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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I've known this guy for 10 years now, starting back in elementary school. We went separate ways in middle school, but reunited in high school. We hung out a lot and then one day we kissed. I started to like him from then on, but he kept sending me mixed signals. He only wanted to hang out to hook up, and only texts me asking if i wanted to hang out. At one point he did tell me he liked me, and i told him i liked him. I went away for the holidays so contact with him was severed, and so we didn't speak for over a month. Today he messaged me and asked me how i was doing and said that we should hand out, but i already know what that is going to lead to. I still have feelings for this guy, but i don't know whether there's even a remote chance he feels the same way. Any advise?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 January 2013):
 if by hanging out you mean having sex or doing sexual things and then you do nothing else...then yes you are a booty call.
just because a boy likes you enough to have sex with you does not mean he likes you enough to have a relationship with you.
sex is NOT a relationship...
if you are meeting him and having sex or doing sexual things with him or letting him do sexual things to you... and you like him more than that.. STOP IT!
learn this rule: SEX will not make a man like you more or bring him closer...
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (4 January 2013):
 He is quite pleased that/if you put out for him.... and, beyond that, he doesn't really give a darn about you. Is that the kind of guy that you want to share intimacies with????
Good luck....
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reader, Leannee +, writes (4 January 2013):
 To me it does sound like you're just a booty call. Some guys will tell you anything just to get into your pants. Which is why you should always try to really get to know a guy and talk with him for a while before y'all jump into anything serious. I hope you haven't had sex with him because if you did then he knows that you're gullible and will have sex with him if he's sweet and acts like he cares. Maybe you should talk to people he has been with in the past and get their advice as to how he was to them and if he just used them for sex or maybe just sit him down and talk to him about the situation and how you feel. Explain to him that you're not a sex toy and you have a heart. I really hope you mean more to him then just sex. Cause I know how that feels. From experience, I would say just move on and find someone else. You seem really sweet and you deserve way more than just being used. There is a perfect guy out there just for you. It takes time and a tremendous amount of patience, but he'll come. Don't rush on finding the right one too soon. You still need to go thru the ^^^^es to gain experience and grow a stronger heart. I wish you the best of luck!:)
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