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writes:In all the relationships ive had not one has ended without me being affected i become so depressed i even stop eating and eventually lose weight,the problem is i love too much without even leaving room for dissappointment.i dont think i will ever love again all men are the same.am fed up i would rather be single than be unhappy all the time.if it so happens that i find someone i dont think i will love him whole heartedly. I just wanted to share it helps a problem shared is a problem solved.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for the advise slowly but surely am getting there, and am learning alot. Thank you
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (24 January 2013):
It's a rare relationship that doesn't end in heartbreak, even if you are the one ending it.
All men are NOT the same any more that all women are. If you want to be single for awhile, then by all means go ahead, there's nothing wrong with that.
But when the time comes and you start to feel lonely don't accept it; for all you know a man who's perfect for you could be just around the corner.
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reader, fzald +, writes (24 January 2013):
I'm a man and I can say I completely understand how you feel.When I fall in love with someone I fall completely, deeply in love. When I've been broken up with, I find I have to take months to even get back to a state of "Normal". I get depressed, lose my appetite, and fight to get through each day.I think it's just a part of how some people are though. Don't feel there's anything wrong with you. Some people just love more deeply and intensely than others. I honestly wish more people in this world were that way - it'd be a happier place, there'd be fewer breakups and more happy couples.After you break up it's certainly a good idea to take a break from dating - you need some time to recover, get over things and reflect. It's OK to cry, it's OK to feel like crap, it's OK to be upset, sad, or even depressed. But don't write off the possibility of a new relationship in the future. You never know who might be out there waiting for you. Getting into any relationship is always a risk - the risk that it won't work out. For some, like you and myself it seems, that risk is just a bit greater because of how deep the feelings can run. So guard your heart, have high expectations for yourself and for your relationship, but don't be afraid to love again.I wish you best of luck and a happy future, and hopefully a happy new relationship!F
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (24 January 2013):
You are a warm loving woman and when you fall in love you fall in love deeply and also get hurt in a very in depth way. Right now I would advise you to make new mixed friends, maybe join a club, take up a new interest, join a book club, etc. It will take time to heal try and not be too hard on youself. Time will sort this out for you. Best Luck Nora B.
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reader, misLadYd..  +, writes (24 January 2013):
 Give yourself a break. Take a month or two on the dating scene. You will find somebody honest and loving. I thought like you once, then I met a wonderful great man. We will get married soon. And in love, just leave room for disapointment and plzzz don't love too much. Take care and Goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2013): Hi, we have all been burnt but you will know when the right person comes along. Just dont get initimate immediately as then they lose interest as they think you give yourself easily to everyone.
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