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writes:A ton of guys that i know have been pressuring me to have sex with them. I went along with it at first thinking the were kidding, but nows its obvious they weren't. I want to have sex, and i know who I want to lose my virginity to. I want to do it with someone i really like not do it so that i'm experienced when the time comes. Also, the guy that i like lives like 6 hours away from me and we were just dating but i broke up with him because my mom got mad at me from dating him and shes never even met him. And theres another guy like i sort of like and we used to be best friends for a while then we liked each other and the relationship went all funny. We're just starting to get close again, and he tells me he loves me all the time and i tell him that i love him too. He's a really great guy friend but i'm afriad that if i get to close to him our friendship might never get backk to the way it is and once was. Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): I totally agree with that first answer by LJ001.
By the time you're really grown up, losing your virginity at only 16 or 17 often feels like it was a mistake.
Kids having full-blown intercourse at 14 and 15 is just depressing to me. At least some kids have been starting at these early ages thousands of years, but that doesn't mean it's not a bad idea. Lots of normal teenage things seem like very bad decisions looking back.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 Don't do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2008): Hia :) am 14 and to be honest i dont thnk i would regret having sex with a guy thats really hot n a like lmao :L :D x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 March 2008):
 If you know something like that will happen to your relationship with him , then you don't do it because you value his friendship.
When you are ready , you will know who you want to give to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2008): I have no choice but to be blunt here, so I'm sorry in advance. What do you think you're playing at? You're, what, 15 and you want to lose your virginity to a guy you LIKE. What?! Look, I can guarentee in a few years you'll meet a boy that you love with all your heart and who understands you and cares for you, and you will look back and think, why the hell did I lose my virginity to that loser I didnt like a few years ago? I just can't stress how much you would regret this. I don't understand why people have sex with people they don't even love. It's crazy. Why are you even considering it at your age? A girl your age shouldnt be pressured into sex, so don't be. Tell them where to stick it, because I'll tell you this, you deserve more, and not to be treated like a slut. Please, don't make a big mistake honey. Good luck.
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