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writes:I'm 15 years old about to be 16 and I used to date this boy that is now 19. We broke up because he wasn't in a stable environment at the moment. We still remain extremely good friends, though. We talk almost everyday. Now, I don't know what has gotten into me but I'm starting to develop feelings for his father..? It's just something about him.. I don't know what. He's very young and handsome but I just don't know why I have these feelings for him. It's not even some normal "school girl crush". I actually am starting to really care for him. We were really close when I was dating his son (God, does that sound weird) and these thoughts never really went through my mind then. I just dont know why I'm starting to develop these feelings for him. It's a really weird situation and I need an explanation as to why I'm feeling this way. And I'd really like it if you all didn't judge me because I'm actually taking this very seriously.
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reader, Silius Sodimus  +, writes (16 April 2013):
How is your relationship with your father?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 April 2013):
 At 15 a19 yr old is too old for you much less his father.
you need an explanation as to why you feel this way... because you do. there really isn't a good reason to explain attractions. usually they just ARE what they are.
the key is there is NOTHING you should or can do about it.
you have to ignore it and not even think about ANY possibilities with your crush. And it is a crush. At least it better be.
You say you are starting to REALLY CARE FOR HIM... so are you having contact with him on a regular basis?
what is making you really start to care about him all of a sudden.. what has changed?
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reader, R1  +, writes (14 April 2013):
 An explanation as to why you are feeling this way? Well he is like your boyfriend who you were attracted to and had feelings for yet he is more mature and experienced. Perfectly natural to feel this way. I could suggest you have father issues, but at the moment it just sounds like a harmless crush.
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