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female
age
30-35,
*yda1110
writes:He wants a drive-thru wedding, i want a normal wedding.....I dont know what to do.....can you please help?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Firstly, you have a normal wedding at your place and then the
next day , you can have a drive thru at his place.
No need to argue.
Maybe , you toss the coin and see whoever wins ,
decides which type of wedding to hold. LOL!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): A drive-thru wedding?? How romantic...
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (14 April 2008):
 16-17? How is it legal to even get married at this age? Unless perhaps you mean yall are just discussing it and dont agree on the same type of wedding...? Dont worry about your wedding now. Getting married too young is a mistake, trust me. But if you really love each other you can come to a compromise. Maybe a really small wedding at your house? or something.
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reader, Ayda1110 +, writes (14 April 2008):
Ayda1110 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I'm 17, and yes my parents are on board and helping thankfully.......and for BigSis.....a drive-thru wedding is when you get married by a minister after pulling up to the window....so yeah kinda like McDonalds I guess.
MUCH LOVE,
AYDA~~~~
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Ummm.. how old are you?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 April 2008):
 I think that a drive-thru wedding would be one in Las Vegas, where you pull up to the officiant, stay in the car and exchange vows there? Is that right?
Generally, it's the bride (or her mother!) who is the one who selects the feel and theme of the wedding. Or a compromise is reached in an adult, mature manner.
I imagine that the drive-thru wedding would be a lot cheaper than a regular 'do' but your wedding day should be special and important. I trust you only want to do this once, so try to have a conversation with him about how important the more traditional ceremony is to you. If he is balking at this, then maybe you need to take a longer look at his suitability as a life partner.
How old are you, exactly, the age range given is 16-17? Are your families on board, and have you discussed the budget for a wedding with them? Are you planning to pay for it yourselves? All these questions are important to know to help you with this.
All the best.
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reader, BigSis  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 Is this like a McDonalds or KFC drive-thru? Does the registrar sit behind a glass window and take your orders or something such like?
My apologies if i'm acting dumb, but I've never before heard of the expression 'drive-thru'.
Can you explain more please?
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