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Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 29 May 2010: Congratulations lexie... am so happy for you both.... (read in full...)
Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 19 April 2010: Sirinity Faith... nice name, so she's decided to be a footballer then.. lol... (read in full...)
Why are my teachers saying I'm anorexic??
Q. Hi again, I know I have already put a question up about teachers and boyfriends! But can someone help me.... All my teachers (and I really do mean ALL my teachers) are telling me I'm anorexic! Ok I may not be helping this situation by calling mys...
A. 28 March 2010: Good luck mish mash, we and everyone else are worried about you.. take care of you... Blessings... (read in full...)
Why are my teachers saying I'm anorexic??
Q. Hi again, I know I have already put a question up about teachers and boyfriends! But can someone help me.... All my teachers (and I really do mean ALL my teachers) are telling me I'm anorexic! Ok I may not be helping this situation by calling mys...
A. 28 March 2010: If you can't eat one big meal, then break it down, try to eat 6 small meals... Nuts are high in protein, so are eggs and they are easy to swallow. Don't forget your fruit and carbohydrates, mash potatoes are easy to swallow.
Ask to see a counsell... (read in full...)
Why are my teachers saying I'm anorexic??
Q. Hi again, I know I have already put a question up about teachers and boyfriends! But can someone help me.... All my teachers (and I really do mean ALL my teachers) are telling me I'm anorexic! Ok I may not be helping this situation by calling mys...
A. 28 March 2010: Yes marieclaire, my comment should have been posed to the original poster.. :)
Mish Mash, how can we know what is normal for your age.. it depends on your height and your weight.. surely you know what that is, you calorie count and you've been see... (read in full...)
Why are my teachers saying I'm anorexic??
Q. Hi again, I know I have already put a question up about teachers and boyfriends! But can someone help me.... All my teachers (and I really do mean ALL my teachers) are telling me I'm anorexic! Ok I may not be helping this situation by calling mys...
A. 27 March 2010: Marieclaire, part of the problem with anorexics is they want to stay in control, they also like the attention they are getting. She will not admit that she is sick, she will continue to overexercise and starve herself.. but she will loose control, ... (read in full...)
Why are my teachers saying I'm anorexic??
Q. Hi again, I know I have already put a question up about teachers and boyfriends! But can someone help me.... All my teachers (and I really do mean ALL my teachers) are telling me I'm anorexic! Ok I may not be helping this situation by calling mys...
A. 27 March 2010: I also noticed you haven't mentioned your height or your weight... you are probably well below a normal BMI, and have the body of a child.
http://www.rcpsych.ac.uk/default.aspx?page=1428
You will either eat or you will be sectioned and fo... (read in full...)
Why are my teachers saying I'm anorexic??
Q. Hi again, I know I have already put a question up about teachers and boyfriends! But can someone help me.... All my teachers (and I really do mean ALL my teachers) are telling me I'm anorexic! Ok I may not be helping this situation by calling mys...
A. 27 March 2010: All the things you say are the symptoms of anorexia. A trained medical person (school nurse) has diagnoised you as anorexic. Soon your periods will stop, then you won't heal if you cut yourself. Before you drop into a coma, the medical team and ... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming about the lap dance my husband got during his bachelor party and don't know how to heal this hurt.
Q. Hi everyone, I've seen some similar questions to this, but I'd like to get your advice on mine. I've been married three months to a wonderful guy but for most of our relationship, we have been apart from each other. He lives in the US and I,...
A. 26 March 2010: I'm sorry, perhaps I'm a little thoughtless or bad tempered at the moment. You can't control your dreams or flashbacks, nor can you force yourself to like something that you think is wrong. You've done all the right things, you've discussed it ... (read in full...)
Ladies... Fingers in your mouth during "passion". Yes or no?
Q. Lets say you are in the heat of the moment and he is being very passionate during sex..... Do you find it a turn on when your partner puts one or two fingers in your mouth to suck on? Or do you find it a bit weird? Of course, this is all duri...
A. 26 March 2010: opps.. very sexy, but also dangerous for the man, I can bite if the feelings are too extreme.. :P
If his mouth, his penis, and the rest of his body are clean enough to kiss, and his hands are clean enough to touch my body, I don't really see what... (read in full...)
Ladies... Fingers in your mouth during "passion". Yes or no?
Q. Lets say you are in the heat of the moment and he is being very passionate during sex..... Do you find it a turn on when your partner puts one or two fingers in your mouth to suck on? Or do you find it a bit weird? Of course, this is all duri...
