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Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 29 May 2010: Congratulations lexie... am so happy for you both.... (read in full...)
Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 19 April 2010: Sirinity Faith... nice name, so she's decided to be a footballer then.. lol... (read in full...)
This is the last thing I want...but I feel jealous of his 3 year old daughter!
Q. I NEED HELP!!!! Seriously!! ok, im 21, and my bf is 23 Ok im gonna try n not make this too long.. But My situaton, me and my fiance are getting married next year, and we currently just got house together and its me, him and his 3 year old daughter...
A. 8 April 2010: Kylie, things are going much too fast.. slow down with the wedding and continue to use contraception. A baby at the moment is the worst thing you can do. If you think things are hard now, wait until you've got a crying baby and a angry, jealous ... (read in full...)
Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 25 March 2010: Congratulations Lexie, now comes the hard part of trying to be the best mother you can.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 19 March 2010: Whatever Mr... your advice is no help at all, as I said before the poster has moved past all of this, and wasn't looking for your defence.
Now do you have any advice or suggestions that will actually help, or are you just here to look down upo... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 18 March 2010: Lonely Two, this is a long conversation that we aunts have had with Jason. He accepts that we were offended by his words about his wife, and we felt the need to defend her. He has apologised, and we have all moved on.
Please read the conversa... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 3 March 2010: Wonderful Jason, thanks for the update, got to admit, I was a little worried about you. Glad your looking into what this means and how you'll rebuild your future in a better way...
As you say, everything happens for a reason.. :)... (read in full...)
How do I feel less shy when it comes to having sex?
Q. i started seeing this guy about 2 months ago and i just feel so shy when it comes to having sex with him and i don't know why. I have had quite a few one night stands with different guys and i always thought that i knew how to get what i wanted in ...
A. 2 March 2010: Hope you have the time to follow up your post so I can know if my words offended you at all. ... (read in full...)
How do I feel less shy when it comes to having sex?
Q. i started seeing this guy about 2 months ago and i just feel so shy when it comes to having sex with him and i don't know why. I have had quite a few one night stands with different guys and i always thought that i knew how to get what i wanted in ...
A. 1 March 2010: For some reason, I think your shy full stop. Thank you for updating your post.
You haven't mentioned anything about relationships, you've just mentioned that you had one night stands with guys you probably wasn't that close too. That's easy, se... (read in full...)
He told me he just wants to get laid and not have to work for it! Should I leave him to find someone better suited to me?
Q. Ok so I have been dating a 22yr old guy now for about 7-8months and I am 23. Our sex life had not been very exciting so I finally got the courage to bring it to his attention recently. He only ever is either on top of me or me on top of him, those ...
A. 20 February 2010: It's the handcuff thing right kitycat... lol.. hope all goes well Original Poster, and if it doesn't, please update your post.. :)... (read in full...)
He told me he just wants to get laid and not have to work for it! Should I leave him to find someone better suited to me?
Q. Ok so I have been dating a 22yr old guy now for about 7-8months and I am 23. Our sex life had not been very exciting so I finally got the courage to bring it to his attention recently. He only ever is either on top of me or me on top of him, those ...
A. 18 February 2010: hahahaha.. yep, as sincere as it comes... if he's willing to learn and open up, then maybe you should keep him.... Don't forget to tell him you enjoyed yourself very much and you would be pleased to explore sex with him..
ps; Tell him to watch hi... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: hahaha.. thought that was from millie jackson meself.. ... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: ah, she left your "male rat's ass" anyway.. 10months..hahahaha..like she gives a damn.. problem solved... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: sorry, he slept with five not 10.. you disease carrier you
I'm working on it..... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: Dosen't have the same historical weight trouble....slut orginally meant slovenly,unhygenic,dirty and nasty WOMAN..appropriating the word for men just dosen't carry the same sting..
checked website.. Dawg, Dog.. is about the best insult I could fi... (read in full...)
I'm white, my BF is black, and I find ebony porn on my computer every so often.
Q. *OPs own title* First of all, my boyfriend tries to deny that he watches porn for the purpose of sexual excitement--as Myself, I have no problem with porn. I'll be the first to admit that I watched plenty of it when I was single, and I wouldn't mind...
