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writes:Hey all!I was just wondering if you guys have any tips for lasting longer? I don't finish quickly all of the time but sometimes I'm done in a couple of minutes. It doesn't really bother me or my girlfriend but I figure it would be a lot better if I lasted longer every time.Thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2012): The masterbating thing never worked for me, only made it worse. As well try to cut off any porn and cut back on masterbating, save you energy for your girl. When you do masterbate try using your imagination and don't just jerk off with the intent of an orgasm. Like I said, look up edging and a kegel routine. I had bad premature ejaculation problems, 2 minutes was good for me. Fortunately for me, I have a down to earth doctor who advised me what I'm telling you. After a year of no porn and limited masterbating, I have mastered my kegels and can have multiple dry orgasms and ejaculate on command now. If she needs an hour she gets that. Now I get tired before I need to cum. You need to re boot your sexual mindset, and not go into sex or masterbating with the intent of an ejaculation.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (5 November 2012):
 Go twice in a row. From what I've seen that seems way more effective than the masturbating beforehand thing. In fact I've never actually seen the masturbating before thing work. At all. At least not for anyone in your age backet.
When you get close, stop moving for awhile and give her oral or stimulate her with your fingers until you're not close anymore. Think about things that stress you out when you start getting close too. Stress is a huge libido killer. The men who can last a long time aren't just going constantly and able to hold off, they know when to stop moving for a minute or two and when to take breaks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2012): First of all give up porn!! Look into a kegel routine and edging. With enough practice you will be able to cum on command and possibly be multi orgasmatic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2012): A tactical wank used to work for me when I was your age. Have a wank a few hours before you're going to have sex. That helps.
But the best of all is male kegels, google it, you can train that muscle to be strong enough to hold it in like you would if you had to stop a piss midstream.
You've probably tried that before well I can tell you once you've trained that muscle up and can hold it in you can make your orgasms amazingly intense and long lasting, think of the point where you're just about to ejaculate and imagine being hold that feeling, it's intense and when you finally release it's an insane release.
I've never actually tried a cock ring but maybe that would work if you're too lazy to do kegels.
Plus Op you're young, you could just go again after the first time by doing plenty of afterplay until you can get and erection again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2012): When you start (not when it's already there) to feel that urge coming on to ejaculate, pull back, pull out and do something else for a few minutes, like focus on her body and pleasuring her...rinse and repeat...and then after a few times of this, you can prolong the pleasure, experience and when you just can't take it anymore....then let it go! She can also help with this as well...oral sex, but pull back when you are getting close (but you need to tell her), her using her hands, same thing, calm it down when you are getting closer and then finish with intercourse.It doesn't bother her now, but eventually it will, so work on it. Women want the pleasure as much as men do (sometimes quickies, but not every time), so spend time focusing on her a little more and you will start to see a change in how you are performing.Also, if you pleasure her first until she's done, then you come in with intercourse, she will mind even less if you are only a few minutes...believe me.Hope this helps...I was that age once with men your age, and it worked for them. Practice, practice, practice ;-) Good luck!
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (5 November 2012):
 Wear a condom with desensitizing lube.
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