A. 26 March 2010: SEXY!!!! LOL..:)... (read in full...)
I don't want sex but I still pleasure him orally and he wants more help!!!
Q. I'm a 26 year old healthy woman who has absolutely no interest in sex or any type of physical intimacy. When I first met my bf, I would have sex with him to make him happy but it did nothing for me (we've been together for 9 months). Now I've tol...
A. 26 March 2010: me again.. Do you have sensitive skin? Do you like the smell of roses? I used to practise aromatherapy massage and found it very helpful to help people get over abuse, trauma and sadness.. I think it might help you.
Get a bottle of almond o... (read in full...)
I don't want sex but I still pleasure him orally and he wants more help!!!
Q. I'm a 26 year old healthy woman who has absolutely no interest in sex or any type of physical intimacy. When I first met my bf, I would have sex with him to make him happy but it did nothing for me (we've been together for 9 months). Now I've tol...
A. 26 March 2010: You've been very, very brave young lady. First to come here and discuss your problem, then to go and discuss your sexual past with your boyfriend. These are very hard things to do, as hard as any one of them famous men who conquer mountains and ... (read in full...)
He sent flowers and a bear from overseas, but I am not happy coz they arrived at night after I waited all day for a call.
Q. hey everyone! okay,so it was my birthday a week back and my best friend stays in another country. He sent me flowers that reached me the evening of my birthday and a cute bunny bear that said I love you. But throughout the day,I was waiting for ...
A. 26 March 2010: I understand... you miss him and he's far away, you were looking forward to hearing his voice. But he has his girlfriend, you have your boyfriend, he lives far away, things are changing. This is the way life goes, our friends move, they get busy, ... (read in full...)
How can I prove I have changed when I am not even with her?
Q. Well im AuntyAlexxmo and i am not used to asking questions on here answering them is more my thing, but i have seen the good advice given to other and well i dont know what else to do to be honest with you. I can feel myself falling apart, my gf of ...
A. 26 March 2010: As you know there's not enough information here to go on.. what did you do to upset her, how bad was it. What things do you say that makes her get mad? It must be pretty bad for her to walk off and still love you. Women are very funny about ... (read in full...)
Have any other guys overcome feeling inhibited when it comes to sex?
Q. Alright...First off I feel really stupid and emasculated to even ask this, but I think there has to be other guys in my shoes or who have been in my shoes. First off, I'm 31, male and recently divorced after being married for quite a few years. I...
A. 26 March 2010: Opps.. I shouldn't know such much about this subject, now I've read the responses from the men.. :(
mmmmm... I read it in one of me romance books, pirates are always knocking around the woman before they fall in love with them.. :)
That's ... (read in full...)
Have any other guys overcome feeling inhibited when it comes to sex?
Q. Alright...First off I feel really stupid and emasculated to even ask this, but I think there has to be other guys in my shoes or who have been in my shoes. First off, I'm 31, male and recently divorced after being married for quite a few years. I...
A. 26 March 2010: Your a little freaked out by this, because your girlfriend is a little "sex freak".. lol.. I call this advanced sexual play, she's into domination and humiliation, some women are, but it's not at all average sex play.
Your doing fine, remember... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming about the lap dance my husband got during his bachelor party and don't know how to heal this hurt.
Q. Hi everyone, I've seen some similar questions to this, but I'd like to get your advice on mine. I've been married three months to a wonderful guy but for most of our relationship, we have been apart from each other. He lives in the US and I,...
A. 26 March 2010: Angzw, your words are totally right.. I've never liked jealousy, and I've never been possessive. I grew up with boys had lots of men friends and was a tomboy, so men always told me the truth about things. Most guys still think I'm a man.. :)
... (read in full...)
Help!! Advice on husbands actions... Lies, porn and masturbation!!
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost 16 years and I now have come to a place in our marriage that I am not sure what to do next. I just recently caught him AGAIN watching porn and masturbating. I was so sick to my stomach and absolutly ...
A. 26 March 2010: The reason men lie is because women will leave them if they are honest about the amount of pornogrpahy they watch or the amount of times they masterbate.
Men don't want you to be porn queens, they want you to be you. Men can love you, lust aft... (read in full...)
Help!! Advice on husbands actions... Lies, porn and masturbation!!
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost 16 years and I now have come to a place in our marriage that I am not sure what to do next. I just recently caught him AGAIN watching porn and masturbating. I was so sick to my stomach and absolutly ...
A. 26 March 2010: Sorry to push you so hard mrs wife, but it helps you think about things more seriously.
Please go and talk to your husband about all the things your feeling and about the things we've said. Tell him about your hopes for marriage, ask him if he's ... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming about the lap dance my husband got during his bachelor party and don't know how to heal this hurt.
