bit if your going out more regularly, or he may want more sex than your currently having. ... (read in full...)
I am uncomfortable with the recent increase in porn by boyfriend watches
Q. Whats the opinion on boyfriends watching porn now and again? My bf and i have been together for three years now, live together. one day last year i found in our computers history that he had searched for some porn. not just for a porn site however ...
A. 21 February 2010: You didn't mention if your relationship has deteriorated or if he shows you less attention or if your sex life has got worse.
Totally agree with your method of "keep your porn use to yourself, I don't want to know". He's becoming careless... (read in full...)
Wife Unsure Whether To Confront Husband About Porn Watching
Q. I am a woman in my 40s, with two kids. I'm in good shape -- I've always exercised a lot. My husband and I have a healthy sex life (about 2x per week.) I'm not trying to sounnd conceited, but I'm often told that I'm very attractive by peers. ...
A. 21 February 2010: "Guys, you may think it's harmless, but if you knew your wife was fantasizing about sleeping with some other guy every night -- if you could see into her brain -- would you like that?" (Quote, original poster)
Why do you think he's fantasyi... (read in full...)
He wants a naked picture, I am so nervous I feel I am going to puke!
Q. Okay, So this guy i have known for a couple of years, me and him have started talking... just today. and he said i had a nice body and wants a pic of me naked. i told him he probably wouldnt get it but he says that it would make him happy. should i...
A. 21 February 2010: And blackmail.. I forgot about that... once he has those pictures, he'll threaten to show everyone unless you do things for him. Before you know it, you'll have sex to get them pictures back, then he'll blackmail you about that and you'll start ... (read in full...)
He wants a naked picture, I am so nervous I feel I am going to puke!
Q. Okay, So this guy i have known for a couple of years, me and him have started talking... just today. and he said i had a nice body and wants a pic of me naked. i told him he probably wouldnt get it but he says that it would make him happy. should i...
A. 21 February 2010: Tell him NO! Your a child, and he is older. He's not even your boyfriend yet. You shouldn't send naked pictures to anyone, (apart from probably your husband) If he likes you, he'll just want to spend time with you. If he only wants sex, he'll ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: This compromise I can agree with.. If your man likes porn, and you don't, of course he should do it somewhere else, not stick it in your face. I guess the same goes for his favourite moviestar or popstar.. I'm the same about cricket, football and ... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 21 February 2010: more info from web... http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/165632/health_benefits_of_semen.html?cat=52
Better stop now, but it's a fascinating subject. Still it's an optional practice. Only do it if you like it and your partner agrees.... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 21 February 2010: Caring stranger just did a google search, here's the link.. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/5263250
Done by reputable researchers at the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction in Bloomington, Ind.... The Kinsey Institut... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: He can watch (and wank over, if he wants to) Perry's "Hot N' Cold" video all he wants, just not while I'm there!
Now you want to choose what he watches on television. Can he do this to you as well. Can he tell you what to watch, what to read ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: Yes, I am taking things out of context. I'm trying to challenge your view of the world. Just to see things from a different point of view to see if that might help you. :)
"I guess it's kind of just an ego thing. I make a huge effort to look ... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 21 February 2010: Sorry, I think it's better to wear it than to swallow if it's beauty your considering.
Your guy just wants you to swallow his semen. You might like it, you may hate it, it's your choice. But it's not harmful, and it's probably better just to ... (read in full...)
Is semen good for the skin
Q. is semen swallowing beneficial for healthy skin? ...
A. 21 February 2010: If he's not got sexual diseases, and eats healthy, it's reported that semen (protein based) is very good for skin.... (read in full...)
How do I get over my nervousness being around him
Q. Well I really need help on getting over this cuz I can't take the feeling anymore. * no i didnt get broken up with lol * so, i started talkin to this guy yesterday that is my sisters friend. he havent talked in forever and it felt good to. he wants ...
A. 21 February 2010: hahaha... didn't realise it was you.. I could have been a lot more adult with my advice, your a clever kid, I like your answers to question very much.
Don't worry, your just crushing, it'll go away.. lol... (read in full...)
