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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear CupidMy bf of 3 years always talks about his boss (female, 3 yrs older ho him) even in bed. I feel this totally irritating, told him lot of times not to talk to her when he is in bed with me, he says ok, but always switches the topic back to her. Sometimes he says things like he is getting bored with me and i am not a very good company in bed. I try to please him in bed even though he never does the favor to me. He is my first long relationship and before that i had few flings nothing serious and never had much experience in bed before himHe always says how well she communicates, her voice is too good and she is attractive and how they both flirt in lunch hours. Moreover she is married with 2 kids. what is wrong with my bf. How do i make him stop. Please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2013): He is out of order for treating you like that and the fact that he talks about her in bed and says them things about her, it is really unfair and he obviously doesn't care that it upsets you because he still does it. So you definitely will find it very hard to change it if he doesn't care about how it makes you feel, you need to stand up for yourself or better leave him because is not giving you any respect.Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2013): He is having an emotional affair with his boss. It's in the beginning stages and possibly could lead to physical contact if they are flirting with each other. At least that is what your boyfriend is hoping for.Actually he is the one that is NOT good company in bed, dwelling on his boss while the both of you are in bed together and then not refraining from talking about her after you have requested him too. Then he says he is bored with YOU?? The constant talking about her would bore ME.No more sex for him from you. I'd be crossing my legs. Since he isn't happy with you in bed anyway, why even try at this point. He doesn't even reciprocate Selfish man.Kick this guy to the curb. He has no respect for you. He will stray sooner or later.Take your time. There is someone out there that is a gentlemen and that will treat you and VALUE you for who you are.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (24 January 2013):
 If i was in this situation the alarm bells would bw ringing here and would be contemplating getting out. He is treating you very badly, he know youdon't want to hear about his femail boss but still he keeps on with it. And if thats not enough he says he is getting bored with you and that your not very good company in bed, im sorry but he is a jerk, and he is also selfish in bed too. This is a no brainer, leave him and find someone who gives you the love and respect that you deserve.
Good luck
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reader, neomum +, writes (24 January 2013):
Poor you I would not be with this guy as he clearly has a crush on his boss. Tell him that its hurting your feelings and if you talked about another bloke the same way as he does about his boss how would he feel? If nothing changes after a set time limit leave him as you are clearly too good for him.
Good luck.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (24 January 2013):
 You need to get rid of this BF. Why do you let him insult u and in the same breath show admiration for another woman.
This sounds like an emmotional affair. You cannot trust your heart with the BF, I recommend you start packing or if its your place ask him for some space and leave.
You should not settle as he will continue to treat you badly because he knows you are emmotionally imnvolved with him.
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