Q. Hi everyone, I've seen some similar questions to this, but I'd like to get your advice on mine. I've been married three months to a wonderful guy but for most of our relationship, we have been apart from each other. He lives in the US and I,...
A. 26 March 2010: "I think some women have been screwed around on so much that their expectations and acceptance levels drop. The moment I think this will happen to me, is the moment I start losing self-respect."
And maybe some women think that love should be uncon... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming about the lap dance my husband got during his bachelor party and don't know how to heal this hurt.
Q. Hi everyone, I've seen some similar questions to this, but I'd like to get your advice on mine. I've been married three months to a wonderful guy but for most of our relationship, we have been apart from each other. He lives in the US and I,...
A. 25 March 2010: You can be happy and in love and learn to let the past go, or you can dwelling on this one incident and make yourself and your partner unhappy.... stay trapped in the past and you'll stop smiling and you'll have problems with him...
Life is too s... (read in full...)
How can I spice up a boring sex life?
Q. Hey everyone. Im 19 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and our sex life is getting boring. I thought about a 3some but i dnt think he would go for it and how would u go about that? any advice on how to spice it up would be very ...
A. 25 March 2010: No, check the dear cupid website, most people are against threesomes and when they happen they can ruin relationships.
Sigh.. your boyfriend isn't bored, stop worrying, and don't follow what stupid people say, half of them are down right jealous.... (read in full...)
How can I spice up a boring sex life?
Q. Hey everyone. Im 19 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and our sex life is getting boring. I thought about a 3some but i dnt think he would go for it and how would u go about that? any advice on how to spice it up would be very ...
A. 25 March 2010: At 19 your already bored? What will you do when your 40, become a prostitute or a nun. I'm 40 and there's still tons of things I haven't done, you young people approach sex like its fast food, you need to slow down.
Try to see if you've done eve... (read in full...)
Help!! Advice on husbands actions... Lies, porn and masturbation!!
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost 16 years and I now have come to a place in our marriage that I am not sure what to do next. I just recently caught him AGAIN watching porn and masturbating. I was so sick to my stomach and absolutly ...
A. 25 March 2010: "He wants to do all this weird stuff and I am not into all of that."
What is all this weird stuff that he wants to do? Lady I hope your not still in the missionary position, thinking that's all there is to sex. Men in relationships like this get... (read in full...)
Guys watch porn. Do women?
Q. It seems that one of the most discussed topics on DC is porn and situations related to the watching of and enjoyment of porn by one person in a relationship, and that being resented by the other. To wit: a guy watches porn, as guys are known t...
A. 25 March 2010: Wait a second, be careful, I'm not interested in lesbian porn and if my guy put one on, I'd think he'd be trying to get me to do a threesome... I wouldn't be very pleased, what about me, where's me penis to look at..
Sigh, I think you better a... (read in full...)
My loyalty is to my deceased wife, ... so how can I stop other women hitting on me!
Q. I have four beautiful daughters who mean the world to me. They range from 13 months-8 years. I became a widower 8 months ago and my daughters and I are still dealing with the shock and grief. There isn't a second that goes by that doesn't make me ...
A. 25 March 2010: ppff.. some people are just too nice... sometimes rudeness is called for.. before he knows it, she'll have her hand down his trousers.. sometimes people don't hear too good, they only hear what they want to believe...
Being rude, or being nice, or... (read in full...)
I am female, watch porn, but feel awkward watching sex scenes in movies if my boyfriend is around.
Q. i know my boyfriend and me both enjoy watching porn, tho we never speak about it to eachother. it seems socially awkward. i masterbate to porn behind his back sometimes, i dont believe he even knows. and i dont believe he masterbates to porn(unless ...
A. 25 March 2010: Porn can be your little private time, your fantasy, much different to watching a sexy movie together which has a storyline and consequences.
I suggest if you want to bring the issue up and share it with him, you get some very light non-offe... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 25 March 2010: "she contact him every week to say everything is ok."
Yes, your being unreasonable. She calls once a week to update him on how her pregnancy is going, this is how it's always going to be. She'll be calling more often when the child is born.... (read in full...)
Did my mum abuse me smacking me in this way?
Q. I'm nearly 14 and still got smacked by mom! Me and my little brother who's 10 were fighting out back and mom caught us, smacked my bro's butt a couple of times with her hand then she took off her shoe and smacked my ass 8 maybe 10 times pretty hard ...