How do I get over my nervousness being around him
Q. Well I really need help on getting over this cuz I can't take the feeling anymore. * no i didnt get broken up with lol * so, i started talkin to this guy yesterday that is my sisters friend. he havent talked in forever and it felt good to. he wants ...
A. 21 February 2010: I'm sorry honeypie, but we can't. You are growing up, your turning into a young lady now. That feeling is what we call a "crush". You think he's handsome, he makes your body feel funny, you think about him.. you like him... It will go away as you ... (read in full...)
I'm Pregnant and he spiked my drink
Q. I'm almost 19 and I've been with my bf since the summer when we met at a festival and turns out he lives only a couple of miles away from me. Its sort of a semi-serious relationship we have. Anyhow we spend most of our time off our faces on dru...
A. 21 February 2010: Spiking drinks is not fun, NEVER!!!! It is very dangerous... mmm.. now you defend him, you love him.
Keep to your healthy lifestyle, make plans with him about the baby, and get him to cut back on his drink and drug taking, looks like he might be... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: Is it fair that he should be just like you. What happens to his wishes and desires. What happens to his freedom of choice. Because you think he's the most attractive man in the world, he must think the same or you'll feel unattractive, will get ... (read in full...)
I fell in love but he only wants a platonic relationship
Q. I'm a 19 year old female who fell in love with a 29 year old male. We're both in college and I believe we are absolutely perfect together. He had been single for six years before he met me, and he isn't the type to fall for just anybody. He really ...
A. 21 February 2010: He's been very truthful, there is nothing to understand. The problem is that you can't accept what he has to say. He's doesn't want to be in a relationship, he likes his single life. Yes, he likes you, and if he wanted a relationship, you would ... (read in full...)
I'm Pregnant and he spiked my drink
Q. I'm almost 19 and I've been with my bf since the summer when we met at a festival and turns out he lives only a couple of miles away from me. Its sort of a semi-serious relationship we have. Anyhow we spend most of our time off our faces on dru...
A. 21 February 2010: "I wouldnt take any drugs so he spiked my drink with bubble and I ended up taking myself to hospital and kept in over night on a drip."
You cannot stay with a guy who will spike your drinks. It's your choice if you take illegal drugs, he shouldn'... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to younger teens... is this sick?
Q. Hello, I'm 18 and I'm from the UK. I've suddenly become attracted to younger teens, 13+. Is this normal? I'm scared because I don't want to turn into a paedophile, do I need to seek further advice for this? Has anyone else gone through the same ...
A. 21 February 2010: No you can't date a 13 year old without her parents permission. I suggest you leave her alone, if you are caught doing anything sexual with her, you'll go to jail, go onto the Sex Offenders Register for life, will be banned from working, living or ... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: But thanks to everyone, I guess it's my problem, and my boyfriend can just ogle and I have to feel lucky that he picked me :(
No leave him.. you don't have to put up with anything you don't like in a relationship. If your offended and jealous ... (read in full...)
Would you consider what I did rape?
Q. The night began with a party and was all good fun , I ended up in bed with a girl that I know quite well and we were both naked and fooling around with fore play . Naturally I was extremely aroused and wanted sex ..she said NO , I stuck by that ...
A. 21 February 2010: "Wow ..the western world ..heh , gone crazy ..and did I wear a condom ..NO ..I dispise condoms , they ruin the moment ."
Your a disease carrier, please go and tell that woman to get tested, just in case you have chlamydia, HIV, Aids, Gonorrho... (read in full...)
Would you consider what I did rape?
Q. The night began with a party and was all good fun , I ended up in bed with a girl that I know quite well and we were both naked and fooling around with fore play . Naturally I was extremely aroused and wanted sex ..she said NO , I stuck by that ...
A. 21 February 2010: This is a grey area in the law, and it would the courts would not prosecute you, because they would believe she had consented by lying down in a bed with you after she refused sex. That's probably what British law would say.
But for me, it's rap... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: Sorry mistake.. here is the other website, and it's a good one, it's a free online CBT course that you can follow. You can do anything you want, your mind can be challenged, it can be made strong. http://www.livinglifetothefull.com/... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.
