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writes: i hate my mom..because she sleeps all day.so i have my two year old sister.my mom has a boyfriend now..i understand that she works and her job is hard on her..but its not fair for me to have to watch a two year old who doesnt listen, hits, just makes life miserable.you might think i am going over board but if you knew her you would prolly die.i love them both, but my mom shouldnt throw this responsibility on me--she says shes sick because she cant handle her...she gets off of work at 3:30, gets home at 4 with the baby, goes to bed at 4:40 then wakes up at about 10:10 and goes to get on the computer and talks to her boyfriend... she wakes up and texts him.i am stuck feeding the kid, potty training her, dealing with her until about 10.and then, the hardest part. getting her to sleep... then, sleeping with her.she was so spoiled when she was a baby that she will not sleep in her own bed.i dont know how to tell my mom that i cant handle this anymore.. its not fair to my sister or me.my sister actually said to me that she didnt want mommy. she doesnt like mommy.she doesnt want to sleep in mommys room.she wants brea.i had to tell my mom that she said that, because i thought maybe she would understand that shes growing apart from my mom...but she just yelled at me and chomped on her bologna. so i walked out.what do i tell her?i hate this.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 March 2008):
 Your mom has lost her bearings.Cannot really blame her because
of her b/f.I hope she wakes up quickly that what she is doing is wrong.
I hope she will realize that she has placed a lot of
responsibilities on your young shoulders.
If you cannot take it anymore,please seek help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno, i wouldnt do that.
and its not like i care to be home alone.. its just that the fact she doesnt care to leave me home alone.
she ended up getting home at 8:30 last night..
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (28 March 2008):
You are like the home alone kid.
If you really cannot stand any more, you should call 911
or the police.They will contact the social worker to look into your case.
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (28 March 2008):
 Honey, this is just not right. There is no way she should leave you alone and two hours away just to spend the night with her boyfriend. Do you have any family that could talk to her and make her see sense.
XXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell 6:15 is now atleast past 7.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell, i got out of school and had a text from my mom saying when i get home the babysitter will drop my sister off.
my mom i guess had to work late.
well, she would have got off at 5.
but she said that she is going to go have a beer and should be home around 6:15.
well, lucky for me- my sister fell asleep.
so, i was going to tell her.
but i will just end up yelling.
then... i texted her to see if my friend could stay saturday night...
she said yes but shes staying at her boyfriends.
two hours away.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (27 March 2008):
Oh! I wanted to cry when I saw your post.
Your Mum is neglecting the both of you darling. There is no-way that you should be left to look after a two year old baby all the time. What about your school work is it not being efected.
Sit your mum down when she gets in from work and tell her you cannot do this anymore, becuase you do need a life of your own. Its fine to help your mum, but she is using you to look after her child. Its HER responsability not yours.
XXXXX
Hope you can sort this out
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (27 March 2008):
I am very sorry your mom abdicated her responsibility of your sister to you.
It is very sad when she makes you fully responsible for your sister.
You need to find a suitable time to talk with your mom about it.
Tell her that you need help looking after your little sis.
Try your best to understand your mom.
If she is on the computer for too long ,
she may neglect your little sisters welfare.
This is a form of child abuse.
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reader, lilmizzbaybehh +, writes (27 March 2008):
hello there, your right its too much for any teenager too handle, and your right you mum does probably work hard at work, but she needs to realise you have to attend school and concetrate for exams and be able to go out socializing....you need to tell her excactly what you feeling, mention that your under pressure at school for homework and express to her that you have a life to and hopefully can live it, explain that she doesnt need to sleep all day just an hour or something and you will watch the 2 year old for that time only because you want to go out and have homework.....im sure she will realize that your too young too handle the stress and you will sort it out between yourselfs you just need to build the confidence to say this to her xx
good luck
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