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female
reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 If you want to talk to a man , talk to him in plain simple English and don't hint or beat about the bush.
He cannot understand those female language except in simple commands.
Just ask him if he would like to be your b/f?
It is simple and he understands.
Don't be shy because that is the way a man understands.
The answer could be yes/ no/maybe.
Psyche yourself and expect the worst.
If he answers no, then tell him you were just joking.
Laughs and then move on .
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): i think u should just come out and ask him if he says no be like ok i hope we can still be friends when i asked my boyfriend out i said i don't care if u answer yes or no and don't get mad at me for asking this or anything like that but will u go out with me
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): i personally tink you should yer get to know him show him that your a great person justbe friends at start when you become bestfrieds well talk to him about his love life ask him questions like is he single but wat eva you do don't flirt with him and don't change find out if he has a type and if he does don't change to that type cause thats when you start to lose your friends then you start to bring out the signs that you like him then when you feal ready spill the beans tell him that u like him alot and you don't want this question to ruin our friendship but im falling in love with you and if he says no welljust ask if use can still be friends
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male
reader, helper2  +, writes (3 April 2008):
Just tell him cuase it works some times but if he says no just be possitve
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female
reader, cassanra")  +, writes (2 April 2008):
 well 1st make sure he likes u too!
if he does
ask him if he has a girlfriend nd if he says no ask him if hes looking 4 1.
if he says no just leave him.
but if he says yes just b like oooh cool
im lookin 4 a boy friend. if he doesnt get the idea just ask him.
b like..
i like u nd i was wondering if u would be my boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): you should date first abit. i dont think id say yes if some random chick walked up to me and asked me to be her boyfriend. After a few dates then you know if hes nice or not or if hes a total jerk.
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female
reader, Addi +, writes (2 April 2008):
First you should try getting to know this guy then mabye a date and then ask the big question. "Will you be my boyfriend?" Otherwise if you just go and ask him bluntly it may seem a bit awkward for the pair of you.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): just tell you like him n you want to go out if you never go for it then you may miss out on alot dont care
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