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My boyfriend wont talk to me until I tell him if I will have sex with him or not

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Question - (29 March 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he is younger then me, he said when he turns 18 will i have sex with him, and now he wont talk to me until i answer him with yes or no

help!

stuck in the middle

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008):

That is extremely immature. Apparently he doesn't want a real relationship; he just wants one thing. If he really loved you and respected you, he would let you come to that decision or action in your own time, however long it takes.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008):

Seriously now. Threatening silence for sex?? Then say no. Simple as that.

How very very immature of him.

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A female reader, brooke5426 United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2008):

brooke5426 agony auntthe age of consent in the UK is 16 so it wouldnt be breaking the law but you definitely dont want to have sex with someone just because he wont speak to you unless you do. you'll regret it big time if you do it.

Tell him no you're not gonna have sex with him and if he asks tell him its because you dont do little boys!

Brooke

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

Why are you putting up with this scumbag? Dont you think you deserve better than emotional blackmail? Its quite clear he only wants one thing. Come on, find someone who isnt as immature as this.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (29 March 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntDo you want to have sex with him? Yes or No?

Then tell him the answer.

It should not be difficult to answer his question.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

Hunny

Get rid of him, He is totaly immature and not taking your feelings into accout at all, NOT TALKING TO YOU UNTILL U GIVE HIM A YES OR NO!!!!!Id give him a yes or no but it wouldnt be what he would be expecting, Already trying to control you by sexual blackmail BLAAAAAA!!!!All he wants is to dip his little wick. Be strong hunny and the next time you do talk to him tell him to use a melon bloody idiot!!!!!!HE IS USING YOU BIG TIME DONT TAKE NO CRAP!!!!SWEETHEART! (:0) You will find someone better than this little p***k AH! OH! EK! WHAT A TIT!!!!!Sorry hunny it makes me mad for you, You can most def do better PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOTS OF LOVE N SQUISHY HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A female reader, ObsessiveElley United States +, writes (29 March 2008):

ObsessiveElley agony auntI agree..seems like he is using you for sex..i think its really immature that hes acting like that..he wont answer you unless you answer that question..

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A female reader, brooke5426 United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2008):

brooke5426 agony auntif i was you i would dump him. hes obviously very immature and to be honest, hes using you for sex. thats why he wants no contact with you unless hes getting his leg over. hes just little boy. dump him, forget him, go out with a real man! its so much better lol.

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