A. 25 March 2010: Spanking is not illegal in Britain, and it is not classed as abuse. You are not bleeding, your mother hit you on your bottom, not in the face, it was not a punch, therefore it cannot be defined as abuse. Nobody can say your mother is abusive, this ... (read in full...)
He sent flowers and a bear from overseas, but I am not happy coz they arrived at night after I waited all day for a call.
Q. hey everyone! okay,so it was my birthday a week back and my best friend stays in another country. He sent me flowers that reached me the evening of my birthday and a cute bunny bear that said I love you. But throughout the day,I was waiting for ...
A. 25 March 2010: YES you are. He's obviously busy, he didn't forget you, he took the time to send you something nice. His girlfriend is in his life, that's the reality. He's only a friend, and he owes you nothing. Grow up young lady, friends that take any time ... (read in full...)
My loyalty is to my deceased wife, ... so how can I stop other women hitting on me!
Q. I have four beautiful daughters who mean the world to me. They range from 13 months-8 years. I became a widower 8 months ago and my daughters and I are still dealing with the shock and grief. There isn't a second that goes by that doesn't make me ...
A. 25 March 2010: Don't be polite, be very rude and tell her that your not interested, you don't want to date and she's embarrassing herself and you with the way she's acting. Why not, if you were a woman and she was a man this would be serious sexual harassment.... (read in full...)
Help!! Advice on husbands actions... Lies, porn and masturbation!!
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost 16 years and I now have come to a place in our marriage that I am not sure what to do next. I just recently caught him AGAIN watching porn and masturbating. I was so sick to my stomach and absolutly ...
A. 25 March 2010: If you think that your husband is strange, you'll be surprised by the men you meet after you get your divorce.... (read in full...)
Help!! Advice on husbands actions... Lies, porn and masturbation!!
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost 16 years and I now have come to a place in our marriage that I am not sure what to do next. I just recently caught him AGAIN watching porn and masturbating. I was so sick to my stomach and absolutly ...
A. 25 March 2010: "I guess I thought men only masturbated when they didn't have anyone or were perverted"
A large percentage of men masturbate, I think the majority do. Men think about sex an awful lot. Priest, Teachers, married men, children, all males masturba... (read in full...)
When did your little girl start to grow up?
Q. Maybe this question is irrelevant to the point of this site. But I figure I'll give it a shot. I have four daughters. My oldest is 8-almost-9 and in third grade. A few of her friends are growing up fast. They wear deodorant, bras (even though the...
A. 25 March 2010: I'm Jamaican British, we are a little stricter on most things.. you can negotiate.. run a democracy or like my family, dictatorship all the way.. :)
12-13 they want to follow the big girls, 13-14 puberty hits and they start to become young wo... (read in full...)
Dreaded pimples!!!!
Q. Please i really need your advice on what to use.... have got a date on sunday, and i woke up this morning with so many pimples on ma face... please what can i use to make it go away before my date on sunday???...
A. 25 March 2010: Use Tea Tree, a essential oil from Australia, you should be able to get it in the chemist.... (read in full...)
Why does my husband post perverted uotes on his blog for all to see?
Q. Why does my husband post perverted quotes from movies in his blog? Is he wanting to gain attention from a female friend on his buddy list? Everyone can read it including the people he works with since they are on his friends list. Is this normal? ...
A. 25 March 2010: You really don't like your husbands blog.. this is the second time you've posted. Talk to him about your concerns, and ask him to remove all pictures of you and the children.
Then leave him alone and stop reading the blog, as everything he dose ... (read in full...)
When did your little girl start to grow up?
Q. Maybe this question is irrelevant to the point of this site. But I figure I'll give it a shot. I have four daughters. My oldest is 8-almost-9 and in third grade. A few of her friends are growing up fast. They wear deodorant, bras (even though the...
A. 25 March 2010: When can they date? (Is sixteen too old?) hahahahaha.. lol.. yep, I think it's too old.
Sorry I'm from UK, not sure what ages they are. But you are the parent and it's your rules that count. 13-14 is the age when you can start letting them gro... (read in full...)
How do you make a three person relationship work?
Q. I just want to know if anyone is in a 3-some relationship. If so can u tell me how you make it work cause I'm in one and sometimes i feel uncomfortable. ...
A. 25 March 2010: Don't know if your with two men or with a man and another girl, but first you should all be comfortable to live like this and you should all be friendly.
Then taking the words of the Koran (Muslims can marry more than once) Each partner should b... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is addicted to porn and I hate it...but I don't know why.