A. 18 February 2010: What kind of porn intrests you.. Is it always black man having sex with white women, and do the men in porn look like your boyfriend, do they have the same sized dicks? Are the women prettier than you or uglier than you.
I bet you can't even rem... (read in full...)
I'm white, my BF is black, and I find ebony porn on my computer every so often.
Q. *OPs own title* First of all, my boyfriend tries to deny that he watches porn for the purpose of sexual excitement--as Myself, I have no problem with porn. I'll be the first to admit that I watched plenty of it when I was single, and I wouldn't mind...
A. 18 February 2010: Sigh... No he dosen't want to replace you. He could go out with black women if he wanted to. He could go out with other white women, he could go out with chinese or indian women... but he dosen't. He likes you, he likes your smell, he likes your ... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: If a woman is a slut... WHAT IS THE MALE EQUIVALENT.. what word do I use for men who sleep with many women?... (read in full...)
Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...
A. 18 February 2010: Do I have anything to add..
NO! She's a human being and you need to GROW UP... (read in full...)
Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?
Q. I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...
A. 18 February 2010: Hahaha... I started to wonder if he had changed and could be good... But Time reveals all.. I've been watching your posts and wondering, but didn't have anything usefull to add..
Now I don't have to... The dog done himself in... HE'S A LIAR, HE... (read in full...)
Catholic girls are supposed to be saints, but I have ended up getting pregnant at 15
Q. Ok im 15 and pregnant.. But Im also Bi.. but Idk what I should do.. because I was raised to be a Catholic girl... Catholics are supposed to be "saints". I need advise, but dont need to be judged.. Please help?...
A. 18 February 2010: Lexi, I know your parents haven't acted well to you or your sister. But here you have friends, your a young girl that made a mistake and your desperately trying to do the right thing. Come and talk about whatever bothers you. Serrina is right, ... (read in full...)
I don't understand religion and why we should be forced to put up with it.
Q. hi, im 14 and an atheist but i respect religious people who are open to another persons point of view, but the other side of that coin is that ignorance and single mindedness makes me really really angry. i just dont understand religion, i mean no ...
A. 17 February 2010: ahahahaha... bharat mehta no way.. that's not the right books for him.. Throw out AYN RAND, the woman is immoral, sartre is good, but too difficult to understand.
Read J.S Mills "on liberty", he will explain why you have a right to your views, b... (read in full...)
I don't understand religion and why we should be forced to put up with it.
Q. hi, im 14 and an atheist but i respect religious people who are open to another persons point of view, but the other side of that coin is that ignorance and single mindedness makes me really really angry. i just dont understand religion, i mean no ...
A. 17 February 2010: Thanks for appologising young man, I was a little upset with you. A rude closed mind judgemental atheist is as bad as a rude closed minded judgemental christian. This is one world and we all got to get along with our different beliefs. Your an ... (read in full...)
Why is it that women, more often than men, still have "friendships" with their ex boyfriends?
Q. Hello all. I need some point of views from the ladies to really understand my girlfriend. We are constantly at each others throats...Here is the topic and I want to get everyone's point of view on the matter. Why is it that women, more often than ...
A. 17 February 2010: First you are wrong.. unless you've done a piece of mass scale research, you have no idea if it's men or women who prefer to keep in touch with their ex partners. Check on Dear Cupid, we've probably got more women than men who hate freindships ... (read in full...)
My Prince Charming says he'll only stay with me if I give our baby up for adoption.
Q. Hi, i am 18 years old, i am having a baby, i am 17weeks today, me and the father are together but he says he will be with and stay with me if i give the baby up for adoption, and if i keep it he will leave, I am stuck in a rut and im not sure what ...
A. 17 February 2010: Think about what you want.. Abortion, adoption or keep the baby, it's your decision and if he won't support you, then he's no good and he'll be gone soon anyway.... (read in full...)
My Prince Charming says he'll only stay with me if I give our baby up for adoption.
Q. Hi, i am 18 years old, i am having a baby, i am 17weeks today, me and the father are together but he says he will be with and stay with me if i give the baby up for adoption, and if i keep it he will leave, I am stuck in a rut and im not sure what ...
