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writes:My friend split from her first boyfriend a month ago, they were together for 15 months and she is obviously finding it hard to deal with. She has recently said she is starting to feel abit better and realising she can move on, however she messaged my friend today saying this.."he told me he doesn't want a relationship yet he's already trying to chase this girl. I'm confused, help me"I know she will come to me for advice also but I don't know how to handle the situation or what to say to her..any advice?
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reader, DV1  +, writes (25 November 2012):
 I know where you're coming from. You move on, and you get on with your life, but then you see that they've really moved on, and you realize that you really hadn't, that you'd just been keeping yourself busy... He might not be trying to be in a relationship with the new girl, just trying to get sex, which is very likely...
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (25 November 2012):
 Tell her to move on, offer her your shoulder to cry on, and help her distracting herself doing something new or fun.
There is nothing to be confused, it's a well known fact that " I don't want a relationship atm " actually means " I don't want a relationship with YOU atm ". It may be that he prefers to stay single and play the field , or that he is tryng to " upgrade " and he WOULD have a relationship with someone better, anyway she is out of the game. Encourage her to move on for real, - if they are broken up they are broken up, what's the point in wondering what the EX means or wants or desires ?
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