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Glamour modeling advice?
Q. hello Does anyone on here no anything about glamour modeling - this is my dream and I want to make it does anyone no any quick ways to tone up - mainly my stomach and bum and thighs. Also does anyone no what size you have to be to be a glamour ...
A. 8 April 2010: Dear Cupid is for advice with sex and relationships.. use google to help you if you need dieting tips.... (read in full...)
Will allowing my wife to sleep with other men get her through her mid life crisis?
Q. My wife has came to me with the idea that she wants to sleep with other men. She is madly in love with me and our sex life is incredible. She has been chatting online with other men and has lined up her first "dude" for this Friday night. She is ...
A. 7 April 2010: She won't do it, and if she dose, it won't be fun, she'll feel sick and she will hate herself.
Try to find something fun and dangerous for her to do alone, or something you can do together. Public sex, parchautte jump, anything that will get her ... (read in full...)
My dad doesn't care about me at all - what can I do to get out of here?
Q. My dad has been emotionally abusive to me my whole life and i need it to stop now but i dont think he will ever change. For as long as i can remember it has been like this. He NEVER says anything good to me at all, i have never heard him say i love ...
A. 19 March 2010: "Being devalued, dismissed and invalidated is the worst thing a person can deal with in modern nations." (Teacake)
I've done that to you in the past, and you stood up and almost told me to go to hell.. :)
You did it with me when I was rude ... (read in full...)
My dad doesn't care about me at all - what can I do to get out of here?
Q. My dad has been emotionally abusive to me my whole life and i need it to stop now but i dont think he will ever change. For as long as i can remember it has been like this. He NEVER says anything good to me at all, i have never heard him say i love ...
A. 19 March 2010: Jamie, been thinking hard, sorry I didn't get back to you. Babes, I think you need some counselling to get over some of the damage your father is doing to you. It's affecting your life, your used to putting up with bad treatment and you don't seem ... (read in full...)
Sister came on to me...drunk. What should I say to her?
Q. She'd been to a party and came home really drunk and she grabbed me and started kissing me. She then said I was her baby brother and that she should show me how to fun with a girl. She then tried to pull my shirt off and I had to wrestle with her to ...
A. 19 March 2010: Your 19, she's older, she needs to watch her drinking and behaviour around you. Just tell her what happened when she was drunk. Don't tell her you was disgusted or anything, just tell her the bare facts. She needs to know how she behaves when she ... (read in full...)
Another threesome story... should I do it?
Q. Help my boyfriend asked me if I would be willing to have a threesome. I am not attracted to women, but I would do anything to stay with him. We have a 6 year old son together, and he is the love of my life. I offerd to turn a blind eye and let him ...
A. 19 March 2010: "I am not attracted to women, but I would do anything to stay with him."
Bad idea to do a threesome then, it will disgust you, you will be insecure and you'll always wonder why he is not satisfied with you.
Bad idea to be so desperate to kee... (read in full...)
Will my husband still love me if I have the 3-some he wants?
Q. Good day to everyone!!! I do hope that you can help me. My problem is my husband and I have been married for 5 years. Well my husband always wanted to have a 3ssome... the thing is we love each other so much and he said he will never cheat on me or ...
A. 19 March 2010: It usually ends in tears. It can work, but only if you have no jealousy at all, you fancy the new person, you and your husband have a very strong marriage, and it's something both of you want.
If it disgusts you or upsets you later, then by that ... (read in full...)
Should I dump my non christian boyfriend?
Q. Hey, im 19 and turning 20 late this year. I'm a christian i love God so so so much, i have a bf and i love so as well the thing is every time im with him i feel gulty like im commiting a sin. I realy dont know what to do, we've know each other for 3 ...
A. 19 March 2010: I don't think God means for you to be alone. Of course your supposed to fall in love, otherwise how are people supposed to get married and have children. Did you expect to marry a man you hate. The only people who are expected to love God and not ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 19 March 2010: Whatever Mr... your advice is no help at all, as I said before the poster has moved past all of this, and wasn't looking for your defence.
Now do you have any advice or suggestions that will actually help, or are you just here to look down upo... (read in full...)
Glamour modeling advice?
Q. hello Does anyone on here no anything about glamour modeling - this is my dream and I want to make it does anyone no any quick ways to tone up - mainly my stomach and bum and thighs. Also does anyone no what size you have to be to be a glamour ...
