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writes:Hi. So there is this guy an almost 2 years ago we kinda had something. But it was sorta rushed. Like we met once then kissed next an then another time slept together. He was a virgin so it was slightly weird after. Then he moved to another city for school and that was it. Now few years he's back in town and I'm wondering if this time maybe we actually form a relationship. This is what been going on....So since he been back in May we went to a friends birthday an there we drank an got drunk.ended up cuddling under a tree. But cuz I liked someone else I didn't think much of it.Fast forward a few months to December an we at another party where we have this flirty relationship. An kept touching an joking around. Then I went to his house for new years and same thing. He liked to be round me an grabbed me when he can. Later that night I crashed in his bed an we spent hours talking. He ended up waking me up in the morning because I didn't move for awhile and he wanted to make sure I alive lol. Then the next day we chilled an watched movies. A week later we together on a Friday night watching movies. That Saturday he wanted to again but I had plans so we did it on sun instead. He then asked me if I wanted to go shopping with him Monday because we were going snowboarding the following weekend. So sure enough on Monday we went shopping an he was trying hard to embarrass me but never did work. Friends who seen us said we looked like a couple. By this point I started wondering if something is forming. But I still in denial with my feelings. Then that weekend we got up early to go boarding an spent a whole day out there. He was teaching me an everything. Held my hands down the hill showing me what to do. An grabbed them every now an then after getting off the chairlift so I didn't fall. Then on the way home I blew a tire and he put on the spare an drove my car in to the dealers to help me get new tires. Then he was showing me what to look for an how to check if it needs air. After all that he invited me to his house for a party where we got drunk as usual. But this time he began making me a bed on the futon. I was confused cuz just new years we shared his bed. Why is that? Then surprisingly he wanted to go boarding the next day an he brought his friend. But he made sure he sat beside me at all times. Then the following week he came for wings with our mutual friend an her boyfriend. He wore a dress shirt. Then that Friday night we watched movies at her house and he told me to sit by him.Is all this friendly gestures or is it possible he has feelings again? Advice be greatly appreciated.Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2013): It does seem like he is trying to hint that he might want to take things further. You say you were his first and things were awkward afterwards? maybe that's why he is being rather subtle. As for making you a bed instead of sharing his, it could be because he is aware of the amount of people saying you look like a couple and then if you are denying you like him then he might feek like he doesn't want to push things too far. I think you really need to sit down and ask him straight out. If he likes you then the balls in your court. If not... then you should tell him to stop being so flirty because it's the wrong kind of attention. I.E. "friends" don't hold hands or contstantly make sure to sit together.
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