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What are some of the things I could try to encourage my bi-sexual Significant Other to be more demonstrative and verbally expressive during love making?

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Question - (30 October 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 November 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So here is the situation my SO and I have a great relationship and he is bisexual and I'm ok with that

we have a good time talking about different things and I'll admit it makes watching chick flicks and going clothes shopping a lot easier lol

But here is the thing. My SO is silent in bed and it drives me kind of nuts because moaning is a huge turn on for me and hearing only myself isn't. So I asked my SO the other day how come he is so silent in bed and he told me that he has always been like that and that the only time he moans is when he is taking it up the ass.

Well obviously I lack that part to do so, and yes we have tried a strap-on but it was so awkward and just overall wasn't working out.

I even asked him if it is because he doesn't enjoy the sex with me and he told me he does it's just he only moans with anal.

So my question is what are some things I could try to I don't know I guess make him more excited to the point he moans while he are intimate?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2012):

sex is different for every person, and each is turned on by something ekse. but try sucking on his nipple or earlobe while having sex. u could also try playing with ur own breasts or which always gets my bf moaning.

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