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*tsweet1
writes:From the first day I saw her she was in training class and I was in another class I liked her. WELL now we have gotten to talk more and she makes me laugh and makes me happy. We have some things in common but I'm not sure if I should pursue her for a relationship. It may end the friendship which I enjoy. Another reason is she don't normally like my kind meaning women or bisexuals. Well I have been watching her like a hawk and I don't want to scare her away from my type of people. I want to ask her out soon but I'm in a bad bad horrible situation that may last for a few more weeks. I also worry that even though i have had mild low success with straight women it didnt last with them. I'm like the start off person and they move on to other women after me. So now I think about her a whole lot telling my children like how they tell me about there school crushes and I'm cautious to pursue her. Its like I don't want to do it cause I feel like in the past they move on to others and I will be used for that purpose only like in the past. I know I should be stuck in past but it has a habit of repeating itself, Should I still try to have a relationship with my Dream Girl?
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reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (1 March 2013):
Atsweet1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question You have helped me with these answers. I have not been that into her but we are friends. Its odd I still find her to be good looking but Im into something else at the moment. But your answers clarified alot and ease my decision of certain things also.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2013): If she's not interested in women I suggest you don't try. Continue being her friend, because if the friendship is good you might just ruin that by trying to make a relationship out of it especially when you know she isn't interested in women. Maybe over time shell end up liking you. I have a bisexual friend who was in love with her girl friend but she was straight. My friend was always there for her wether it was good times or bad times she was always there a year and a half later my friends crush finally liked her back and so they started dating and their 3 years strong. So only time will tell. Hope I was able to help, good luck :)
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