A. 18 March 2010: You have to be 18., and Glamour modelling is not for life, it is only suitable for 20year olds. You still need to get an education, for when your career is over. You need mathematics to work out how to save your money so you don't waste it on ... (read in full...)
Will allowing my wife to sleep with other men get her through her mid life crisis?
Q. My wife has came to me with the idea that she wants to sleep with other men. She is madly in love with me and our sex life is incredible. She has been chatting online with other men and has lined up her first "dude" for this Friday night. She is ...
A. 18 March 2010: Fair is fair eyes, there should be equality in relationships. She screws around, then so should you.... (read in full...)
I'm married, will be a father in a month, but can't control my feelings for the receptionist at the gym.
Q. Hi Everyone, I am a new member on this site. I am married now for 8 months almost and we will have a baby soon. We dated for only around 1.5 years before we decided to get married. I go to this gym everyday and have started liking a girl at th...
A. 18 March 2010: Am I missing something.. didn't the aunts already tell you this...
FIND ANOTHER BLOODY GYMN.... ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 18 March 2010: Lonely Two, this is a long conversation that we aunts have had with Jason. He accepts that we were offended by his words about his wife, and we felt the need to defend her. He has apologised, and we have all moved on.
Please read the conversa... (read in full...)
I have developed feelings for my 14 year old student, how do I forget about this and get over him?
Q. I am a teacher. First of all, I would like to state that I am 27 and have *never* had a crush on anyone younger than me! I also know that what I'm about to write makes me a pedophile, so I am asking you not to call me names; I deserve them all. Tha...
A. 18 March 2010: Sigh... sorry your going through this. It dose NOT make you a paedophile. A paedophile is an adult who has an attraction to under-age children. It's not falling in love with just one person, he'll try to have sex with as many kids as he can. A ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant and want to keep the baby
Q. hi my name is desiree and i stress every day its so much drama that go on in my life i been through alot and im having a baby and i no im kinda young but i think i can handle it because i carry myself as a young ladie dont get into no more drama and ...
A. 18 March 2010: Drama!!!! Sigh!! Having a baby will stop all that, you won't have time for friends let alone the drama they create. A baby is a 24hour job, if you keep the child, expect to be working long hours(night time feeds, nappy changing, cleaning baby, ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend masturbating to these?
Q. About a couple weeks ago I was on my boyfriend's computer and I found his porn folder.(He has all my pictures in a separate folder) I'm not against porn or anything, I was just curious to what he likes. When I was searching through the pictures and ...
A. 18 March 2010: Believe him honeypie, you know it's the truth. This guy is crazy about you. I can see why, your very refreshing because you are kind, thoughtful, intelligent and your very unaware, you just can't see all the qualities me, him and other people ... (read in full...)
Is virginty that important?
Q. My friends make me feel like still being a virgin is something to be ashamed of. most if not all have had sex before and whenever they bring it up they always make it sound like whoever hasn't yet is either ugly or an outcast...it's not like i ...
A. 17 March 2010: Your angry because people judge you for your virginity, you have every right to be angry. They are not wrong for having sex as long as they are over the age of consent, and you are not wrong for wanting to wait untill you feel it's right for you ... (read in full...)
Should I fulfill my wifes FFM fantasy?
Q. My wife and I have been married for several years and have a one of a kind relationship. Most people we know tell us wehave the perfect marriage. We just communicate very well and are best friends and can't be 2 hrs without eachother. Our sex has ...
A. 17 March 2010: Understood eyes, I'm out of here.... (read in full...)
Should I fulfill my wifes FFM fantasy?
Q. My wife and I have been married for several years and have a one of a kind relationship. Most people we know tell us wehave the perfect marriage. We just communicate very well and are best friends and can't be 2 hrs without eachother. Our sex has ...
A. 17 March 2010: One last question.. why screw around with a friendship of 20years... women's friendships are precious. If the friend wants to screw you then the wife will be jealous. If the wife and the friend want to get it on, then you'll be left in the cold.
... (read in full...)
I was raped by my ex boyfriend
Q. bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we ...
A. 16 March 2010: Shellymaryann, this is rape, you were asleep and could not give consent.... (read in full...)
I don't want to be kicked out of church, but I don't want to have to tell the leader about my sexual activity either!
