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writes:Ok. So I've been talking to this one guy on the internet for about 2 years. I have such strong feeling for him. About a week and a half ago,we decided to meet up. I bought my plane ticket,and everything. The morning I woke,to go to the airport,I started to feel anxious. It got really bad,that it turned into a anxiety attack.I had to tell him that I couldn't do it.It broke my heart. He was dissapointed,but he said that it would be ok. I really and truely care for him,but I don't think I can get over my anxiety. We both decided to hold things off for awhile. It's killing me.It's also awkward talking to him now. What should I do?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 March 2008):
 He seems like a very understanding man and you should not feel
that way and put all the blame on yourself.
Don't be too judgmental and forgive yourself.
Time will heal your hurts.
Your relationship will heal as he has accepted this incident in good faith.
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (29 March 2008):
 it sounds like the pressure is really on after two years of not meeting. try to keep talking to him, you cant get around the awkwardness only through it.
what made you so anxious? him not liking you? you not liking him? being alone with him? you need to figure that bit out so you can sort through it and not let it happen next time xx
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