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writes:Hi, I'll try keep this quick and simple, and not graphic, I hope it gets posted, but I need some advice.I went on a date last week with a guy that was great and decent with great morals. We clicked instantly.We went back to his place where we kissed passionately, and eventually ended up on his bed making out, we took our clothes off, but I wanted to keep my underpants on, he was fine with it.I didn't want to take it further, I wasn't ready for it.However we did orgasm, by mutual masturbation, but I didn't have contact with his cum, when he did cum, I kept clear.. he didn't have any precum at all.He did go down on me and and did oral (BJ) on me, which I was fine with, and when we held each other I kept my underpants on all the timeThe next day I saw him, and we made out again and we orgasmed with our clothes on, then he went down on me again.I just wanted to know, can you get a disease by very passionate kissing, or by receiving oral sex? I didn't do any oral on him, all I did was kiss him.We did not have sex.Also, with guys if you wear your underwear and the cum has dried up is it still okay, or if you have your undrwear on I know with girls if a guy cums she can still get pregenant, but if a guy cums can a guy get anything, even with the underwear on? btw, he did not cum on me.please I need some advice, I'm going insanethanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): I guess the most common std you could get is herpes, just because it is both oral and genital. If he has herpes in his mouth, and he gives you oral you could get herpes in your private.
And if you passionately kiss someone who's got herpes of the mouth you could get it too.
But, trust me you don't want herpes! Cause as the joke goes, What's the difference between love and herpes??? Herpes lasts forever!
Transmission of other std's through oral is not as likely.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (13 August 2007):
 Hi
Dont panick!
Yes you can get std's through oral sex. You can buy something called a dental dam. Not too sure how romantic they are! But if you are really worried, use one of those.
But if you have your gruts on i wouldnt worry too much.
Kissing isnt a problem, you would be very unlucky to get anything that way! But oral sex, yes, std's can be passed on. I would be surprised if a guy didnt have pre cum. I think they always do if they are arroused.
If you are going to get into anything with this guy, i would go together & get checked out. Its a normal responsible thing to do, then you have no need to worry at all.
Good luck.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): Almost any STD (sexually transmitted disease) can be passed from person to person via bodily fluid transfer, this includes kissing and oral sex.
Unprotected oral sex (without a condom) allows many STD's to be transmitted including herpes, syphilis, chlamydia, gonorrhea, non secific urethritis, genital warts and others. Kissing will allow transmission of the above STD's as well, though the risk is lowered for some of them.
Hepititis B (fecal oral route or via semen). can be passed on via unprotected oral sex or vaginal/anal sex.
HIV has also been transmitted via oral sex in at least one documented case.
Before becoming sexually active I'd highly recommend you spend some time googling STD infection rates and diseases. The better you understand STD's the better you'll be able to protect yourself against their consequences.
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