Q. I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...
A. 21 February 2010: "I can't help it, how can I control it?
I feel like I can't get over it. I want to be perfect for him."
You are young, many young women feel like you do. As you get older you will get more confidence and stop with this form of self-hate.
... (read in full...)
This man makes me feel useless! Help!
Q. Ok so this is kinda long winded so bear with me on this. Bout 2wks I put a post on this site az iv been with my boyfriend 7yr living with him for 5yr just got engaged this xmas eve just gone. We have our arguments problems etc just like all ...
A. 21 February 2010: No, it wasn't an essay, it shed more light on how this guy thinks. So he doesn't even play fair when you use the spoon technique. Thanks for the update, I'm thinking and I'll get back to you. Hopefully some aunts and uncles have some more ideas. ... (read in full...)
The more money I give the more she wants
Q. Hi, everyone. I started dating my now-fiancee in April 2009. Things were great up until about May. She started asking me for money. It was small amounts at first. $50 here, $80 here, and so on. I have to be honest with myself. I never felt right ...
A. 21 February 2010: She's using you, a grown woman doesn't demand you spend this amount of money on her. Call of the wedding, you'll be sorry if you don't. This woman is only marrying you so she never has to work again.
I suggest you call up her parents and expl... (read in full...)
I miss sex and emotional support from my husband, help!
Q. hello, im 27 and have been married for 1 yr now .. i ve known my husband for 6 yrs before we got married .. since 6 months he hardly wants to have sex with me ... he usually complains of being too tired .. but when i check his browsing history ...
A. 21 February 2010: Can we separate the two issues, we'll put porn to one side and deal with that later. Right now we'll deal with emotional intimacy and support, cause as you say, that is a big issue for you.
Since I've been on this site, I've been concerne... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friends love me and won't leave me alone! My friends hate me for it!
Q. I'm worried I'm loosing all my friends because of my boyfriends friends. They all fancy me and wont stop following me, I need some time with my girlfriends but thats never going to happen because they wont leave me alone - My friends dont like his ...
A. 20 February 2010: Too right Aunty BimBim.. I'm a bit confused as well..
If your spending all this time fighting off you boyfriends friends, who are all over you, so much that your girlfriends disapprove, doesn't your boyfriend notice, dosen't he get upset, or is he... (read in full...)
My boyfriend always looks at women online.
Q. My boyfriend always looks at other women online and it hurts me so bad. I feel like i'm not good enough he watches porn a lot and i feel very insecure i can't even enjoy sex together anymore and its making me very depressed. I asked why he watches ...
A. 20 February 2010: You are so young, we get many questions like this from young women. You say your boyfriend looks at other women and because of his behaviour you feel insecure. But you feel insecure, he dosen't. First you didn't like the pornography, you felt ... (read in full...)
This man makes me feel useless! Help!
Q. Ok so this is kinda long winded so bear with me on this. Bout 2wks I put a post on this site az iv been with my boyfriend 7yr living with him for 5yr just got engaged this xmas eve just gone. We have our arguments problems etc just like all ...
A. 20 February 2010: Yes, this is the problem with age gap between partners, the older partner can sometimes think they know everything and discard what you say. You need to change your voice, and find a way to say things in a way which will make him feel smaller, or ... (read in full...)
He told me he just wants to get laid and not have to work for it! Should I leave him to find someone better suited to me?
Q. Ok so I have been dating a 22yr old guy now for about 7-8months and I am 23. Our sex life had not been very exciting so I finally got the courage to bring it to his attention recently. He only ever is either on top of me or me on top of him, those ...
A. 20 February 2010: It's the handcuff thing right kitycat... lol.. hope all goes well Original Poster, and if it doesn't, please update your post.. :)... (read in full...)
Is this really American culture? It hurts that he considers what I did in a picture 9 months ago as cheating
Q. Hi dearcupids! You always offer great advice, so here's a question for you. My boyfriend and I recently got into a fight about a picture that was taken of me. Now Im from a different country than him, he's American. In this picture I was at a party ...
