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writes:Dear Cupid, What does it mean when a guy seems excited to see you but then cancels on you for a stupid reason? So there's this guy I met in high school and we liked each other alot back then and admitted we liked each other. We were also good friends but long story short he moved away and i didn't see him for 5 years. So now hes back in town and we've became friends again we talk a lot on the phone and through texts.But we haven't talked about the past or a relationship. He's always asking to hang out with me,but its always very short notice and when i cant make it he seems really dissapointed. Im not sure if he has feelings for me but by how often we talk and his actions give me an idea he might. So today i told him if he wasn't busy I'd come over.He seems really excited i was comming over and we planned the whole day but then a hour later he texted me and said he was gonna go hang out with one of his guy friends at the mall and sent a sad face [:(]. I'm really mad about this because he made plans with me first! I understand we are just friends right now but its just strange how he switched from being excited and planning what we were gonna do today too blowing me off ? Maybe I'm over reacting because I still have a huge crush on him? And even though we are just good friends why is his other friend more important than seeing me and he hasn't saw me in forever and he can see him anytime. So should I be mad ? What is your opinion about this situation?
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reader, CuriousGirl616 +, writes (21 April 2013):
CuriousGirl616 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks your all right. I'm pretty much over him now, if i cant be a priority in his life i guess he wont be one in mine.But thanks to all of you..
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 April 2013):
 It means he is interested but..... you are NOT his first priority.
HE KNOWS you have a crush on him, so he also KNOWS that you will probably stick around even if he treats you like that.
So it's really UP to you if you want to be treated this way or not.
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reader, Dayzee  +, writes (14 April 2013):
You asked what it means. It means he at the least he is bad mannered and inconsiderate. It also means that if he does like you, it's not as much as he likes his mates.
Please don't be silly enough to continue seeing this guy. Guess what a bad boy becomes. A bad man. And you can ask anyone who knows. They make bad, selfich husbands.
Do you want a selfish boyfriend who puts you last? Get out while your heart will still let you.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (14 April 2013):
 Lol typical. Girls always wanna be a priority n want all the attention. If they dont get it they chase. Its in ur psychology. Now granted ur still interested in him this is just a flag. Is he wanting to commit? Is he ready for a reltshp? Him blowing u off hints at no bc he was rude in making plans with u first n not seeing u. Dont go off at him. Theres no reason. Ask him if hes ready to date or ready to play? Good luck
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