Q. Okay - first off - not a virgin and was not an active church go-er. However since being sexual active and regreting it ... i feel i need church in my life and if that be the case, i have to confess to my church leader (namely cos evidence of that ...
A. 16 March 2010: They can't kick you out of church, that's not allowed. Some churches are mean though and people might not speak to you and will look at you badly.
Just go and talk to your church leader. Nothing to be frighted about. You are a follower of Jesus... (read in full...)
Should I fulfill my wifes FFM fantasy?
Q. My wife and I have been married for several years and have a one of a kind relationship. Most people we know tell us wehave the perfect marriage. We just communicate very well and are best friends and can't be 2 hrs without eachother. Our sex has ...
A. 16 March 2010: Indeed almasdp,
I thought they were the first couple that might actually be suited to a threesome, even gave him some links. Then he shows his true colours, only females are welcome, males cause insecurity....
He keeps saying everything i... (read in full...)
Should I fulfill my wifes FFM fantasy?
Q. My wife and I have been married for several years and have a one of a kind relationship. Most people we know tell us wehave the perfect marriage. We just communicate very well and are best friends and can't be 2 hrs without eachother. Our sex has ...
A. 15 March 2010: opps.. I take it all back, you are not ready for threesomes at all. I thought you had no jealousy, no fears and no distrust.... I did tell you that having extra people in your bedroom could often lead to more.
She may not want another man now,... (read in full...)
I'm scared of making a commitment to someone who doesn't want the same future as me
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years, we have been a bit rocky at times but really love each other and always work our problems out. He smokes a lot of weed and this is usually what we argue about, he has made it clear he will never quit ...
A. 15 March 2010: You don't like the weed, he finds it relaxing and dosen't see why he should give it up. Your goals are incompatible, you don't like the things he likes, and he can't see why he can't find happiness the way he likes.
I suggest you finish this rel... (read in full...)
Do you think I am a loser because I visit prostitutes seen as I cant find love?
Q. Its been a while since i wrote on this thread but thought it was time to do so ... Ive never had a girlfriend and always feel lonely even though im in university but i live at home and dont socialise much as i havent met people i like at my ...
A. 15 March 2010: "muay thai"... hahahaha.. haven't heard that word in ages.. Have tons of fun, and get some rest, you'll need it with them Thai guys.. :)
No, your not sad, but you are very young. Your in such a hurry to fall in love, that you went to a professi... (read in full...)
Why does it hurt so much when the person you love is away from you?
Q. Dear Aunties, Why does it hurt so much when someone you love is physically apart from you? The pain seems... Irrational when one considers that one is still loved by that other person--there is just no geographical togetherness. e.g. The rippi...
A. 15 March 2010: Reminds me of the first time my ex went on holiday.. was like he was leaving me forever, not for 6 weeks. I cried my eyes out at the airport, his family couldn't help laughing at me... lol
He came back 2 weeks early, after spending all his time... (read in full...)
Why does it hurt so much when the person you love is away from you?
Q. Dear Aunties, Why does it hurt so much when someone you love is physically apart from you? The pain seems... Irrational when one considers that one is still loved by that other person--there is just no geographical togetherness. e.g. The rippi...
A. 15 March 2010: No dear... yes it hurts, hurts like hell.. When we fall in love we get obsessive, almost like we take that person into our bodies. When they are gone, it's like loosing an arm or leg. Love makes these funny chemicals so we can stick together.
... (read in full...)
Should cunnilingus be reserved for relationships only, or something you do with any sexual partner?
Q. My boyfriend has told me that he likes going down on a woman. And in the past has gone on all women he has been with even one noght stands! This disgusts me. I don't really like a being gone down on and any way what my boyfriend has told me turns...
A. 15 March 2010: The thing is, if your boyfriend has done this to "one night stands", I'll tell you, you've got a good guy there. He LIKES women, not just sex. He wants to make women happy and he loves and respects them.
Not all men are like this, some actually... (read in full...)
Should I fulfill my wifes FFM fantasy?
Q. My wife and I have been married for several years and have a one of a kind relationship. Most people we know tell us wehave the perfect marriage. We just communicate very well and are best friends and can't be 2 hrs without eachother. Our sex has ...
A. 15 March 2010: Sorry, that link has a list of do's and do not's, it helps you make up rules that will make you both comfortable. It also has a checklist to make sure that you, your wife and your relationship are really ready for this alternative lifestyle.
