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writes:My Boyfriend only gets hard when I go down on him or give him a hand job!!It is as if us making out isnt enough, i am worried it is not me that turns him on, I feel if anyone else was touching his penis he would still get hard. I have never had this problem in the past, i have known guys to get turned on by the sight of me or simple kissing, we havent been together too long so why do i have to phyiscally touch his penis to turn him on. the thought of having sex with me is not enough...it is so depressing!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): It IS normal to get hard at the thought of the girl in front of you being on top of you ar anywhere to be honest. Dont feel pressured into pleasing him or having to do anything to get him to do anything. Play a little hard to get and he'll soon come running...quickly!
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reader, niceguy07  +, writes (12 August 2007):
 i would not read too much into this...i sometimes need a little physical contact from my gf to get things started. it could also just depend on the mood and the setting too. but definitely nothing to be worried about.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (12 August 2007):
 i fully agree with Dr.Pete.
All guys are different and hes not gonna get an erection always just from thinking of you.
Live with what he is and think about if he was saying the same about you. It would hurt wouldnt it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): You shouldn't worry about this, getting an erection is a physical reaction as well as a mental one. Your man probably finds you very physically attractive and probably gets very turned on by the thought of being with you, but this doesn't necessarily mean he's going to get an erection. Men can't get erections on demand and by putting pressure on him to get one it's probably making it worse. Cut him some slack and let him loosen up, you'll soon see there's nothing to worry about.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (12 August 2007):
 Hi
I agree with DrPete. Not sure ive even thought about it before but all guys are different.
If he started losing it half way through, and he hadnt before, that might concern me a bit but not that.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): I agree with Pete. Some boys have \things turn them on, and other things don't. Like when I walk by my friend Jake, he gets hard, but when Annie walks by him, he is fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): All guys are different, and I think you are expecting too much by judging him based on your previous sexual experiences.
It's like a guy complaining that he is depressed because his girlfriend doesn't get wet at the thought of sex with him.
You say you haven't been together long, so I would recommend you spend more time before resigning this down to how things will always be. Some guys have to be more comfortable around a women before they can maintain an erection so easily.
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