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writes:I'm 17 and I have A cup breasts, and I'm worried my boyfriend thinks my body's ugly. He has said that he doesn't need me to have bigger breasts because he enjoys my legs and butt more. I think he's lying just to make me feel better. I'm scared that sooner or later he'll dump me, his ex girl friend had huge breasts, which makes me look like I'm far from a woman.What should I do? I don't want surgery, but I hate that I'm so small chested. Please help!
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reader, manamaster  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 if your boydriend really loves you, he wont dump you away, breasts are pretty, but the personality of a woman is beautiful, so dont be sad about that.
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reader, faithanne +, writes (23 September 2008):
i have the same problem, but i know i wont loose my boyfriend to that reason but i am sick of him picking on me or making comments that hurt me emotionly. i dont think he relizes how stuff like this can mess with our feelings. i am also 17 and about to turn 18 and i am the same size as you. i accually cant even fit a size A to great! I want inplants and plan on geting them when i am of age! he laughs at me when i tell him that his comments bother me. i dont even feel confertable to alk around the house or sleep with no bra because i feel to much like a girl infront of him. i want to be more woman for him!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 March 2008):
 If he tells you the truth , you think he is lying.
If he tells you what you want to hear ,
you would not believe him.
It is impossible to say anything that would please you.
His dumped his ex who is big breasted.
It is not the breast issue.
You should quit worrying about your breast as it is not
breast in the morning, breast in the afternoon or breast at night.
You come in a complete package and you take it or leave it.
God is most fair, He compensates you on other parts of your body.
Nobody is perfect all round.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): In the grand order of things breasts are not important. I am sure he won't dump you due to your breasts, if he does you are lucky to get shot of him. A really isn't that small compared to me i am fully a 24aaa, i didn't even know it went so small - i am happily married with two little twin girls and a sucessful career as doctor. It has never been a problem between my husband and i and the guys i wen't out with before never saw it as an issue, it doesn't make me feel any less femenine, and i am pround of my body, stay strong hun....x
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (28 March 2008):
 Don't fret; I went through that mess in high school too. I hated showering with the other girls because I was the smallest in the class...BUT, good news. there are guys who don't care about the breast issues at all. Hey, think of it this way--HE HAD THEM with his last gf. So, now he's found out they ain't all that! Right??????? Think about it.
Besides, I'm 48 and now my A's are nice, perky B's and my BF LOVES EM. Give yourself a break...BIG BOOBS ain't what they're cracked up to be. They'll be hanging to your belly button in a few years and then you'll wish you had small ones. Be happy with what YOU have. That's most important.
Gena
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reader, tux +, writes (28 March 2008):
 A nice butt and legs are nicer in my opinion.. Big breasts just get in the way too much.. ;) But I don't think you have to worry. I think he may be sincere. Although I do hate these kind of questions, Do you think I'm fat? Do you think my boobs are too small? Because in the end, they either force guys to lie or not be believed. But honestly, you (all girls) need to stop focusing on how we think you look. We like the way you look. We like the way you are. Most(hopefully) of us like your personality too. Stop worrying and enjoy life with your boyfriend.. he likes you the way you are otherwise, he'd be gone already.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (28 March 2008):
 Girl, you have nothing to worry about here, and if your boyfriend were to ever dump you for such a trivial matter, then you are the winner and he the shallow-minded loser. There is so much more to a sexual relationship than titty size, and that is of little concern to a real man. Just be an adventurous woman willing to explore sexuality and you will always come out on top.
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reader, polarkite +, writes (28 March 2008):
 Chances are he is being honest. Some guys are ass men and others are breast men. Sounds like this guy is open to both.
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reader, agtorange +, writes (28 March 2008):
 I doubt he'd dump you, even shallow guys don't make that big a deal over breast size.
And if he does, think of it this way, any guy who would dump you because your breasts arn't big enough isn't worth having around anyways.
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reader, lilly_08  +, writes (28 March 2008):
 if he is telling you that he likes your butt and legs more then he proberly does. and if he leaves you because you have small breasts then he is shallow and is not really worth your time..
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reader, AkasunaNoSasori +, writes (28 March 2008):
 I hate to say this but if your boyfriend can't accept you and your body for what it is...chances are he's not worth it, trust me. And I wouldn't recommend getting implants, bad idea. Hope everything works out!
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