... (read in full...)
Should I fulfill my wifes FFM fantasy?
Q. My wife and I have been married for several years and have a one of a kind relationship. Most people we know tell us wehave the perfect marriage. We just communicate very well and are best friends and can't be 2 hrs without eachother. Our sex has ...
A. 15 March 2010: I do not recommend bringing other people into your sex life. It can create all sorts of jealousies, undermine your marriage, and make you look at yourself and your partner differently. Some people get hooked up on the adrenaline of multiple ... (read in full...)
Should cunnilingus be reserved for relationships only, or something you do with any sexual partner?
Q. My boyfriend has told me that he likes going down on a woman. And in the past has gone on all women he has been with even one noght stands! This disgusts me. I don't really like a being gone down on and any way what my boyfriend has told me turns...
A. 15 March 2010: It's a regular part of foreplay for people who like sex and men who enjoy and like women very much...
Only one problem though.. oral sex can help transmit the herpes virus. Herpes is non-curable, but not life threatening.
Don't worry, ... (read in full...)
I need to get a morning after pill, ... but I have been grounded!
Q. i have had sex with my boyfriend and im getting the morning after pill problem is im grounded so i have to tell my mum, but im really unsure what to say can anyone give me some idea's? would be a big help thanks x...
A. 15 March 2010: * correction, 72 hours, but the longer you wait, the more risk that it won't work and you may get pregnant.
The doctors and nurses need to see you, they won't be comfortable giving it to your boyfriend. Call the doctors or the clinic and explain ... (read in full...)
I need to get a morning after pill, ... but I have been grounded!
Q. i have had sex with my boyfriend and im getting the morning after pill problem is im grounded so i have to tell my mum, but im really unsure what to say can anyone give me some idea's? would be a big help thanks x...
A. 15 March 2010: Contact the NHS.... Your boyfriend can also buy the pill at the chemist, it costs £25. Phone your doctor or local family planning quickly, and ask for an appointment. Tell your mother you feel sick and are going to see the doctor. You can refuse ... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 15 March 2010: Bet this thread gets closed..
So much pain, so much suffering.... sigh.
As Laura says, it's usually the crazy and the insane who can't love, and then they are not wicked they is just sick. Other than that, pain begets pain, it cycles. They su... (read in full...)
Is masturbation a homosexual act?
Q. is masturbation in fact a homosexual act ? no matter who or what you think about you are still having sex with your hand and you come on yourself you are giving and recieving so its male on male or female on female. any thoughts?...
A. 15 March 2010: Yes animals masterbate....
"Animal sexual behaviour takes many different forms, even within the same species. Researchers have observed monogamy, promiscuity, sex between species, sexual arousal from objects or places, sex apparently via duress o... (read in full...)
Is masturbation a homosexual act?
Q. is masturbation in fact a homosexual act ? no matter who or what you think about you are still having sex with your hand and you come on yourself you are giving and recieving so its male on male or female on female. any thoughts?...
A. 15 March 2010: mmmm.. you need to learn more Latin... quick look on Google and I found this.
soli-, sol- + (Latin: one, alone, only)
Homo is Latin for same, solo is Latin for alone.. therefore you are wrong. Masturbation is a solo-sexual act, and is not ... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 15 March 2010: See Dear Caller, we understand what you mean. But it's worth trying, even though we've told you horror stories. At 19, your relationship is still young enough for her to surprise you with some good things you never knew she had inside.
mmm..... (read in full...)
Do all guys masterbate?
Q. This is just out of interest, but is it possible for a guy to reach 25plus without whacking off? ...
A. 14 March 2010: Never seen a guy in a coma with his hands on his dick..
That's about it I think. They put curtains around the bed in hospitals to deal with this need.... (read in full...)
My dad doesn't care about me at all - what can I do to get out of here?
Q. My dad has been emotionally abusive to me my whole life and i need it to stop now but i dont think he will ever change. For as long as i can remember it has been like this. He NEVER says anything good to me at all, i have never heard him say i love ...
A. 14 March 2010: Bingo, your doing well babes, that answers one of my questions about why you make the choices you do. :)... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 14 March 2010: Understand Q, and yep they can't be cured.... but they can be taught to behave. They need attention, so I use absence as a punishment. Good behaviour gets rewarded by a short visit, bad behaviour and no contact for a while. The narcissim is quite ... (read in full...)
