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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hy. Let me ask you this : what would you do if you had a family but never took a family photo with them, if you had parents who live in the same house but fight everyday, if your friends are 'not.so.good.friends' , if everybody just throws dirt around the house and nobody wants to clean the mess, if your mother is always complaining about everything (including your dad), if your dad doesnt really care about what you do or dont, if you like to travel but never will because of your parents, if you're reminded everyday that you're a BIG, if you were a good singer who loves music but were chased out of the choir because you're BIG, if you are always not sure of yourself, if you were pressurized to lose weight(i weigh 75kg) and if you always went for the wrong guys while the right guys are there. Please tell me what you would do.
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?]  +, writes (25 November 2012):
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) Listen to me, you may not think it will be easy 7 maybe it won't be but you have to try and talk with them. Have a family meeting you need t let them know how you feel. Being pressured to lose weight and feeling you have to try to please them is an awful way to live. I do not think at all you are "BIG", I think you are a beautiful young lady. You need to believe in yourself, if you want to pursue a career in singing then go for it. And you can always lose weight, it can go away, it's not like it can't. You just have to work at it, going out for walks will help you feel good because it releases endorphins. So try that but first off you need to talk with your family. Please do it, unless you don't want the help and you'll keep feeling lousy and that's not good. Seek the help, please. Be good to yourself too, stop neglecting your body, you are a good person. Let me know if you need anything else babe. ?
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