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writes:So, my first boyfriend was the love of my life and we broke up about 5 years ago. After like a year I met another guy who treated me like a queen but got too clingy so I called it off with him. I haven't dated anyone since my last boyfriend and it's been about 3 years I've been single, don't get me wrong I am not complaining. I like being single and if the right guy comes along maybe I can learn to love again. Every time I think I have forgotten about my first love and think I can I move on he calls me. He called me like 3 weeks ago asking me to marry him. I told him I can't do that because he calls when he wants every now and then. I still love him but I can't wait forever. Should I tell him to leave me alone? To move on? What should I do? I ask only because every time he calls I go back to the times we had and fall in love with him all over again! I don't want to let go if I shouldn't but at the the same time I can't wait for him. Please help..... Confused!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you I will try!!!!
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reader, R1  +, writes (5 January 2013):
 If he is not going to commit (which is how it seems) the only way is to cut all contact, don't answer when he rings, delete texts before you read them. It will be hard but as long as you still let him in your head you will never move on.
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