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writes:I cheated on my boyfriend a few weeks go, and it was the biggest mistake I have ever made. I love him so much, and the boy I cheated on him with now hates me and says he wants me dead! I didn't want this to happen and I told the boy I cheated on him with that I didn't like him that way.. but I don't think he understood, I know that what I did was wrong, and I don't know whether I should tell my boyfriend or not, if I did and he didn't finish me, then I would probably end up finishing with him out of guilt! I don't know what to do! Please help :(
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (13 August 2007):
 Hi
I agree with Stevi15. I would come clean.
Its done now & you cant go backwards. But if you dont tell him, you risk him finding out anyway (the other guy sounds angry & hell bent on revenge) or the guilt will eat away at you.
Explain to him why you did it. Hopefully you can sort it out.
You're still quite young. Maybe just see blokes for now & have a bit more of a chilled time than settling down with the one person.
Obviously do it safely though!
Good luck.
C xxxx
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reader, stevi15  +, writes (13 August 2007):
 yes u should tell him cuz how are u guys goin to trust each other if u lie to him. just stand in his shoes and look from his point of view i mean if he was to cheat on u wouldnt u want him to tell u even though u will get mad all it is going to do is just show show strong your relationship is with each other and if u guys can forgive one another
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