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How do you get your first date when you're in your 20's?

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Question - (15 February 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2013)
A female United States age 36-40, *iriani writes:

Having trouble...

This may seem like a kind of stupid question, but how do you get a "first date" when you're in your mid-twenties?

I have been overweight since I was 11, right around the time everyone was getting into the opposite sex. And I have never had any kind of experiance with anyone, no sex, no kiss, not even any hand holding. No one has ever told me that they like me. I have only told 3 people that I've liked them and the BEST of the results was the guy said that was nice but he wasn't interested in me like that.

I guess I just never got how people got into that sort of thing in the first place, the dating or flirting or knowing when someone is interested and since I am extremely overweight there just hasn't seemed to be anyone interested, and I haven't had good responses when making the first move. I am 25, about 5 foot 11 and 250 pounds.

I guess my question is really just asking if anyone knows how to start something new for the first time at this age.

Thank you either way, for taking the time to read.

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A female reader, Ladyy United States +, writes (15 February 2013):

Try fb or dating websites but im your exact bodytype I have had two bfs n im only 22.. get a new haircut, makeover maybe a new wardrobe, and yeah maybe start gym that's wha im trying to do!

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