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writes:I have being seeing this guy for five months on and off every time we have sex he tells me he wants me to marry him and wants me to have his baby so he can keep me forever.. Is he crazy or am I? Another thing every time we have sex he cumms inside me and I haven't got pregnant is there some thingthing thingwrong with me i mean i allready have two kids so oviously I can get pregnant rite? Also last thing every time we get together and things are good he then stops talking to me for a week or too then i call him and ask him to have sexand we get back together what does that mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2013): why arent you using contraception?? you have 2 kids already, how will you support this next one? as there will be one if you dont grow up and be responsible
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reader, tby1  +, writes (4 January 2013):
 Count the stars you've not got pregnant, delete his number and go to clinic and find a real man who isn't gonna mess you around and respect you
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 January 2013):
 Honey he's using you for sex and he's probably using others for sex and you are at risk for STDs and an unwanted pregnancy with a man who will probably end up being a deadbeat dad.
shouldn't you want a child with a man you love and trust and are married to?
why are you playing roulette?
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reader, CMMP +, writes (4 January 2013):
If I'm going to be blunt he sounds like he's not a one woman man. There are guys who like having a few women, like coming inside them, telling them they want them to have their baby, etc. because they like the romantic sexual relationship, but they aren't so much into the reality of what all that means when the sex is over.
You're lucky that you're not pregnant! What you guys are doing should come with more of a commitment then he's giving you. If you are financially secure and really do want a baby then by all means keep doing what you're doing.
But if you're doing it because of what he's saying then you'll be in for a rude awakening when you become pregnant.
If you are happy the way things are then it's fine but I think you believe you have a relationship with him when you really are a friend with benefits. I'd either get on the pill or tell him not to come inside of you.
Realize that there's a good chance, he's having unprotected sex with other women as well.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (4 January 2013):
 Why would you want a baby with an on and off guy? You are only on when you have sex and off for everything else. He does not mean it when he says he wants you to marry him. It's his penis talking. You are crazy to want to get pregnant with a man who doesn't get about you outside of sex. In this case it is good that you can't get pregnant now. Two kids should be plenty for a single mom.
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