A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have decided to make some changes in my life such as stopping drinking and trying to love myself more so I dont get involved with losers which just leads to getting used and abused. My concern is that I won't know how to communicate with the people in my life, the ones I used to drink with. I don't know how to find the balance of being able to not go back to drinking while in their company, but still having a relationship with them. Do I just cut them off and hope they realise i'm trying to better myself so I cant associate with them anymore? I guess if they are real friends they will understand. I just wish I could stand by my decisions without feeling like I have to be a certain way to have friends. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, R1  +, writes (14 April 2013):
 You may need to find other friends, or spend more time with others. No one is saying these are bad people but you need to do what is best for you.
|
