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writes:Good day to everyone!!! I do hope that you can help me. My problem is my husband and I have been married for 5 years. Well my husband always wanted to have a 3ssome... the thing is we love each other so much and he said he will never cheat on me or anything like that but it was always a dream of his... DO YOU THINK ITS A GOOD THING FOR ME TO DO???? You see I would like to do it as well but sometimes I think doing that will cuz problems in our life, I wanna do any and everything that my husband had ever wanted in his life so you think after doing that my husband would still love me the same or will he start having feeling for the other girl????? I HOPE YOU CAN HELP ME PLZ, ITS IN MY HEAD AND BOTHERING ME PLZ DO HELP ME THANKS A MILL Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010): There is always the possibility that he'll like it a little too much and want it more than just the one time, so take that into consideration, before it's too late. He could very easily become very emotionally attached to the other girl in the threesome or want to start having sex with her or someone else on occasion, or continuously.
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reader, nydallas  +, writes (19 March 2010):
My first thought would be, he's a lucky guy for that he has a wife willing do do anything to please him. But I really thought about it. If you do this it can cause alot of unknowns for the both of you. Your relationship now I'm sure is great and you both trust each other. After you have crossed that line, what will be the next adventure to increase the pleasure. I'm afarid if you give a person an inch then they will want a mile. In a marriage I'm all for pleasing my wife, just as long as it's me pleasing her and not someone else. You must think of the worst that could happen. If it's not worth it, then don't do it. It's only my thought, good luck with your choice.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (19 March 2010):
 It usually ends in tears. It can work, but only if you have no jealousy at all, you fancy the new person, you and your husband have a very strong marriage, and it's something both of you want.
If it disgusts you or upsets you later, then by that time it will be too late. Jealousy often comes up, like you say, how can you be sure that she's not better in bed than you, how can you be sure that he won't want to do this again. Threesomes can often destroy marriages. It can't be just something that pleases him, you have to really want to do it too.
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reader, pyan  +, writes (18 March 2010):
hi
i know where you are coming from here. i did the same with my wife and after several years she agreed. it was good and we both found it a great turn on. except 2 f and 1 m the f can out last the 1 m if its an all night thing. it was sex with no feeling and with a person we didn't know.
she then asked about a mfm and i didn't want at first but wasn't in a place to say no, so we did. i found that a greater turn on than the first. since then we keep it as are special event and have rules on where and when and its worked for us.
good luck and let us know how you go
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