A. 17 February 2010: Prince Charming dosen't force a mother to give away her child... And the princess should know a selfish frog when she see's one..
Seems like you'll do anything for this man, bad, bad decision, you'll find out one day, as right now your consider... (read in full...)
Is my husband looking for attention?
Q. there has been two incidents (1) divorced friend and my hubby got chatting and laughing so much they ate even my salad at table (left with vinegar on plate) when asked what the chatting was about was told nothing, just nothing conseque...
A. 17 February 2010: I'm sorry, your post is very unreadable, I can't understand what you are saying.... (read in full...)
How do I feel less shy when it comes to having sex?
Q. i started seeing this guy about 2 months ago and i just feel so shy when it comes to having sex with him and i don't know why. I have had quite a few one night stands with different guys and i always thought that i knew how to get what i wanted in ...
A. 17 February 2010: It would be helpfull if you put down your age.... (read in full...)
He told me he just wants to get laid and not have to work for it! Should I leave him to find someone better suited to me?
Q. Ok so I have been dating a 22yr old guy now for about 7-8months and I am 23. Our sex life had not been very exciting so I finally got the courage to bring it to his attention recently. He only ever is either on top of me or me on top of him, those ...
A. 17 February 2010: Leave him, the guy is a jackass, he's selfish and he dosen't seem to respect women much.. you can do better even by yourself with a sex toy...
Give him a bottle before you leave, he just needs relief, so that's all that he needs. He dosen't ... (read in full...)
Catholic girls are supposed to be saints, but I have ended up getting pregnant at 15
Q. Ok im 15 and pregnant.. But Im also Bi.. but Idk what I should do.. because I was raised to be a Catholic girl... Catholics are supposed to be "saints". I need advise, but dont need to be judged.. Please help?...
A. 17 February 2010: As far as I know, your god is pure love, he knows everything and see's everything and he's pure forgiveness.... Sin and punishment is things that human's do, forgive yourself first that's important. God knows what happened and he understands.... (read in full...)
Am I financially looking after my ex?? My new partner seems to think so!
Q. I am seperated and filing for divorce. I left over 2 years ago. I have numerous assets in many forms. I have numerous trusts. The family home is in a trust. I had built a small fortune while with my soon to be ex wife. I have been trying to get a ...
A. 17 February 2010: Your new girlfriend makes me nervous. With the help of your wife, and yes, she helped, she made beds, looked after kids, done tons of stuff, you built up a bit of money. You have a fair split at 60% (her) 40% (you) in relation to your children. ... (read in full...)
Catholic girls are supposed to be saints, but I have ended up getting pregnant at 15
Q. Ok im 15 and pregnant.. But Im also Bi.. but Idk what I should do.. because I was raised to be a Catholic girl... Catholics are supposed to be "saints". I need advise, but dont need to be judged.. Please help?...
A. 17 February 2010: Sorry, my advice is if you are a practising Catholic. If you are not, or are an non-believer (atheist) like me, then you've not sinned. You just should have waited untill you were older. If I remember rightly the contraception let you down. ... (read in full...)
Catholic girls are supposed to be saints, but I have ended up getting pregnant at 15
Q. Ok im 15 and pregnant.. But Im also Bi.. but Idk what I should do.. because I was raised to be a Catholic girl... Catholics are supposed to be "saints". I need advise, but dont need to be judged.. Please help?...
A. 17 February 2010: Hi Lexi, hope things are going well with you and you've made an appointment with your doctor.
Anyway Catholic people are human, and from what I understand, the catholic church knows that people committ sins, it just asks them to try hard not to m... (read in full...)
I don't enjoy sex anymore, will this cause problems in my relationship?
Q. I think I need help sometimes if I'm having sex with my lover I don't anything and I thing that will cause problems into our relationship I don't know what to do...
A. 17 February 2010: Sorry, english is not your mother language. It is hard to understand you. You need to tell us more so we can help. Does the man hurt you? Do you find pleasure? Is he too fast, is he too slow.. Did you like sex before? Why do you not like sex ... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 17 February 2010: Had to quote this again..
