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writes:Hey everyone.I need help i want to send my bf some sexy pictures of me. Problem is i don't know how to take these kind of pictures. Im a chubby girl with small breasts. I don't want to send completely naked pictures. So any ideas? I would like guys opinion in this.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (3 May 2013):
 What ever you send him, make sure you'd be comfortable with your boyfriend sharing it with the world (see ugotposted.com for some examples of people having their intimate photos shared - be warned, it's graphic).
Sorry to be the cynic but be careful!
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reader, misLadYd.. +, writes (3 May 2013):
 im not a guy but il say this is a bad idea as it might come bite you in the arse in future.lets say it happens you guys dont last..then he might splash them all over the net which is so uncool.but if you want to send nude pix u dont have to be totally nude,you could wear a see-through lace lingerie or some shorts etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2013): Just because your boyfriend wants you to send these pictures does not mean you should. Actually, do NOT send any nude photos or anything that would compromise your privacy or dignity because no matter how tight the two of you are, if down the road things do not work out, you are taking a huge risk by putting yourself out there like that. Those pictures could end up anywhere and everywhere. It's not worth it, at all.Keep it clean, don't look trashy or pose in a way that will make you look like a loser porn star or prostitute. Your insticts are telling you not to take naked pictures...please don't let him convince you otherwise, no matter how much he "promises" nobody else will ever see them. My group of friends are in their mid-forties. A guy friend of mine, whom I've known forever had this girlfriend of many years...she had gone to a photographer and had "professional" (and I use that word lightly) pictures taken for him as a birthday gift. I did not see them, but I heard they were not all that classy, some were naked and some with trashy undergarments. Anyway, they had a wicked fight, broke up, he was drunk one night and showed them to his buddy. His buddy months later was drunk one night, saw his ex and told her how hot her pictures were...she was mortified. She went to his house and took the whole book that was made for him and burned it. Point is, these are grown, supposedly mature adults who made really poor decisions, and the fact that I know about it, means others do too. You just never know how things will go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2013): Send him bikini or clothed in tight top and skirt pictures instead, ones that you wouldn't mind your father or friends seeing if they ever ended up on the internet. Yes OP, no matter how in love and how much you trust him, that has to be the basis of your decision because it's always possible they'll get out by mistake or on purpose.
Whatever you do OP make them demure looking, you bending over and sticking your ass up to the camera is not sexy, it's trashy. Sexy pictures are about the tease not about showing as much as you can. OP you can be fully clothed and look as sexy as you would naked it's all about the suggestion.
I mean this is a sexy picture and she's not even nearly naked.
http://www.self.com/images/beauty/2013/04/look-sexy-when-you-wake-01-bess431.jpg
This is also sexy, and she's pretty well covered up. But she is displaying her curves. She could be fully clothed too and she would be just as sexy.
http://www.androlib.com/appscreenmax/tCqzC.u.cs.png
Here's another, again no nudity is required.
http://www.pulsarmedia.eu/data/media/19/Amaia%20Salamanca%201920X1200%20HD%20Sexy%20Wallpaper.jpg
OP the trick to looking sexy in pictures is to look like you're ready for sex but not be over the top and look desperate. In all those three pictures those women look like they're ready to have their clothes taken off and wanting the person looking at the image to go to them. That's the tease, that's the suggestion and that's sexy as hell. That's more sexy than a woman standing there nude because it marks the start of a sexual fantasy, half the fun of having sex is the build up as you know, well in those pictures that's the start, the moment just before you go and fool around.
I think you should try out various outfits and various poses and find the ones you think highlight your best features. If he loves your ass, make sure you take a pic that subtly displays the curve of your ass, the same with breasts or your legs.
Have fun and have your own private photo shoot or get a girl friend to help you out and play photographer. The pictures you're comfortable enough taking in front of a friend are pictures that won't ruin you if they ever got uploaded and were made public.
Oh and your face has to be in them OP. That's the sexiest part of your body, even if you're showing your ass, your face has to be visible.
Most of all though OP it has to be fun and you have to be comfortable. If you're neither of those things it will look awkward and forced.
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