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writes: I know this is gonna sound weird but me and my friend got into this really weird conversation about sex (we're both virgins which would explain the constant giggles and blushes) which led to me wondering about how deep my vagina was inside. I actually took the time to measure my finger and put it inside and I could feel my cervix so it's about 3 inches. Is that too small and will my boyfriend be able to fit if we ever do have sex?
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reader, daletom  +, writes (25 January 2013):
I certainly hope that you and your life partner DO have sex . . . when you are both ready for it.
In the meantime it doesn't sound like you have anything to worry about. Yes, your vagina is quite elastic. As your lover prepares your mind and body for intercourse during foreplay, your vagina will relax, enlarge, and become lubricated with natural love juices - all in preparation to receive him. It will REALLY open up if you have an orgasm before you slide yourself over him. When his erection enters you the two of you will naturally find the position, angles, etc that allows your vagina to best envelope his penis and give you both pleasure.
(Especially the very first time you have intercourse it's important for you to take an active role, finding the combinations that work best for YOU. There is NO WAY for him to know what you are feeling as he enters you so it's necessary for you to have control over the coupling. This is why many websites dealing with first-time sex recommend that the girl should be on top when she gives her virginity to a guy.)
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (25 January 2013):
 He will fit fine. U can have sex.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 January 2013):
 You sound fine.
Read the signs is right... think about the fact that a BABY comes out that way...
the vagina is a muscle... it elongates and lubricates to receive the penis.
when I was doing Natural family planning I had to check my cervix daily. I had already had one child by this time and yet I could easily touch my cervix every morning... no problem.
Cindy is right you sound perfectly normal and fine.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (25 January 2013):
 You are perfectly normal. A vagina in a state of " rest " is only 3-4 inches deep in average, but it's extremely elastic and during intercourse can expand and dilate both in widht and depth.
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reader, Read-the-signs  +, writes (25 January 2013):
Don't forget the vagina has the capacity to stretch and expand to allow a baby through, so don't worry about being abnormal in any way. When the time is right you will find that your anatomy is perfectly suited and fully functioning. Worry not!
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