"But all of them fall under the heading of "Femdom" or "Domination". You're not equal partners. He's the slave, the submissive, to you....... But you BOTH have to be fine with it. If this is just you punishing him beca... (read in full...)
Why should I put up with my man looking at porn?
Q. Ok, why do I just "have to accept" porn in my life? My boyfriend jacks off to porn. Sure, our sex life is great, and believe me I don't mind quickies or gettigng him off without anything in return. But why does he have to look at other naked women? ...
A. 17 February 2010: "But TTM, why would they drool over something they don't want in real life?"
Did somebody mention Q again?...
The answer of course, is because it's fun.... (read in full...)
Am I labelling myself right?
Q. I am 15 an i have been using the term bisexual but recently realized that that term may be wrong. I date girls and guys and like both romantically but i dont want sex with either one. I have had sex with a guy but i didnt really care either way for ...
A. 17 February 2010: You are young and not sexually active.. celibate is probably the right term for you right now. Not all 15year olds feel they need to have sex. At your age, liking people (boy or girl) dating and kissing and leaving out sex is good enough. Most ... (read in full...)
I hate my surname! Is there any solution to this?
Q. I know this problem is lighthearted compared to some of the other stuff people are going through, but it's been bugging me for a long time. I can accpet an honest answer but please don't judge me as shallow. I love my family, but I absolutely hat...
A. 17 February 2010: Your bloody 30-35.. you may not have noticed, but you are now AN ADULT.... your family won't die if you change your name.. and it's a bit to late to kick you out of the house now..
Don't know much about American law, but either go to your local to... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: LAWYER!!!!!! You got to get one of those right away.... no more booze, you got to protect yourself.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: Yea.. please stay off the alcohol and booze... I don't want her to see you crushed and needy, as you said, there's already enough talk. You got to keep your head clear and held high. What's wrong with a man wanting to have a normal married life.
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Am I just fooling myself trying to believe that he is not cheating?
Q. I have been married for 5 years. Husband is from a different counrty and speaks excellent english. We have had a great relationship I thought. I have been back and forth from the US to his country and last year when i returned to his country, I ...
A. 17 February 2010: OK.. evidence needed... ask him to unlock that phone.
Ps: It's not good for you two to live so far away from each otherr, a man could get lonely.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: Jason, has she had any sexual abuse in her childhood, or abusive relationships in the past?... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: I don't like her so much no more....no thank you, no talk... nothing... at the moment, I got a lot of nasty words to say about that lady.... sorry.... she dosen't bloody deserve you. I so wanted things to go well. :(... (read in full...)
Am I just fooling myself trying to believe that he is not cheating?
Q. I have been married for 5 years. Husband is from a different counrty and speaks excellent english. We have had a great relationship I thought. I have been back and forth from the US to his country and last year when i returned to his country, I ...
A. 17 February 2010: They are not in the same time frame, but they've all happened in the last year.. look at what you wrote. Your gut knows what is real and what is make believe.... (read in full...)
Am I just fooling myself trying to believe that he is not cheating?
Q. I have been married for 5 years. Husband is from a different counrty and speaks excellent english. We have had a great relationship I thought. I have been back and forth from the US to his country and last year when i returned to his country, I ...
A. 17 February 2010: 1. First you find condoms
2. Then love texts from your husband to some girl
3. Pictures of her on his car
4. 1000 of sms messages (could be anyone though)
5. His job has no set hours, so he could be anywhere
6. Always has some type of silly e... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with the shape of my penis?
Q. hey everyone Im 15 and i have a... Different penis Its not like a banana like other guys and its not straight it almost looks like someones twisted it around It doesent stick out forward but kind of points to my left ear :s is there something wr...
A. 17 February 2010: Here, check this website out, tells you all you need to know about the penis and what is normal.
http://www.the-penis.com/index.html... (read in full...)
Is my mum right - should he grow up and provide?
Q. Hi there. My boyfriend is 35 and I am 26. My mother doesn't think he's good enough for me, for very old fashioned reasons. Now I'm beginning to think she's right. Or am I being shallow? My boyfriend worked but kept dead end jobs until he was ...
