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writes:I am a 14 year old female, and have never had a boyfriend. I have always been a shy person, but it has never affected my friendships with boys, and I make it very clear that I like a boy, but when I think a boy likes me, it leads to nothing, help me please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): Don't worry - I'm 15 and never had a boyfriend!
I don't mind too much at the moment because I'm just gonna wait for the right guy to come along instead of just getting a boyfriend for the sake of it.
Take your time. Be yourself.
Some people just get boyfriends later than others - it just means that they've found the right guy for them later than others!
Good luck when you find that special someone! x x x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 March 2008):
 Getting a b/f is like climbing a 39 steps stairs.
Some can be more lucky and find theirs only after a few steps.
Some may not be lucky and may have to climb more to meet their b/f's.
So which steps you will meet your b/f , we do not know.
One thing you need to know is, you need to climb and climb till you find yours.
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reader, UnderstandingDude12  +, writes (1 March 2008):
 it's okay for you not to have had a boyfriend. It is common for this but maybe you really need to find someone who is a friend and understands you and you have a good relationship with him you might want to ask him out and im pretty sure that this will work, trust me
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reader, Ftuley +, writes (1 March 2008):
 I don't think you should worry too much about it, see I believe when you really like someone then you will just go with the flow.
My niece is the same age as you and never had a boyfriend as well, so is not that unusual.
The main thing is to have friends and when the time is right you will know what to do, you are very young, you have plenty of time to have a boyfriend.
You know guys are just as anxious to talk to you, as you are to talk to them.
Yes, it`s true, it is mental strain for them too!
Bear in mind that guys enjoy talking about a lot of the same things like girls do - like cinema, tunes, Internet, school and other friends. Just try to relax and enjoy talking to them, if something builds up from that, then good and if not, at least you learn how to at least enjoy time with them.
We all grow, learn and experience things at our own pace. What's "normal" for one person might not be standard for someone else .
There is not a rush.
Good Luck and remember, try to relax!
Let me know how you get on.
Take care
Fatima
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2008): im afraid i dont quite know what your asking.how to get a date?how to get a bf?how to start a relationship?how to get a guy to like you back?without a little more info im kinda shooting in the dark here,but regarding you having never had a bf i wouldnt worry about it at all i'll be 18 in a week and iv never had a gf before some people are simply late bloomers.
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