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writes:I am 20 years old and still a virgin. I should also start by pointing out that I'm not fat or ugly, in fact I'm blonde with big boobs (both of which are real), a small waist and really good skin (I swear I'm not super up myself). I've dated (but not a lot), and have never had a real boyfriend. I can be somewhat shy. I only seem to get hit on by really icky guys. I'm not overly prudish nor overly religious or anything like that. Three questions: is there something wrong with me? Am I being to picky? do guys find it a turn off if you're so inexperienced at my age?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2012): I lost my virginity at 21. No one never told me there was anything wrong about it.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (30 October 2012):
 You just sound like you've been picky. That's not a bad thing, it just sounds like you've refused to settle for just whoever comes along, and that's a good thing.
If you feel like only icky guys hit on you, then you need to be more proactive in approaching the guys you want. Ask out who you want. You don't need to wait for them to approach you, sometimes the shy guys are the best.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (30 October 2012):
 Hiya doll. No definitely not a turn off. In fact, I think it speaks good of your character if you have morals like that. The reason why prudish men go after you is bc they sense you are shy, inexperienced with men, and inexperienced with mens personalities so sensing this they take try to take advantage of you thinkin u could be easy. To steer these men away portray a solid self confidence n dont tolerate any of their behavior not one bit if they are very rude to you. Use ur instincts and im sure u do.. u can generally feel when a guy is off.About ur large rack. Its a turn on I assure you. esp for a guy like me :).. dumb men will approach you and talk about ur looks instantly be it compliment or not. Thats ur filter right there.. men who do that are pigs and disrespectful towards women. Use your boobs to your advantage tho.. use them to literally "stick out" amongst ur peers cause youll attract men easily with looks and from there you can look for what guys approach you well and are genuine and what guys are only after it! The more interactions you have with men the more experienced you will be and the better youll be at choosing a solid mate.
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