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writes: Hey…remember I talked about going to spend christmas with a boyfriend i really do not like so as to stay away from my fathers house. He said we are no longer staying in his house this december. He brought up a suggestion that we should hangout in a hotel in another state on this coming saturday and he's making me pay for half the cost. This would be our first official outing and I have a feeling he will want sex… I cannot and would not do it but I also want to go out because I really have been restricted at home. What should I do? I also am not a saint. I talk so dirty to him and that's perhaps why he thinks I am not a virgin. I can't tell him I am because I think he's not worth it but I still want to be with him till I finish University next year. Should I go out with him and tell him I am a Virgin or I shouldn't?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (5 November 2012):
 If you don't want to be with your Father for Christmas and not really with your BF I suggest you find some other family to be with or stay on your own.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (5 November 2012):
 Wow... is this the clearest example that some women are terrified of being alone?
Here is a hint... if you want to be away from your fathers house and your bf is making you pay for half the cost of the hotel... GO ON YOUR OWN AND PAY FOR A SINGLE ROOM YOURSELF!
Dragging a guy along who you don't want but you just can't stand the thought of being single.
There are words for that.
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reader, Lady in Love  +, writes (5 November 2012):
 Hay,Nothing is worth making love with some guy you don't love, and just for a record you seem a very clever girl and clever girls knows how to be sexy and catch a man that is worth spending time with.If you have to escape home, go to your girl friends home, ask a friend out but, simply don't put your self in so much trouble.On the other hand, the boyfriend you're currently with is probably aware of your situation at home,and just sticking with you and giving all that back up shows love, and i think you must stop thinking of him as an escape tool and try to respect his feelings as well.Wishing you all the best.
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