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He has health issues and his has POA over him. Why does he defer to his sister so much? Why can't he spend more time with me instead?

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Question - (14 April 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2013)
A female United States age , *ashful3 writes:

I like my boyfriend who is my neighbor.

His mom lives with him she has health problems and he suffers with seizures.

I do feel that she baby's him a little too much. My problem is this afternoon his sister came, went with his Mom and they went out. He always takes a nap due to his medications.

Well it was like about 6 when he came up. I understand she may need his help trying to get something she is short but it started bothering me.

I think he called me a little after 3. But did he need to stay down there the whole time?

His sister is his Power of Attorney (POA) and helps out with things to do with his Mom.

Also their aide says the sister is letting her nursing experience go to her head and wants to control things. I only speak to her but can see some things.

I am tired. Well he just left it going on his nine, saying he was going down.

Sat out waiting until his mom came.

I go get my rest too.

Well here I go again. Is that strange. Why come up and stay only a short time?

I do wonder do. They tell him to do things.

How do I cope with this and stop thinking things

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A female reader, Dayzee Australia +, writes (14 April 2013):

Q: does he ever take you out? It doesn't sound like youu have a healthy relationship with him. And it sounds like his relatioonship with his own family is pretty toxic.

Can you create some opportunites for yourself to get out and meet other people, maybe join a club. I don't understand why you are accepting these scraps of his time and attention.

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