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writes:Hey everyone, I had a general question to ask.A little backstory: I'm dating someone, but we're not bf/gf. Both 17 and seniors in high school. I asked her out and she said she needed to hang out with me a little more. Two months later as I yesterday she tells me she can't handle a serious relationship right now. That came after I was blown off by her several times and a week of not seeing each other or texting. She came out of the blue and asked if I could go to a movie with her but I couldn't because I had work. She asked why I hadn't gotten ahold of her and I told her I wasn't sure if she wanted me to talk to her anymore and I asked what she thought about our relationship and she tells me she can't handle it. I told her it was fine and we proceeded to text and watch the giants roll over the tigers on Sunday (baseball). It ended up being a late game and she watched it untill 12:30am and we still texted the whole time then she signed off. Behavior like that doesn't tell me she doesn't want to see me anymore or be with me. Understanding the context of what she has to deal with right now ( overbearing parents, school and college stuff) I truly believe that she is a busy person as am I. She still texts, talks and asks about all of the stuff in my life and I do the same.So my question is... Is this girl worth waiting on? I think so because I understand all of the circumstances because I personally deal with them too. Timing seems to be my biggest enemy here so will waiting fix that? Thanks for any feedback! I appreciate it!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (31 October 2012):
 I get the sense that she's toying with you... just keeping you around for the ego stroke...
she's probably not that into you...
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (30 October 2012):
 HI
I think your a good friend to her and in time when things settle in both your lives she could be the girl for you and you the guy for her. Just keep being there for her as a friend, support her when you think she needs it, no pressure or asking about how she feels about a relationship. As this can be a turn off. I think she maybe worth waiting for, but I wouldn't wait for more than 3 months to be honest, you need to have a life and be able to date and have fun, so don't put your life on hold for too long ok :)
Mandy x
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reader, Kozak117 +, writes (30 October 2012):
 she sounds like shes playing you slightly, but then again the chase is always the most exciting part of a relationship, but just keep on going , dont consider it as waiting for her, just continue on with your life and if she comes to you she does if she doesnt then she doesnt :)
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