Q. My girlfriend has been addicted to porn since before we got togeather but told me she had stopped at the beginning of the relationship. I recently found out that shes been watching porn behind my back, this really pisses me off... Im not even quite ...
A. 25 March 2010: It's her body, it's her hands and it's her eyes. She has a right to masturbate and she has a right to enjoy herself this way. You watch pornography, you know why it's enjoyable. You choose not to watch it, but she dosen't see the world the way ... (read in full...)
I don't want sex but I still pleasure him orally and he wants more help!!!
Q. I'm a 26 year old healthy woman who has absolutely no interest in sex or any type of physical intimacy. When I first met my bf, I would have sex with him to make him happy but it did nothing for me (we've been together for 9 months). Now I've tol...
A. 25 March 2010: "No kissing, cuddling, oral sex on me or sex at all."
Yes very, very strange indeed... explain to me again why you need a boyfriend. Boyfriends and girlfriends do these type of things. You don't need a partner at all, you just need a friend. ... (read in full...)
I don't want sex but I still pleasure him orally and he wants more help!!!
Q. I'm a 26 year old healthy woman who has absolutely no interest in sex or any type of physical intimacy. When I first met my bf, I would have sex with him to make him happy but it did nothing for me (we've been together for 9 months). Now I've tol...
A. 25 March 2010: I'm a 26 year old healthy woman who has absolutely no interest in sex or any type of physical intimacy.
Nope, you are not healthy... you dislike physical intimacy. There is a very small percentage of the population who are non-sexual, but this... (read in full...)
Help!! Advice on husbands actions... Lies, porn and masturbation!!
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost 16 years and I now have come to a place in our marriage that I am not sure what to do next. I just recently caught him AGAIN watching porn and masturbating. I was so sick to my stomach and absolutly ...
A. 25 March 2010: "No, I really don't want to have sex with him"... this will encourage him to reach for the porn, a man needs sex to stay mentally healthy.
Marriage guidance or divorce seems to be the only way.
mmmm... why isn't he allowed to masturbate? Why ... (read in full...)
Threesome with husband & best friend gone wrong... I think??
Q. Hello, My husband and I had a threesome with my best friend the other evening. I wasn't exactly into it and I told him but he kept insisting and finally when we were all watching tv he made the move. I wasn't exactly expecting him too but I thought ...
A. 25 March 2010: Didn't see your follow up.. Next time you must use your voice, if your not comfortable with something then tell him, he's not a mind reader.
I know it's hard, but you must now put all this in the past. Things weren't clear, you didn't speak up... (read in full...)
Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 25 March 2010: Congratulations Lexie, now comes the hard part of trying to be the best mother you can.... (read in full...)
I am attracted to the characters on South Park! Is this cause for concern?
Q. I find the characters in "South Park" kind of attractive, is this a reason to be concerned? I mean, they are nine years old. And they are not real....
A. 24 March 2010: Shaft!!! Now your talking.. mmmmmmm... (read in full...)
Relationship sucks!
Q. Hi, My boyfriend got married recently to another girl. I think he is happy with his marriage, he still wants to continue a relationship with me and wants to have sex. Not sure if he loves me truly. Can you help to advise me?...
A. 24 March 2010: Nope he dosen't love you.. Men in love don't marry other women then ask you to be the bit on the side. This guy only loves himself.... (read in full...)
Threesome with husband & best friend gone wrong... I think??
Q. Hello, My husband and I had a threesome with my best friend the other evening. I wasn't exactly into it and I told him but he kept insisting and finally when we were all watching tv he made the move. I wasn't exactly expecting him too but I thought ...
A. 24 March 2010: "I want to see him happy no matter what"
Sometimes you need to say NO!!! A marriage should be a partnership between equals, it should not be a slave who is frightened her master may leave. Giving your husband everything will not make him stay... (read in full...)
Guys watch porn. Do women?
Q. It seems that one of the most discussed topics on DC is porn and situations related to the watching of and enjoyment of porn by one person in a relationship, and that being resented by the other. To wit: a guy watches porn, as guys are known t...
A. 23 March 2010: Yep, watch porn alone and with a partner... but to tell the truth most of the stuff is boring and I much prefer a sexy book or romance instead to turn me on.... (read in full...)
Advice needed. 15, pregnant and don't know what to do... please help!
Q. Im 15 I Am pregnant and dont know what to do.. Please help me? If your gunna judge than dont say anything....
A. 17 February 2010: Lexi, your doing real well, you got your sister and your boyfriend to help you right now. Please contact planned pregnancy, get advice from the experts there. You do need to see a doctor as soon as possible.
About your parents.. catholic... (read in full...)
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