A. 20 February 2010: UPDATE FROM ORIGINAL POSTER
"Hi, I can see there are different views on this. To inform you, he's not religious, he even took me to a nudist beach one time (his idea). -OP"
Ok, then he's not uptight, he's just jealous and controlling, tel... (read in full...)
Is this really American culture? It hurts that he considers what I did in a picture 9 months ago as cheating
Q. Hi dearcupids! You always offer great advice, so here's a question for you. My boyfriend and I recently got into a fight about a picture that was taken of me. Now Im from a different country than him, he's American. In this picture I was at a party ...
A. 19 February 2010: Yes babes, I do think it's a culture difference. I can see you come from Sweden, where your attitudes to sex are very open and mature. Imagine, in Sweden you get sex education from when you are children, in parts of America this is forbidden, they ... (read in full...)
He told me he just wants to get laid and not have to work for it! Should I leave him to find someone better suited to me?
Q. Ok so I have been dating a 22yr old guy now for about 7-8months and I am 23. Our sex life had not been very exciting so I finally got the courage to bring it to his attention recently. He only ever is either on top of me or me on top of him, those ...
A. 18 February 2010: hahahaha.. yep, as sincere as it comes... if he's willing to learn and open up, then maybe you should keep him.... Don't forget to tell him you enjoyed yourself very much and you would be pleased to explore sex with him..
ps; Tell him to watch hi... (read in full...)
What if she spreads a disease to someone and I date them?
Q. So, this girl that im not really too good of friends with but talk to her, she keeps having sex with all these guys in my school. i honestly dont doubt she will get some type of disease from doing it so many times with so many diff. guys! i tell her...
A. 18 February 2010: Easy problem to solve.. You ALWAYS USE CONDOM'S when having sex, anyone could be infected with a sexual disease, you can't know just by looking. Pills and implants prevent pregnancy, but only condoms stop sexual disease. You always have sex with a ... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: hahaha.. thought that was from millie jackson meself.. ... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: ah, she left your "male rat's ass" anyway.. 10months..hahahaha..like she gives a damn.. problem solved... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: sorry, he slept with five not 10.. you disease carrier you
I'm working on it..... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: Dosen't have the same historical weight trouble....slut orginally meant slovenly,unhygenic,dirty and nasty WOMAN..appropriating the word for men just dosen't carry the same sting..
checked website.. Dawg, Dog.. is about the best insult I could fi... (read in full...)
I'm white, my BF is black, and I find ebony porn on my computer every so often.
Q. *OPs own title* First of all, my boyfriend tries to deny that he watches porn for the purpose of sexual excitement--as Myself, I have no problem with porn. I'll be the first to admit that I watched plenty of it when I was single, and I wouldn't mind...
A. 18 February 2010: What kind of porn intrests you.. Is it always black man having sex with white women, and do the men in porn look like your boyfriend, do they have the same sized dicks? Are the women prettier than you or uglier than you.
I bet you can't even rem... (read in full...)
I'm white, my BF is black, and I find ebony porn on my computer every so often.
Q. *OPs own title* First of all, my boyfriend tries to deny that he watches porn for the purpose of sexual excitement--as Myself, I have no problem with porn. I'll be the first to admit that I watched plenty of it when I was single, and I wouldn't mind...
A. 18 February 2010: Sigh... No he dosen't want to replace you. He could go out with black women if he wanted to. He could go out with other white women, he could go out with chinese or indian women... but he dosen't. He likes you, he likes your smell, he likes your ... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: If a woman is a slut... WHAT IS THE MALE EQUIVALENT.. what word do I use for men who sleep with many women?... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: Do I have anything to add..
NO! She's a human being and you need to GROW UP... (read in full...)
He told me he just wants to get laid and not have to work for it! Should I leave him to find someone better suited to me?
Q. Ok so I have been dating a 22yr old guy now for about 7-8months and I am 23. Our sex life had not been very exciting so I finally got the courage to bring it to his attention recently. He only ever is either on top of me or me on top of him, those ...
A. 17 February 2010: Leave him, the guy is a jackass, he's selfish and he dosen't seem to respect women much.. you can do better even by yourself with a sex toy...
Give him a bottle before you leave, he just needs relief, so that's all that he needs. He dosen't ... (read in full...)
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