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writes:I fell for a younger and local guy (I'm late 20's and he's 18) while I was on holiday, he seems to like me to but he's never asked me out. He seemed shy at first as he’d always smile and look over but avoided talking to me even though he was chatty with everyone else. There were always people around then so I understand he may not have asked me because we were hardly alone and he seemed to think his boss (an old friend of mine who has a crush on me) was my boyfriend in the beginning for some reason but as the weeks went on the only time he acted on his attraction was when he was drunk or people were telling him to do so and then he would try to take it too far and have sex with me. He always flirted with me but he was so much more respectful when he was sober. He'd poke me, grab my hat and say I'm beautiful rather than dragging me into the bedroom by my arms after everyone else is like go you 2 should sleep together... Why my so called friends are telling people they can have sex with me is a whole different story and we are no longer friends. Since I've been back he didn't reply to my text and didn't pick up when I called (from a payphone but I'm guessing he knows it's me anyway). A mutual friend said he likes me but he's too shy to talk to me because he can't really speak English but he wants to see me again. I'm now stuck thinking if he's worth going back for? Surely he would of asked me out if that was the case right? But he's so young maybe it's not even on his mind? I travel a lot and the money could be used for something else but I really like him and I'd love to get to know him better even if it will be difficult with the age and language differences.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalso he had no idea I was going home until the day I did
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I was there for 3 months and I know it's not 'love' lol. Not even sure what I want, we did kiss and that felt weird enough. Most people are married and have kids by 25 over there not that I want that with him anyway. I wouldn't mind if he saw other people at all, totally understand he has a lot of growing up to do and I wouldn't get in the way of that plus it would be long distance, I just thought perhaps if we get to know each other if we still like each other in a year or two then we could try for something more serious but hmmm now it's been said you guys are prob right.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (25 January 2013):
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I don't think he wanted anymore than sex.He is only 18 and probably thought you would be up for a holiday fling.Now your back home he will have forgotten you and carried on with his life.
You will forget him soon enough,so start deciding what else you can spend that money on
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