A. 17 February 2010: mmmmmm.. the world has changed. Men no longer have to be the bread winner, sometimes women are more career minded and earn more than they do. Also a job for life is a thing of the past. Many adults find themselves made redundant and then have to ... (read in full...)
Why should I put up with my man looking at porn?
Q. Ok, why do I just "have to accept" porn in my life? My boyfriend jacks off to porn. Sure, our sex life is great, and believe me I don't mind quickies or gettigng him off without anything in return. But why does he have to look at other naked women? ...
A. 17 February 2010: hahahaha.. your getting slow Q.. was waiting for you to notice that.... (read in full...)
This is the last thing I want...but I feel jealous of his 3 year old daughter!
Q. I NEED HELP!!!! Seriously!! ok, im 21, and my bf is 23 Ok im gonna try n not make this too long.. But My situaton, me and my fiance are getting married next year, and we currently just got house together and its me, him and his 3 year old daughter...
A. 17 February 2010: Oh, when she jumps in between and spoils your kiss, the only response to "my daddy", is "yes your daddy, and the man I love", then give her a kiss, a hug or tickle her, and then kiss him again. Show her that there's space for her and you and daddy ... (read in full...)
This is the last thing I want...but I feel jealous of his 3 year old daughter!
Q. I NEED HELP!!!! Seriously!! ok, im 21, and my bf is 23 Ok im gonna try n not make this too long.. But My situaton, me and my fiance are getting married next year, and we currently just got house together and its me, him and his 3 year old daughter...
A. 17 February 2010: hahahahaa.. calm down, calm down.. take a deep breathe, your not doing anything wrong, and you have been brilliant with this little girl...
Ok, feeling a little better now.. :)
You are very young yourself and of course you want some loving time... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 17 February 2010: Trouble, KC, me and some of the others did agree that delaying sex could be fun... but this strange woman came back and said, no her partner is not happy, he dosen't like it and this makes her feel more sexy and hot.
Even our tantric guy tried to... (read in full...)
Help!! I'm in love with someone I can't have...
Q. Hello I am 21 he is 34...In september of 2008 I started to think I liked my coworker we were both having issues with our partners, I was having serious problems with my husband abusing me and he was having problems with his GF. So that created a ...
A. 17 February 2010: "we are still so very much in love"????? (mdttjulie)
He's not married at the moment. He has a girlfriend who he is cheating on, he lies to her whilst he ran arround having sex with you. If he loves you so much, why dosen't he leave her, wai... (read in full...)
Does our female teacher have a crush on my male friend?
Q. I think a (female) teacher at my school fancies my (male) friend? First, let me make it clear I have no feelings for him except as a friend, so it's not me being paranoid. She often flirts with him a bit, and has said several times how perfect ...
A. 17 February 2010: Nope.. she could be worried about him though. He may have problems at home you are not aware off, or he may have said something or done something that has her worried. Teacher's aren't just teachers, they have to look after your mental health and ... (read in full...)
Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 17 February 2010: Lexi, your doing real well, you got your sister and your boyfriend to help you right now. Please contact planned pregnancy, get advice from the experts there. You do need to see a doctor as soon as possible.
About your parents.. catholic... (read in full...)
She has a broken heart, can anyone help me find the glue to reconstruct it again?
Q. Ok here I go this will take a little well it all started right b4 christmas, I was going Christmas shopping and I saw this girl we seen each other we hadn't talked or anything for about 3yrs I wanted to date her back then when I was 15 then which ...
A. 17 February 2010: OK.. won't tell you off for the bad grammar then.. lol
I'm really bad at how to get someone to like you things, but I'll give it my best shot.
First and most important, she's still caught up on her ex, whether he's good or bad, she's still emot... (read in full...)
Why should I put up with my man looking at porn?
Q. Ok, why do I just "have to accept" porn in my life? My boyfriend jacks off to porn. Sure, our sex life is great, and believe me I don't mind quickies or gettigng him off without anything in return. But why does he have to look at other naked women? ...
A. 17 February 2010: I plead 5th amendment cause Q paid me...... (read in full...)
Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?
