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writes:My girlfriend and I were at her house we were cooling about and she was giving me a hand job her parents are strict and against us doing anything however, while she was giving me a hand job her mother saw and called josie out of the room said that I needed to go home right away and that she was disappointed a d disgusted in both of us. What do we do?
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reader, GrYmsin  +, writes (14 April 2013):
Hey OP, I understand how you must be feeling right now. I also understand why you must have did it in the first place. My girlfriend once gave me a handjob while her mother was driving. It was night time and the car was dark and I had on sweats. We knew it was risky but I guess that's what made it more exciting. So yea I understand the adrenaline that surges through with the possibility of getting caught. Though, I can't imagine it would feel very good if you do get caught :/. Just refrain from doing it when the parents are around from now on. They can't seriously think that thier little girl wouldn't know about this kind of stuff sooner or later. Infact, these days, it's way sooner than later for most girls. It'll blow over. If she's anything like my girlfriend's mom, she'll understand that we have urges and we can be irresposible with them sometimes.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (14 April 2013):
What can you do? Think yourself really lucky her father didn't see you! The next thing you can do is keep away from her house and parents for about 5 years and then if you plan to get married you can be honourable and apologise for what happened and ask for their blessing. The other aunts have already said the rest. You did something wrong and very disrespectful and at this point there is nothing you can do to fix it. At least learn something from your mistake.
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reader, R1  +, writes (14 April 2013):
 You could apologise, make it clear that you respect them and their daughter and that it was a one off mistake. Also be the model boyfriend, ie good manners, respectful, always home on time etc. parents worry about their daughters, they are hard to win over but if you care about her you can try.
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reader, Dayzee +, writes (14 April 2013):
Are you serious? Even if I had adults visiting my house I don't want to find them having sex. If you want to have sex then don't do it where people will walk in on you. These parents sound like they are doing their job as parents.
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reader, Glacier  +, writes (14 April 2013):
Are the parents strict against you guys doing anything in their house or even anywhere?
If the former then always respect it.
If the latter, well, that's none of their business. People your age do things like handjobs all the time.
But obviously make sure there's no possibility you can get caught.
So doing this in their house was really dumb. Did you initiate it or did he ask for it?
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reader, CMMP +, writes (14 April 2013):
What is wrong with you? That is the last thing in the world a parent wants to see which is why you do it when there's no way you could get caught! From the sound of it you guys were going at it with her mom just a few feet away.
I have to say that you deserve any negative feelings her mom has. You screwed up and were being totally inconsiderate. I wouldn't even want you in my house after that; not because a hand job is wrong, but because you're so inconsiderate to do it when you could get seen by her mom.
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