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I have a BF who is nearly perfect but I started developing feelings for my best friend.

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Question - (12 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2008)
A female Bahrain age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i really need help, im going crazy!

i am 22 and i have a boyfriend who is almost perfect and we've been together for 5 and a half years now.

Everything is great between us, but lately i started having feelings for my (boy) best friend and he just admitted to me that he loves me and when he did it felt like i was waiting for him to say that cz i felt the same about him!

i really dont know what to do.. i am so confused about my feelings, i love my boyfriend, and he has never done anything to hurt me or make me feel bad, as for my (boy) best friend, i feel he really understands me more than anyone in the world and with him i feel like no one else is around but him

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008):

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thank you alot ..

you both were helpful and it mde me think for a while and put my head straight .. i think i need time to think more and exactly like u said, i need to refocus bank on my b/f

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (14 April 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYour b/f has become stale and mouldy and this friend is fresh and appetizing.

Your b/f will have to reinvent himself or he will lose you.

You will need to refocus back on your b/f and think of those

earlier days or try to create again those feelings for him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008):

Well what you really need to think about is who will it work out best with? you've got to follow your heart

if you HAD to chose one which one would it be.

you say your boyfriend atm is nearly perfect? maybe he would understand?? Or do you just want your best friend because you can? hope i've helped x

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