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writes:So I've been friends with this guy for about a year and a half now. Recently back in the summer things got a bit heated between us and I sent him some sexy pictures. We never got around to having sex though we did admit we would have. It's been about 7 months since and he now has a girlfriend who he cares about a lot and has been with for 5 months. I'm happy that he's happy. We finally reconnected a few days ago. He admitted to me that locked away on an external hard drive he has the pictures and some nights looks at them. I was surprised because I thought since he has a girlfriend he'd get rid of them. When I asked him why he has them he says because they are hot. I'm just wondering what your opinion is about this. I have no problem with him having a girlfriend. He's happy and as his friend that's all I want. I just want to know your opinion on this situation.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 February 2013):
 are you ok with him having them?
if not you can ask him to delete them but they are on his drive and technically there is not much you can do.
Men, even happily committed men, LOOK at other women.... (most do NOT all but most).. does not mean they are not happily committed...
the fact that he told you is a tad upsetting in that it may be his way of saying he is not really happy and wants to cheat with you....
I have to be honest if i was his GF and you two were friends and I found out he looked at dirty pictures of you I would make him choose me or you.....
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