He invites his ex round to OUR house to visit and I don't know how to handle it any more...
Q. I have met a wonderful man online in a chat room in October of 2009. We met face to face and hit it of so well we have moved in together and not been apart since. Sounds like a happily ever after story well not quite. His ex girlfriend left him...
A. 14 March 2010: Another late idea, can you print off this post, blow it up to poster size and leave it on the floor so she can see his declarations of love the next time she pops in to take up space in your life.... (read in full...)
He invites his ex round to OUR house to visit and I don't know how to handle it any more...
Q. I have met a wonderful man online in a chat room in October of 2009. We met face to face and hit it of so well we have moved in together and not been apart since. Sounds like a happily ever after story well not quite. His ex girlfriend left him...
A. 14 March 2010: Ah... I understand.. like I said before, I wish I had wrote before the guy joined in.
Dear agony man, is she allowed to damage this unkind lady, like maybe spill the tea on her lap, or trip her up as she enters the door. :)
Aaaahahaha!!!... (read in full...)
Sexually addicted??
Q. Dear Cupid: My fiance has cut back on viewing porn (well, as far as I know). Now every night, all he wants is me to tell him of my past sexual experiences. He says he'd rather jack off to that instead of viewing porn. Does this sound like somebody...
A. 14 March 2010: "Why he saves them, I dont know. He just does."
Why do you buy books, CD's or video's? Why not just go to the cinema and see the film just once, why do we go and buy it and watch it at home?
When we like something, we go and get our own copy... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 14 March 2010: Hey Q... same here, but I stay... I'm stubborn enough to believe, that even crazy people can be changed.
Original caller, you must do what's best for you. However, you don't know the whole story, you hear parts from people who don't know the... (read in full...)
I want to see a virginal vagina!
Q. Of all the porn that is there on the net, and in hard copy, i have seldom come across a photograph of a real virgin girl with her hymen intact. I am a male and from a conservative society, and am going to marry soon. The marriage is an arranged ...
A. 13 March 2010: Many women are born with no hymen, many women loose their hymen just by walking, jumping, swimming or doing other normal things. Then again, many women are not virgins, but go to the doctors and have their hymen replaced. Your culture likes ... (read in full...)
Sexually addicted??
Q. Dear Cupid: My fiance has cut back on viewing porn (well, as far as I know). Now every night, all he wants is me to tell him of my past sexual experiences. He says he'd rather jack off to that instead of viewing porn. Does this sound like somebody...
A. 12 March 2010: Many men think about sex a lot. Wanting to masturbate once a day is not unusual. He requires some stimulation, you forbid him pornography, so it's fair that you should tell him stories.
Now your fed up with that. But what should the man do? ... (read in full...)
He invites his ex round to OUR house to visit and I don't know how to handle it any more...
Q. I have met a wonderful man online in a chat room in October of 2009. We met face to face and hit it of so well we have moved in together and not been apart since. Sounds like a happily ever after story well not quite. His ex girlfriend left him...
A. 10 March 2010: Had a better idea.. marriage counselling may suit you both and help. Marriage counselling is not just for married people, it also helps couples in relationships. It will give you both the space to say how you feel, and show you techniques to come ... (read in full...)
He invites his ex round to OUR house to visit and I don't know how to handle it any more...
Q. I have met a wonderful man online in a chat room in October of 2009. We met face to face and hit it of so well we have moved in together and not been apart since. Sounds like a happily ever after story well not quite. His ex girlfriend left him...
A. 10 March 2010: Ah, the man joins in... Thank you sir for your comments, you are exactly as I pictured you. I am one of the aunts who is reluctant to say just leave, because I believe in working things out and compromising when you can. Adult love is strong ... (read in full...)
He invites his ex round to OUR house to visit and I don't know how to handle it any more...
Q. I have met a wonderful man online in a chat room in October of 2009. We met face to face and hit it of so well we have moved in together and not been apart since. Sounds like a happily ever after story well not quite. His ex girlfriend left him...
A. 9 March 2010: "So I come up with a compromise I asked him if he wanted me to accept her presence then it would be hard but I love him and am willing to as long as he makes it clear that if I am here he doesn't answer her calls, if I not here she must not be asked ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 3 March 2010: Wonderful Jason, thanks for the update, got to admit, I was a little worried about you. Glad your looking into what this means and how you'll rebuild your future in a better way...
