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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone. I am a 17 year old female who is bisexual. Around the beginning of September my friend had started taking this girl to school with us in the morning. I had thought nothing of it until her and I actually began talking. We have gotten closer these past three weeks. We hang out everyday, we're very open with each other. Over fall break we were with each other for five days, not apart once. Anyway, when we had first met I jokingly sent her a text saying, "Want to make out?". By surprise, her reply was "Yes." I asked again maybe two more times. At first, I thought she was just joking, and in a way I was. She ended up telling me she was being serious the whole time. We decided to be 'Friends with Benefits' for about a week, then she felt awkward about it because she didn't know me that well. I asked her if she likes me and she said "In a way I do, but in a way I don't know." We stopped being Friends with Benefits, but every-once in a while we will still kiss, such as today I said, "Can I kiss you?" and she said "Yes". I hugged her before I left her house today, kissed her, hugged her once more, then pulled her face towards mine and kissed her one last time. I am afraid to ask if she has any feelings for me, so I would like to know what you guys think. Do you think she may actually like me? Is she afraid to be into girls?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2012): Well hun in my experience i would think she was jus testing the waters to see what it was like to be with a girl. Not knowing that much about her about i cant say for sure, however would say have a lil more faith in yourself and dont hang ur hat on someone that isnt going to give you want you need. Chalk it up to experience and move on, if she wants you she will come after you x
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reader, iargwath  +, writes (31 October 2012):
 Understanding and making sense of sexual orientation is a very difficult thing for some people. For some people, its a complete gray area for a while. If I were to base my comment on yours and this girl's age, I'd say that it is very likely she is in the gray area (unsure of her orientation). I know of some women who are in my age group that still don't know how to define their sexuality. Its obvious that there is some attraction between the two of you (because you spend time with one another, have kissed etc...) But I'd be a little careful about getting too emotionally involved with this girl. Its clear she is in the gray area, and that she doesn't quite know what her feelings might mean yet. This will only cause confusion for you. If you think you can, perhaps talk to her about it? Best of luck to you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2012): Well hun in my experience i would think she was jus testing the waters to see what it was like to be with a girl. Not knowing that much about her about i cant say for sure, however would say have a lil more faith in yourself and dont hang ur hat on someone that isnt going to give you want you need. Chalk it up to experience and move on, if she wants you she will come after you x
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