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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Is my ex confused about his feelings for me?. One of my exes friends told me a while ago that my ex said that he regrets that we broke up and that he likes me. My ex has text me and called me sometimes, asking how i am and what i have been up to. I went out last weekend and i saw one of his other friends. He remembered me from when i went out with my ex, even though i had only met this friend once. He told me that he would tell my ex that i had been asking about him. My ex called me on Sunday, but i missed the call. He called again on Monday and we had a chat. He told me that his friend had told him that i had been asking about him. He also asked if i was going out at the weekend. I said i was and i asked if he was. He said more than likely he was. He said he would call me later in the week to arrange to meet up, but he didn't. I sent him a text message yesterday, asking if he was going out, and he said he was going out, but he didn't tell me where he was going. I told him where i was, but i didnt get a reply. He came into the same bar that i was in, after i had been in there for a couple of hours. He had been in another bar before that. His friend ( the one who i saw last week ) said that my ex is shy, and said that my ex still likes me, but he feels that he cant go out with my because he doesnt have much money. My ex didnt speak to me for a while at first, so i was talking to his friend for a bit.My ex bought me a drink. After a while, his friend went home. I went to another bar with my ex then. He bought me a drink again. I ended up telling him that i still like him, and he said he likes me too. There was a bit of silence, and then he said he didn't want to be cruel, but he doesn't think he can have a relationship ( i cant remember exactly how he worded that ). He also asked if he had upset me. I said he hadnt ( even though i was upset ). I felt a bit stupid for telling him how i felt. I was seeing someone else, but we broke up recently. He said he thinks i still have a boyfriend though. He said he wanted me to go back to his place and cuddle, and he said he would like to have sex with me. I told him that i didnt want to have sex with him, as we arent in a relationship. He said how do you know i dont want to be with you ( er, he just told me lol ). I said he might not talk to me again if we have sex with each other, and he said of course i would, what kind of a person do you think i am ?. He also kissed me on the lips. We got the same taxi home. He gave me a bit of money towards the taxi fare, and he said he would text me again soon, and told me to take care. As he was getting out the taxi, i heard him say under his breath that he thinks i want to choose my ex that i broke up with recently. So, either his friends have been lying to me, or he is denying how he really feels. What do you think?.
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reader, millonbitsu +, writes (14 April 2013):
Just don't go there. If you and your ex really did have serious feelings for each other it more than likely would have worked the first time around, stop playing games. Listening to rumors and confessing your feelings for each other whilst out drinking is never a good idea. His friends sound like they are gossiping and only you and your ex should be involved in your feelings for one another, no one else. You're never going to know exactly how he feels by listening to others and you said something that you immediately regretted, and your conversation with him left you upset. I also find it laughable that he made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship right now, but was eager to sleep with you. It's good that you didn't give in to the temptation, but it sounds like he's after one thing, and he doesn't come across like a good guy who is serious about getting back together with you. I'd stere clear of him if I was you and focus on moving on. You don't say in your question why you guys broke up in the first place but it must be for a good reason? And you don't mention that you had good times with him or missed him either. If you're lonely, wait, someone better will come along. Good luck :)
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