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writes:I have a question about my ex bf. I broke up with him a few nights ago because he was treating me really badly and was basically emotionally abusive. Anyway, tonight my friend said she saw him when she was out geting dinner. He was really nice apparently and was like 'hello how are you' and so on. My friend kept walking after saying hello, to her seat with her bf. Then about 5 mins later my ex bf calls her over to his table and showed her this message on his phone. He said you can text a persons name and their address to this number and if gives you details about them. He showed her the message it came up with when he had sent my name. It said stuff like I go to university and what degree im doing and that im friends with this guy. Now i dont know WHY he would show her that. She said it didnt make sense. The friend the message said I had is someone who I was friends with earlier in our relatiosnhip but my bf got jealous and caused an end to my friendship with that guy. Why would he do this? Is it even possible for that to happen? or do u think he was just making it all up for some weird reason? why would he do that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your insight guys. I think yeah maybe he doesnt want people to realise I broke it off, neverless that we are broken up! He hasnt changed any of his online profiles to being single or delted the photos of us together off his profiles either. Perhaps he hasnt told his friends yet and thats why he was so friendly towards my friend, making out as if things between me and him were still ok. They didnt talk about the break up at all.
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reader, skye  +, writes (14 August 2007):
 I agree with hlskitten. I dont believe your ex could get this kind of very personal information from a text message centre. He is making it up in my opinion. I could be wrong but I really dont think so.
You did the right thing by ending your relationship with him. Abuse in any form is unacceptable. Often, men who treat their partners badly can be percieved by the outside world as a loving, caring individual who is a "good catch". Unfortunately, you know otherwise.
I agree that you should stay well away from this man. It sounds to me like he is trying to stir up trouble if he can get away with it. Perhaps he doesnt want people to think that you ended the relationship, so he has made up this story to suggest that you where cheating on him. I think you have had a lucky escape.
You know the truth why you broke up with him and your friend obviously had difficulity believing his story. Leave him to his silly games. Anyone who knows and cares for you will not believe his nonsence.
Take care,
Skye
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (14 August 2007):
 Hi
Ive never heard of anything like that being possible on a phone? I could be wrong but i dont think so?
Hes playing games simple as that. He thinks you fancy someone else by the sounds of it & is trying to turn people against you. Tell your friend its a load of rubbish & hope he doesnt manage it, my ex did this with my brother & my brother & i dont speak anymore. Exes can be dangerous.
Be careful.
C xxxxx
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