As you say, everything happens for a reason.. :)... (read in full...)
I was raped by my ex boyfriend
Q. bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we ...
A. 23 February 2010: 'lubrication', which is pre-condition of anal sex, and there must be some mark of 'injury' which can be detected clinically
Not true.. we've had a least one post from someone who wanted to have anal sex in the most painful way possible, and didn... (read in full...)
I was raped by my ex boyfriend
Q. bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we ...
A. 22 February 2010: I think this is sexual assault, but it's hard to prove legally because you consented to sex. I suggest that you never put your self in that type of position again. If he's violent to other women, he will go on to hurt someone else. In that ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: LAWYER!!!!!! You got to get one of those right away.... no more booze, you got to protect yourself.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: Yea.. please stay off the alcohol and booze... I don't want her to see you crushed and needy, as you said, there's already enough talk. You got to keep your head clear and held high. What's wrong with a man wanting to have a normal married life.
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I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: Jason, has she had any sexual abuse in her childhood, or abusive relationships in the past?... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: I don't like her so much no more....no thank you, no talk... nothing... at the moment, I got a lot of nasty words to say about that lady.... sorry.... she dosen't bloody deserve you. I so wanted things to go well. :(... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 15 February 2010: Hi Jason.. thinking of you today on 14th February, hope things are going a little better for you.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: sorry.. OFF TOPIC, but it's nice to see you back Laura.. with your spirtality moving the world, there is never no judgement, people are people, and you always have that guiding light to solve every problem or leave us with wisdom instead. In your ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: To true Mal, you always got to look at the man (woman) in the mirror.. there are compromises you can make, you can talk.. but if you can't look yourself in the mirror, then it's the wrong decision and it's the wrong way.. :(... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: Exactly Q.. live and let live, have fun, one life to live..
But Jason's not happy, and you know how kids change things.. Jason's story is different, but it would be good for people with minor stories to hear what he has to say.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: Damn Q .... I was already feeling sad over Jason and his wife's story... so much love, different interests make it difficult to work...
And now you go and hit me with this....
"She will be the one that go's down as the person that turned her ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: Jason, she hasn't just gone like that babes.. you two are married, walking out isn't the end of the story. We had to push you to make a decision, you were so angry with her, you were starting to loose respect.... Wait, she'll be calling soon, but ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 10 February 2010: Jason, Jason, Jason.. thank you very much. Sorry we are asking you to stir up a hornets nest by being truthful and putting things on the line. But this is necessary, things can't go on like this, the truth needs to be told. I am hoping with all ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Totally understood Katyani, if you look down, you'll see an apology from me as well.. :)
Mr husband, as you can see, we want you and your wife to be a happy.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: hahaha.. sorry original poster, for some reason, it seems like all the aunts and uncles have fallen in love with your wife, and keep thinking about what's best for her and are ignoring your valid complaints.. she must be one hell of a woman.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Harsh and unfair Katyayni, he said he just wants the sex games to stop, so they can settle down to have a normal family. Yes he played, but now he wants to stop and she won't. He loves her, but he can't get her to leave other people alone.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: mmmm.. time for some old fashioned man behaviour..
Do what you said, grab your wife and shake her and tell her.. "NO BLOODY MORE! I WANT YOU, I DON'T WANT OTHER PEOPLE HERE NO MORE..." maybe it's time to stand up to her and stop letting her call... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Slezzy!!!! NO! There are far too many judgemental people here for what is supposed to be an advice site for people with sexual or relationship problems. From what I can understand our aunts and uncles mostly were only defending your wife from ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: "My point is that no matter how unpopular this O.P. is, he is fundamentally still just a man who has changed his mind about being married to his wife"
Hold your horses anonymous, I don't remember this guy saying he didn't want his wife. You seem... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Actually I was flippant with my answer, because I'm angry the way you talk about your wife. But the more I think about it, the more it makes sense. She really needs to know that the "swinging" scene has made you loose respect for her.
As fa... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: You know what.. show her your post, show her exactly what you wrote to us. Then she will understand exactly what you think of her. I don't think she'll mention anything more about children, and all your problems will be solved.
I am so glad tha... (read in full...)
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