Q. I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...
A. 15 February 2010: *Has this guy ever told the truth?... (read in full...)
Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?
Q. I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...
A. 15 February 2010: You been with this guy for 2 years. He constantly lies and hurts you, untill you have enough and tell him to go sort out his head. He tells you he loves you and wants you back, but he's still lying, he's been screwing some girl behind your back. ... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 15 February 2010: A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010):
" You are one of 2 things:
1- A serious poster, and then I do not blame you, but you need professional help,and you need it badly.
2- You are a troll, and then you need to be doing somethin... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 15 February 2010: mmm.... I was wrong... your boyfriend isn't having a good time and he's not enjoying himself...
A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010)
"I've dated girls that did this. But I haven't dated any of them for very long."
Nope, don't... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 15 February 2010: Stuff that... punish him all you like honeypie.. I'm sure he enjoys it.. hahahahaha.. :)... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 15 February 2010: Bharat Mehta thank you very much, the aunts and uncles were starting to make me feel bad about my sexual habits. I was starting to wonder if only me and this young women were the only freaks.
Dear Poster, I don't think it's good for you to use s... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 15 February 2010: Hi Jason.. thinking of you today on 14th February, hope things are going a little better for you.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: sorry.. OFF TOPIC, but it's nice to see you back Laura.. with your spirtality moving the world, there is never no judgement, people are people, and you always have that guiding light to solve every problem or leave us with wisdom instead. In your ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: To true Mal, you always got to look at the man (woman) in the mirror.. there are compromises you can make, you can talk.. but if you can't look yourself in the mirror, then it's the wrong decision and it's the wrong way.. :(... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: Exactly Q.. live and let live, have fun, one life to live..
But Jason's not happy, and you know how kids change things.. Jason's story is different, but it would be good for people with minor stories to hear what he has to say.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: Damn Q .... I was already feeling sad over Jason and his wife's story... so much love, different interests make it difficult to work...
And now you go and hit me with this....
"She will be the one that go's down as the person that turned her ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: Jason, she hasn't just gone like that babes.. you two are married, walking out isn't the end of the story. We had to push you to make a decision, you were so angry with her, you were starting to loose respect.... Wait, she'll be calling soon, but ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 10 February 2010: Jason, Jason, Jason.. thank you very much. Sorry we are asking you to stir up a hornets nest by being truthful and putting things on the line. But this is necessary, things can't go on like this, the truth needs to be told. I am hoping with all ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Totally understood Katyani, if you look down, you'll see an apology from me as well.. :)
Mr husband, as you can see, we want you and your wife to be a happy.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: hahaha.. sorry original poster, for some reason, it seems like all the aunts and uncles have fallen in love with your wife, and keep thinking about what's best for her and are ignoring your valid complaints.. she must be one hell of a woman.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Harsh and unfair Katyayni, he said he just wants the sex games to stop, so they can settle down to have a normal family. Yes he played, but now he wants to stop and she won't. He loves her, but he can't get her to leave other people alone.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: mmmm.. time for some old fashioned man behaviour..
Do what you said, grab your wife and shake her and tell her.. "NO BLOODY MORE! I WANT YOU, I DON'T WANT OTHER PEOPLE HERE NO MORE..." maybe it's time to stand up to her and stop letting her call... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Slezzy!!!! NO! There are far too many judgemental people here for what is supposed to be an advice site for people with sexual or relationship problems. From what I can understand our aunts and uncles mostly were only defending your wife from ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: "My point is that no matter how unpopular this O.P. is, he is fundamentally still just a man who has changed his mind about being married to his wife"
Hold your horses anonymous, I don't remember this guy saying he didn't want his wife. You seem... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: Actually I was flippant with my answer, because I'm angry the way you talk about your wife. But the more I think about it, the more it makes sense. She really needs to know that the "swinging" scene has made you loose respect for her.
As fa... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 9 February 2010: You know what.. show her your post, show her exactly what you wrote to us. Then she will understand exactly what you think of her. I don't think she'll mention anything more about children, and all your problems will be solved.
I am so glad tha... (read in full...)
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