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I don't want to pine after my crush if she's never going to be free!

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Question - (3 May 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I just got out of a long relationship and recently met this girl who I have a huge crush on. She has a girlfriend although she complains about her all the time she also says that she hates change and likes the security of a relationship. The thing is I know she likes me too because she has said as much and we text and flirt constantly. But I feel really torn as to where I stand. I mean I don't want to pine after someone who is never going to break up with their partner no matter how many problems they claim to have. But I feel quite strongly about her as well so it's hard to just let go.

Any advice?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2013):

I think you should just let her go and even though it would seem very hard to do so, it's not worth wasting your time with someone who will never let go of her relationship

I'm sure there are other girls out there who would love you back

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