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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone I'm 23 years old,and I'm dating an actor here, due to which I get to know know everything he does,even if I don't want to..sometimes things are written about him with pictures and when I ask him about it,he says I'm over reacting..I know through his friends that he was very attracted to me from day 1 and he has never dated a woman out of the acting world,and I'm the first,so the way they put it is I should feel special which I don't.I don't care about his celebrity status I am hopelessly in love so if he hurts me now I know I'll be broken..I spoke to him about this and he said he's an actor things like this are bound to happen and I just should get used to it.I know everything that is published is not true but that one news just ruins my day!what do I do?am I over reacting?He's constantly being linked with this other actress and he admitted he had a fling but that's before he met me..ugh!My life is going no where right now!what do I do?Should I break up with this guy?so I can start living my life and stop obsessing about who he is with? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2013): This isn't anything to do with the press and the tabloids really, its to do with your own insecurities. These rumours and stories could be passed around by absolutely anybody, neighbours, friends (so called friends) even family members, and the effect it has on you will be the same. You would doubt whether or not there's any truth to what you hear. To be with a celebrity or not, you have to have thick enough skin to shake off every negative thing you may hear or see about your partner, and feel secure in the knowledge and trust your own judgement that there's no truth behind them.
My advice is if you're not happy and are having doubts about the relationship, its time for a change.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 January 2013):
 Yeah I think you should break up.
IF you are not secure enough with yourself to not bug him about stuff the tabloids write you are only going to make both of you crazy.
It takes a special kind of person to be the partner of a celebrity.
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