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*lueless1992
writes:this is my story....i am doing my ug course currently.during my freshmen year i met this girl with whom i have been in a relationship with for the past two and half years. everything at first was magical. she was my first love and i believed her to be "the one". but one day one of our mutual friend came to me with a photo of her and some other guy saying that she was in a relationship with this guy for the past 5 years and she was just using me.i didnt believe him as the photo wasnt intimate so i asked her about it.she said he was one of her close friends and was like a brother to her.i believed her and forgot about the incident. every thing was back to normal. i never check her inbox or her mails but one day i decided to check it. in her gmail account i found that she had been constantly exchanging photos and love poems with that same guy as before. i was for her memory card and did a photo recovery in it. i found many photos of them together in it. i confronted her and asked her about her mails and photos.she told me that she had not sent the mails. she said that it was one of her friend who knew her gmail username and password. that girl was in a relationship with that guy and wanted to check his fidelity. i didnt believe a word of this yet she manipulated me emotionally. she told me that i was her everything and begged me not to leave her. she cut her finger and wrote my name in blood and sent it to me. she even decided to drop out of college. i didnt want her to ruin her life so i said ill take her back. this was the biggest mistake of my life. now i have no feelings for her. i dont trust her anymore and i know i cant spend the rest of my life with her. i told her how i felt and that i wanted to breakup with her.she got very emotional and begged me to trust her. she started blackmailing me emotionally that she will die if i leave her. i made it clear to her that i wont be manipulated by her. everything was quiet for a few days but now she has started calling me once again. i told her i didnt want to talk to her that stopped attending her calls but she wont listen. she says she wont leave me and wont stop talking to me. what should i do? i am confused and clueless. please help:( Reply to this Question
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reader, clueless1992 +, writes (14 April 2013):
clueless1992 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your advice guys. it really means a lot to me.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (14 April 2013):
You should block her in every way she has too contact you. Facebook, phone, email, etc.
She'll get the hint.
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reader, sunnywillsingh +, writes (14 April 2013):
 Dear you should slowly slowly ignore her...Ignore her calls, messages etc...show less interest in her...and ..finally get rid of her.This would be the best thing for your future...don’t make a mistake after getting emotional feelings from her...don’t trust her anymore...otherwise you will have to pay huge for that...brother....good luck
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